So I met this woman a couple weeks ago at the pub and we sort of hit it off. She had been eyeballing me all evening, I took note, and eventually she approached me and we spent the remainder of the night together. At closing time, she asked if she could come home with my roommate and I to continue the festivities at our place, which I of course answered yes. One thing led to another, etc. and I ended up taking her back home the next morning.
I called her a few days later, prior to my trip to NJ, and worked out a time to see her earlier this week. I took her out to a nice little place and had a lovely dinner and a few drinks. At the end of the "date" I had come to the conclusion that I really wasn't interested in making a long term relationship out of this, or even a short term dating thing either. I explained that to her and she didn't seem to take it so well. She was a little pissed, said some less than attractive things, and stormed back into the pub where I had picked her up. I stood outside for a bit, smoking a cigarette and eventually she came back out and apologized.
We sat outside for a time while I explained where the two of us stood. Looking at her, I think she understood but for some reason at the end of the night she still wanted to go home with me. Best I can figure is that her former SO of eight years wasn't able to give it to her the way she liked it and she's just in it for the sex. I suppose that I shouldn't have a problem with that but the way she acts is almost like she's in denial that I'm not interested in courting her.
So really, the advice I'm looking for is how do you dump a girl that you aren't dating that totally has hots for your junk? I've never had a physically based relationship with a woman that did not also involve at least some level of romantic intimacy so I'm a little in the dark about these things.