It's a dating site. Not porno.
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il learn ya a bit.
its not professional. get enough of them, and even if its not personal, you can show a pattern suggesting it is personal.
it IS legally considerd harassment. and any type of personal harassment at work is considered sexual harassment weather it has anything to do with sex or not. for instance, a boss constantly asking you out on a date is sexual harassment, weather he wanted to have sex with you or not.
another example closer to home. an employee intentionally gets his vacation time taken away from him because his immediate supervisor does not like him. believe it or not, that still falls under sexual harassment. any type of personal harassment is sexual harassment.
a group of guys at work trash your locker, and eat your lunch every day. sexual harassment.
the good part, the negative implications of a sexual harassment suit, weather it has anything to do with sex or not, is such a stigma, most companies will settle just to keep it out of court adn thus off of public record.
save them. encourage more. when its time to go, go with a bang.