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#52 Jul 25 2006 at 6:59 PM Rating: Good
Yes!

You know, I went to dictionary.com even and tried all sorts of spellings and none were returned so I gave up. But thanks, Sam.
#53 Jul 25 2006 at 8:56 PM Rating: Excellent
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Dont listen to a thing ShadowRealm has to say.

That's as far as I got in your post before I fell out of my chair laughing.

Anywho, after a whole day to think over my situation (in a sober state of mind), I have come to realize that most of my problems are self-manifested. I've decided to make conscious effort to actively pursue objects of my desire, while still trying to maintain my personal morality.

Thanks are in order to the majority of you for you advice. The rest of you can **** yourselves right back to the **** that you ****** in on.
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#54 Jul 25 2006 at 10:13 PM Rating: Good
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Damnit learn to break the swear filter. I need to know where I am going.
#55 Jul 25 2006 at 11:41 PM Rating: Decent
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QFT.

Easily the most accurate thing you have ever posted.
#56 Jul 26 2006 at 12:06 AM Rating: Decent
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NephthysWanderer the Charming wrote:
Nice guys finish last


Unless they're inconsiderate jerks, nice guys DEFINITELY finish last. Smiley: sly

Seriously. Take that advice. Learn it, live it, love it.
#57 Jul 26 2006 at 9:43 AM Rating: Good
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News flash dipsh*t: What a woman defines as "Nice" is all that matters within the confines of this thread.

And what a pile of pseudo-intellectual rationalizing horse sh*t that article is. When you got to put down the other guy and misinterpret his every action before you try to emulate them and then demonize woman before you can get the courage to talk to them you got some serious psychological problems. There is no reason to disregard whatever shred of humanity and ethics you have left just to try to score. Just speak up for dog's sake. And be nice about it you stupid ***.


Listen jackass, I wasn't putting down the poster . I posted something that helped me a while back understand the term nice, what it meant and how inapplicable it is if you want to ever be successful with girls-in my own experience.

Before you get all whiny again, read:

All the girls I know personally and have randomly talked to at parties or other social gatherings about the subject (and I literally mean all) have stated they like a guy who can stand up for themsevles and likes to take charge. Now that doesn't fit the typical role of a nice guy. A nice guy usually doesn't take the iniative when the first opprotunity for either mutual sex or fooling around arises and gets cast into the friends realm.

I've been on both sides of the coin and speak from experience that if you like a girl and you feel that she likes you and you don't do jack sh*t about it, then jack sh*t is what's going to get done. Another night you get polish yourself off and think about how unfair it all is and how girls only want a$$holes and blah, blah, blah. The point is you don't get the girl.

Oh and;

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When you got to put down the other guy and misinterpret his every action before you try to emulate them and then demonize woman before you can get the courage to talk to them you got some serious psychological problems.


What pile of pseudo-intellectual rationalizing assumption horse sh*t did you wade in and pull that out of? How long have you had an Internet? Don't you know assuming you know something about someone on the internet is the sinful equivalent of kicking Jesus in the nuts?

And finally look at your post. Your not being nice are you? And what do you get? A golf clap. Do you think if you had stated your thoughts in a nice manner trying not to offend me you'd have recieved the same acknowledgement?

What's this world coming to when you can't even post something on a forum and not have someone misinterpert it.

Har.











Edited, Jul 26th 2006 at 4:45pm EDT by MykalonSylph
#58 Jul 26 2006 at 10:07 AM Rating: Good
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Listen jackass, I wasn't putting down anybody (as you admonish me for something your attempting to do with your post). I posted something that helped me a while back understand the term nice, what it meant and how inapplicable it is if you want to ever be successful with girls.


I'll confess I hadn't actually read the quoted article, ahehe. It was okay until the last couple paragraphs.

I do think it's a bit of overanalyzing though. If you ask me there's sway to either side of things, whether you play the "nice" guy, or really assert yourself. Depends on the girl and her mood, and responding to that is a skill that has to be honed. I don't think that the "immasculating" tendencies that the article cites nice guys for having are really on target. It really is just a matter of taking initiative.

So I suppose its just a different means to the same end.

Edited, Jul 26th 2006 at 11:12am EDT by Eske
#59 Jul 26 2006 at 11:29 AM Rating: Good
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Meh, what do you want with those used goods, Demea? She gives it up for every one of your drunken friends and you still think it's Massingale fresh? Uh-uh, dude. Stop shopping at the thrift store.

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#60 Jul 26 2006 at 11:44 AM Rating: Good
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hos and tricks



and is it me, or does there seem to be more sluts than ever before?
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#61 Jul 26 2006 at 11:47 AM Rating: Excellent
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You're just gettin' old, Kelvy.
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#62 Jul 26 2006 at 4:26 PM Rating: Excellent
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#63 Jul 27 2006 at 11:08 AM Rating: Decent
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Sh'itty...I wrote a great psot and it got eaten.

Bascially it went....Git, you're a moran. Your "tell her your feelings" crap is the WORST advice you could possibly give.
All you'll do then is move him from the nice guy, to the creepy guy who likes me, but he's nice.

Keep your mouth shut, show her don't need/care about her or her dirty ******, and she'll come running.
#64 Jul 27 2006 at 11:23 AM Rating: Good
NephthysWanderer the Charming wrote:

Keep your mouth open, but not too much, and put it on her dirty ******, and she'll *** runny.



Sound advice.
#65 Jul 27 2006 at 11:23 AM Rating: Good
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NephthysWanderer the Charming wrote:
Keep your mouth shut, show her don't need/care about her or her dirty ******, and she'll come running.
Take Nepthy's advice, and you too can knock her up right before you marry.
#66 Jul 27 2006 at 11:44 AM Rating: Decent
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The Glorious Atomicflea wrote:
NephthysWanderer the Charming wrote:
Keep your mouth shut, show her don't need/care about her or her dirty ******, and she'll come running.
Take Nepthy's advice, and you too can knock her up right before you marry.


Coming from the girl who got her **** stolen by her live-in druggie internet bf and then found another internet guy to move in with.

You don't get to say sh'it.

Girls are retarded. Find something else better to do and the right one will come along while you're enjoying other things in life.
#67 Jul 27 2006 at 11:55 AM Rating: Excellent
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#68 Jul 27 2006 at 12:01 PM Rating: Good
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Neph wrote:
Girls are retarded. Find something else better to do...


You heard it, folks. Find something better to do than girls.

I couldn't help it.
#69 Jul 27 2006 at 12:02 PM Rating: Good
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NephthysWanderer the Charming wrote:
Coming from the girl who got her sh*t stolen by her live-in druggie internet bf and then found another internet guy to move in with.

You don't get to say sh'it.
Original. If anything, I get to say whatever I want becuse
a)being me rocks, and
b)I'm not touchy about it, unlike you. Smiley: laugh God, Nepth. Does it get old being such a grouch? Go knock up your wife again. You were much more likeable when your sac was empty.
#70 Jul 27 2006 at 2:04 PM Rating: Decent
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The Glorious Atomicflea wrote:
NephthysWanderer the Charming wrote:
Coming from the girl who got her sh*t stolen by her live-in druggie internet bf and then found another internet guy to move in with.

You don't get to say sh'it.
Original. If anything, I get to say whatever I want becuse
a)being me rocks, and
b)I'm not touchy about it, unlike you. Smiley: laugh God, Nepth. Does it get old being such a grouch? Go knock up your wife again. You were much more likeable when your sac was empty.


I thought we were on the same page with originality, as the "wife got knocked up" was only...umm...over a year ago.

What's this being a grouch thing? I was never likeable, nor did I ever try to be. Never kissed *** on the forum.
That's just how I roll. Beehotch.
#71 Jul 27 2006 at 2:07 PM Rating: Good
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NephthysWanderer the Charming wrote:
I thought we were on the same page with originality, as the "wife got knocked up" was only...umm...over a year ago.
It's not the length of time so much as the milking of it. I still have a couple of tugs in me. I suppose you know what that's like.

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I was never likeable, nor did I ever try to be.
Well, I assume your mother likes you. And your wife. That's why she let you fulfill her dream of a shotgun wedding.



There's that other tug. That's how I roll, byeeotch.
#72 Jul 27 2006 at 2:37 PM Rating: Decent
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The Glorious Atomicflea wrote:
NephthysWanderer the Charming wrote:
I thought we were on the same page with originality, as the "wife got knocked up" was only...umm...over a year ago.
It's not the length of time so much as the milking of it. I still have a couple of tugs in me. I suppose you know what that's like.

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I was never likeable, nor did I ever try to be.
Well, I assume your mother likes you. And your wife. That's why she let you fulfill her dream of a shotgun wedding.



There's that other tug. That's how I roll, byeeotch.


You can see what I heard out of that.

Shotgun wedding thing doesn't hold water....invites were sent, dress, everything picked out and ready. Aiden's existence was just an early wedding present.

Feel free to tug me anytime though babe.
#73 Jul 27 2006 at 2:42 PM Rating: Good
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NephthysWanderer the Charming wrote:
Shotgun wedding thing doesn't hold water....invites were sent, dress, everything picked out and ready. Aiden's existence was just an early wedding present.
You can see what I heard, as well. It's so awesome being right.

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Feel free to tug me anytime though babe.
I would, but I like a climax at the end of my efforts, and frankly, I don't regard hysterical sobbing and thumbsucking as highly as you seem to. Thanks for the offer, though. I'll keep it in mind in case I ever suffer a brain injury.

Edited, Jul 27th 2006 at 3:42pm EDT by Atomicflea
#74 Jul 27 2006 at 2:45 PM Rating: Decent
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DSD wrote:
I would, but I like a climax at the end of my efforts, and frankly, I don't regard hysterical sobbing and thumbsucking as highly as you seem to. Thanks for the offer, though. I'll keep it in mind in case I ever suffer a brain injury.

Edited, Jul 27th 2006 at 3:42pm EDT by Atomicflea


You're the one with the brain injury. Stupid.
#75 Jul 27 2006 at 4:51 PM Rating: Excellent
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NephthysWanderer the Charming wrote:
DSD wrote:
I would, but I like a climax at the end of my efforts, and frankly, I don't regard hysterical sobbing and thumbsucking as highly as you seem to. Thanks for the offer, though. I'll keep it in mind in case I ever suffer a brain injury.

Edited, Jul 27th 2006 at 3:42pm EDT by Atomicflea


You're the one with the brain injury. Stupid.


uhhh try again? I think those late night feedings killed the rest of your brain cells Nephypoo.
#76 Jul 27 2006 at 4:51 PM Rating: Excellent
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NephthysWanderer the Charming wrote:
You're the one with the brain injury. Stupid.
Color me chastised! Smiley: laugh
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