Samira wrote:
When all else fails, ask if she'll do ****.
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I should think that would be if all else succeeds.
In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act.
Samira wrote:
You know what makes me laugh about this is that guys (of a certain maturity level) do their own version of the exact same thing that you're all ******** and moaning about.
When all else fails, lower your standards.
When all else fails, lower your standards.
It is inversely related to the amount of sexual tension that one has. The greater the amount of tension the lower down the ranks one will go.
#30REDACTED,
Posted: Jul 25 2006 at 12:36 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Next time, just put on your wizard hat and robe...
Elderon the Wise wrote:
Next time, just put on your wizard hat and robe...
Or the Monkey Loincloth of Seduction with an added +10 to charisma.
Edited, Jul 25th 2006 at 1:51pm EDT by PsiChi
MykalonSylph wrote:
This article provided some insight for me a while ago about the whole nice guy dilemma
[quote]A whole lota *****
...and I do mean a lot of **************
[quote]A whole lota *****
...and I do mean a lot of **************
News flash ******** What a woman defines as "Nice" is all that matters within the confines of this thread.
And what a pile of pseudo-intellectual rationalizing horse **** that article is. When you got to put down the other guy and misinterpret his every action before you try to emulate them and then demonize woman before you can get the courage to talk to them you got some serious psychological problems. There is no reason to disregard whatever shred of humanity and ethics you have left just to try to score. Just speak up for dog's sake. And be nice about it you stupid ***.
GitSlayer wrote:
News flash dipsh*t: What a woman defines as "Nice" is all that matters within the confines of this thread.
And what a pile of pseudo-intellectual rationalizing horse sh*t that article is. When you got to put down the other guy and misinterpret his every action before you try to emulate them and then demonize woman before you can get the courage to talk to them you got some serious psychological problems. There is no reason to disregard whatever shred of humanity and ethics you have left just to try to score. Just speak up for dog's sake. And be nice about it you stupid ***.
And what a pile of pseudo-intellectual rationalizing horse sh*t that article is. When you got to put down the other guy and misinterpret his every action before you try to emulate them and then demonize woman before you can get the courage to talk to them you got some serious psychological problems. There is no reason to disregard whatever shred of humanity and ethics you have left just to try to score. Just speak up for dog's sake. And be nice about it you stupid ***.
GitSlayer wrote:
MykalonSylph wrote:
This article provided some insight for me a while ago about the whole nice guy dilemma
Quote:
A whole lota sh*te
...and I do mean a lot of sh*te.
...and I do mean a lot of sh*te.
News flash dipsh*t: What a woman defines as "Nice" is all that matters within the confines of this thread.
And what a pile of pseudo-intellectual rationalizing horse sh*t that article is. When you got to put down the other guy and misinterpret his every action before you try to emulate them and then demonize woman before you can get the courage to talk to them you got some serious psychological problems. There is no reason to disregard whatever shred of humanity and ethics you have left just to try to score. Just speak up for dog's sake. And be nice about it you stupid ***.
Wooh! ::golf clap:: for that one.
Someone other than the Femmes wrote:
"He is going to Moscow, and you cry out that you are glad. You said that on purpose! And you begin explaining that you are not glad of that but sorry to be- losing a friend. But that was acting, too- you were playing a part as in a theatre!"
"In a theatre? What? What do you mean?" exclaimed Katerina Ivanovna, profoundly astonished, flushing crimson, and frowning.
"Though you assure him you are sorry to lose a friend in him, you persist in telling him to his face that it's fortunate he is going," said Alyosha breathlessly. He was standing at the table and did not sit down.
"What are you talking about? I don't understand."
"I don't understand myself.... I seemed to see in a flash... I know I am not saying it properly, but I'll say it all the same," Alyosha went on in the same shaking and broken voice. "What I see is that perhaps you don't love Dmitri at all... and never have, from the beginning.... And Dmitri, too, has never loved you... and only esteems you.... I really don't know how I dare to say all this, but somebody must tell the truth... for nobody here will tell the truth."
"What truth?" cried Katerina Ivanovna,and there was an hysterical ring in her voice.
"I'll tell you," Alyosha went on with desperate haste, as though he were jumping from the top of a house. "Call Dmitri; I will fetch him and let him come here and take your hand and take Ivan's and join your hands. For you're torturing Ivan, simply because you love him- and torturing him, because you love Dmitri through 'self-laceration'-with an unreal love- because you've persuaded yourself."
"In a theatre? What? What do you mean?" exclaimed Katerina Ivanovna, profoundly astonished, flushing crimson, and frowning.
"Though you assure him you are sorry to lose a friend in him, you persist in telling him to his face that it's fortunate he is going," said Alyosha breathlessly. He was standing at the table and did not sit down.
"What are you talking about? I don't understand."
"I don't understand myself.... I seemed to see in a flash... I know I am not saying it properly, but I'll say it all the same," Alyosha went on in the same shaking and broken voice. "What I see is that perhaps you don't love Dmitri at all... and never have, from the beginning.... And Dmitri, too, has never loved you... and only esteems you.... I really don't know how I dare to say all this, but somebody must tell the truth... for nobody here will tell the truth."
"What truth?" cried Katerina Ivanovna,and there was an hysterical ring in her voice.
"I'll tell you," Alyosha went on with desperate haste, as though he were jumping from the top of a house. "Call Dmitri; I will fetch him and let him come here and take your hand and take Ivan's and join your hands. For you're torturing Ivan, simply because you love him- and torturing him, because you love Dmitri through 'self-laceration'-with an unreal love- because you've persuaded yourself."
Bode - 100 Holy Paladin - Lightbringer
Quote:
one of the few people that she can count on not to take advantage of her when she's drunk
which translates into "I like you. Make your move now. If I regret it afterwards I can always say I never would have done it if I wasn't drunk."
Demea wrote:
I need to get laid. BAD.
Nexa? Flea? DSD? Sabo? Anyone?
Nexa? Flea? DSD? Sabo? Anyone?
Ah, yes. Dostoevsky, the advice columnist.
In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act.
#39REDACTED,
Posted: Jul 25 2006 at 3:36 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Hey Mr.Oblivious! That little personal chat you guys had, was her testing the waters. You failed. You should have kissed her! Now you are in the "good friend" zone. Good luck.
#40REDACTED,
Posted: Jul 25 2006 at 3:36 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) If all else fails, roofies won't let you down! Just don't leave any marks.
girls call you "nice" when they are not interested in you and feel guilty about it. weather you tell her you like her or not, you dont stand a chance.
single girls, women want to play. they want to have fun. they want to fool around just like guys do. when they want to talk because they are feeling sorry for themselves, or want someone to convice they are a good person for whatever reason, dont fret, they will call you.
bottom line, she likes you but she doesnt want to do you. end of story. you MIGHT be able to make her feel sorry for you, or feel guilty about leaving you out and get a sympathy *****, but it wont change anything really. and before you cry foul about tricking her into doing you, remember, 20 years down the road, when you are married to someone else, you will be kicking yourself if you dont atleast try. your single. your male. it is your responsability to do it. man law 101.
some advise?
you obviously didnt win her over sexually with your personality, and it is hard to be something your not sooo, being you cant change that, change something else. the way you dress, or your body.
HIT THE GYM. girls will do you just because you have a nice body, weather they like you or not, just like a guy would to a sexy girl. they may say things about you afterwards, but that wont stop them from jumping you first. trust me, im not mr personality as you can tell, but working out regularly will 1. expose you to healthy female types, and two, give you the nod (i would do him) at first sight before you even open your mouth and ruin it by trying to speak.
dont believe me, just ask my wife, hehehehe, it was all down hill for her right after i spoke my first words to her..."i do"...hahahahahaaha jk. no im not.
"he is a nice guy" is the death sentance. it says "i wouldnt do him" and "does he have any friends?" all at the same time. nothing wrong with being the "nice guy" but it takes a little something something to get the panties off. smooth lines, sexy voice, sexy body, guarenteed discreation(girls are more worried about that than guys), whatever.
they want to have fun. they want to play. they dont want to spend their party time with mr nice especially if it looks like you might end up a "cling on". nice is for friends, nasty is for fun.
what guy wants to go out with a "nice" girl with a full length dress, thick glasses, and wants to marry them on a friday night in a town you dont live in?
girls are the same way.
even the odds. if you dont have the lines, and you cant make yourself be nasty, pump the iron. a body goes a long way. do it now. get off this web site, stop felling sorry for yourself, and hit the gym. NOW. and dont stop till after your married hahahahaha, no, really, dont stop ever, its a life changing habit.
damn i wish i knew what i know now back in high school.........
single girls, women want to play. they want to have fun. they want to fool around just like guys do. when they want to talk because they are feeling sorry for themselves, or want someone to convice they are a good person for whatever reason, dont fret, they will call you.
bottom line, she likes you but she doesnt want to do you. end of story. you MIGHT be able to make her feel sorry for you, or feel guilty about leaving you out and get a sympathy *****, but it wont change anything really. and before you cry foul about tricking her into doing you, remember, 20 years down the road, when you are married to someone else, you will be kicking yourself if you dont atleast try. your single. your male. it is your responsability to do it. man law 101.
some advise?
you obviously didnt win her over sexually with your personality, and it is hard to be something your not sooo, being you cant change that, change something else. the way you dress, or your body.
HIT THE GYM. girls will do you just because you have a nice body, weather they like you or not, just like a guy would to a sexy girl. they may say things about you afterwards, but that wont stop them from jumping you first. trust me, im not mr personality as you can tell, but working out regularly will 1. expose you to healthy female types, and two, give you the nod (i would do him) at first sight before you even open your mouth and ruin it by trying to speak.
dont believe me, just ask my wife, hehehehe, it was all down hill for her right after i spoke my first words to her..."i do"...hahahahahaaha jk. no im not.
"he is a nice guy" is the death sentance. it says "i wouldnt do him" and "does he have any friends?" all at the same time. nothing wrong with being the "nice guy" but it takes a little something something to get the panties off. smooth lines, sexy voice, sexy body, guarenteed discreation(girls are more worried about that than guys), whatever.
they want to have fun. they want to play. they dont want to spend their party time with mr nice especially if it looks like you might end up a "cling on". nice is for friends, nasty is for fun.
what guy wants to go out with a "nice" girl with a full length dress, thick glasses, and wants to marry them on a friday night in a town you dont live in?
girls are the same way.
even the odds. if you dont have the lines, and you cant make yourself be nasty, pump the iron. a body goes a long way. do it now. get off this web site, stop felling sorry for yourself, and hit the gym. NOW. and dont stop till after your married hahahahaha, no, really, dont stop ever, its a life changing habit.
damn i wish i knew what i know now back in high school.........
someone who i forgot to look at their name lol wrote:
but you've got to let the object of your desire know what's up, or you stand no chance of sinking her battleship with your fleshy torpedo.
Amen Brother... Someone put a
or the one with a huge smile like :D for me lol
#43REDACTED,
Posted: Jul 25 2006 at 4:47 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Dont listen to a thing ShadowRealm has to say. He's of the male species and he doesnt "get it". You are probally near the top of her list but she's scared to make the first move, probally thinks you dont think of her that way. You probally intrigue the hell out of her because you are one of the ONLY guys who isnt trying to ***** her brains out. I'm sure you've heard that stupid line from Whores in the City, "Mr. Big". Often the ones that we never get with but want the most become our Mr.Bigs. It is true, every girl (and probally guy) has that one that you always wonder what if. The one that took you years to get over but you still think about from time to time. Unless you want to be just a fond memory like that, MAKE THE ******* MOVE! Let her know how you feel. Some of us do want that man that will make the first move, that will tell us how its going to be and that can kiss us until we want to cry and touch us in ways we'd only ever dreamed of. If you want to be that guy, MAKE THE ******* MOVE! Kiss the girl already!
Dont listen to a thing ShadowRealm has to say. He's of the male species and he doesnt "get it". You are probally near the top of her list but she's scared to make the first move, probally thinks you dont think of her that way.
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hahahahaha, omg, dont listen to her.
dude, she was gona do your friend with you standing there. if she was "scared" you think she might have waited till AFTER you left? might have waited to sneak off with YOU?
i get it. katie knows it. she just will never admit it publically.
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hahahahaha, omg, dont listen to her.
dude, she was gona do your friend with you standing there. if she was "scared" you think she might have waited till AFTER you left? might have waited to sneak off with YOU?
i get it. katie knows it. she just will never admit it publically.
The One and Only Katie wrote:
Dont listen to a thing ShadowRealm has to say.
Really? I always thought he was the bastion of accuracy.
Someone in a language other than English wrote:
Yo pienso que
no son tan inútiles las noches que te di
Te marchas y qué
yo no intento discutÃrtelo, lo sabes y lo sé
Al menos quédate solo esta noche
prometo no tocarte, estás segura
Hay veces que me voy sintiendo solo
Porque conozco esa sonrisa tan definitiva
Tu sonrisa que a mà mismo
me abrio tu paraÃso
Se dice que con cada hombre
hay una como tu
Pero mi sitio
lo ocuparás con alguno
Igual que yo- mejor (lo dudo)
¿Por qué esta vez agachas la mirada?
Me pides que sigamos siendo amigos
Amigos para qué, maldita sea
A un amigo lo perdono, pero a ti te amo
Pueden parecer banales
Mis instintos naturales.
Hay una cosa que yo no te he dicho aún
que mis problemas sabes que se llaman tú
sólo por eso tú me ves hacerme el duro
para sentirme un poquito mas seguro
y si no quieres ni decir en qué he fallado
recuerda que también a ti te he perdonado
Y en cambio tú dices 'lo siento, no te quiero'
Y te me vas con esta historia entre tus dedos
Qué vas a hacer
busca una excusa y luego márchate
Porque de mà no debieras preocuparte,
no debes provocarme
Que yo te escribiré un par de canciones
tratando de ocultar mis emociones
Pensando pero poco en las palabras
te hablaré de la sonrisa tan definitiva
tu sonrisa que a mà mismo me abrió tu paraÃso
Hay una cosa que yo no te he dicho aún
que mis problemas sabes que se llaman tú
sólo por eso tu me ves hacerme el duro
para sentirme un poquito mas seguro
y si no quieres ni decir en que he fallado
recuerda que también a ti te he perdonado
y en cambio tú dices 'lo siento, no te quiero'
y te me vas con esta historia entre tus dedos.
no son tan inútiles las noches que te di
Te marchas y qué
yo no intento discutÃrtelo, lo sabes y lo sé
Al menos quédate solo esta noche
prometo no tocarte, estás segura
Hay veces que me voy sintiendo solo
Porque conozco esa sonrisa tan definitiva
Tu sonrisa que a mà mismo
me abrio tu paraÃso
Se dice que con cada hombre
hay una como tu
Pero mi sitio
lo ocuparás con alguno
Igual que yo- mejor (lo dudo)
¿Por qué esta vez agachas la mirada?
Me pides que sigamos siendo amigos
Amigos para qué, maldita sea
A un amigo lo perdono, pero a ti te amo
Pueden parecer banales
Mis instintos naturales.
Hay una cosa que yo no te he dicho aún
que mis problemas sabes que se llaman tú
sólo por eso tú me ves hacerme el duro
para sentirme un poquito mas seguro
y si no quieres ni decir en qué he fallado
recuerda que también a ti te he perdonado
Y en cambio tú dices 'lo siento, no te quiero'
Y te me vas con esta historia entre tus dedos
Qué vas a hacer
busca una excusa y luego márchate
Porque de mà no debieras preocuparte,
no debes provocarme
Que yo te escribiré un par de canciones
tratando de ocultar mis emociones
Pensando pero poco en las palabras
te hablaré de la sonrisa tan definitiva
tu sonrisa que a mà mismo me abrió tu paraÃso
Hay una cosa que yo no te he dicho aún
que mis problemas sabes que se llaman tú
sólo por eso tu me ves hacerme el duro
para sentirme un poquito mas seguro
y si no quieres ni decir en que he fallado
recuerda que también a ti te he perdonado
y en cambio tú dices 'lo siento, no te quiero'
y te me vas con esta historia entre tus dedos.
#48REDACTED,
Posted: Jul 25 2006 at 6:36 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Here's the equation. Girl/Guy have friendly relationship always just on that edge of being more. Guy never makes it known how she feels, believe or not girls are JUST AS AFRAID to fall flat on their face. They will toy with the one they want, but if he doesnt show his receptiveness she takes the next one in line. You have to have to have to use communication with her. She's giving all these compliments to you and saying all these things hoping you will get a clue and let her know your interested.
Sounds to me like you weren't drinking enough.
You really don't have too many options at the point you're at; drink much, much more next time you're with her, kill your friends to prove to her that you're a man, or /wrist.
You really don't have too many options at the point you're at; drink much, much more next time you're with her, kill your friends to prove to her that you're a man, or /wrist.
I can't believe not one person has suggested you make a date with her outside of the drunken hump-fest. You could manage to maintain your nice-guy ways and still get what you want. It just sounds like you're not as good at the drunken hook-up as your buddies are, and perhaps if you could get out of that environment you could be yourself a bit more and....who the fUck am I kidding?
You should go with the roofies and you and your pals can play paper-rock-scissors for pecking rights.
You should go with the roofies and you and your pals can play paper-rock-scissors for pecking rights.
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