Flea wrote:
...I found the other person intriguing physically, I then set about to explore them psychologically and emotionally...
Dead on!
Looks are more important than people realize sometimes. It's that FIRST IMPRESSION of a person that you get from the way they dress, smell, feel, etc, that makes you want to know more about them.
I've never had a one night stand: A) Because I suck @ picking up teh ladies (my micro aint' strong enough) and B) Because I'd much rather have a relationship, and college girls, generally, don't seem to want that.
I'd rather see a girl from across the room, be like, "oh, she's quite beautiful" and then go over and talk to her to get to know her. Problem is, more often than not, I'm so nice to them I get in the friends zone faster than I can realize it, and then I'm stuck.