I have a question regarding this girl I have been seeing for about the last 3 months or so. A little background first. I have taken her out to many a nice restaurant (not fancy fancy, but $40-60 range for two) and have paid for random little things we do around the city as well. On memorial day I was stuck at work all day, and asked her to hit the beach with me before sundown, since it was such a nice day. When we got back to her car a few hours later, I was kind of mentally exhausted, and didn't feel like thinking of what else we could do for the evening, and really didn't feel like shelling out any more dollars.
So far, I have been the only one to ever make any suggestions on what we should do, or where we should go. She has not extended her mental capacity beyond inviting me to her house which has a broken AC system (literally 105 degrees in there) to do the "hangout" thing, which is alright with me most of the time anyway.
So, as we sit in her car, I decided not to be the one to come up with anything, because I really didn't feel like thinking about it, and she turned into another person, and got all mad and sh*t when I put her on the spot. She thought I actually had something in mind but was trying to get her to guess what it was, which is laughable. I am suspicious to think that she just wants to do everything possible not to suggest something so that she doesn't have to spend anything (I am serious).
So, tonight I will be heading over there to her house, and we will probably end up watching TV or something and just chilling. My question is, should I stick to my guns and make this girl dedicate the 2 minutes of brain power to come up with something, or just give in and formulate my own plan of events for the night, which is easily done. I have no problem showing someone a good time, its just nice when someone takes the wheel every once in awhile ya know? Comments? And no B.S. if you please.