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I actually had a point with that. Communication in a relationship is key. I'd rather a woman tell me I utterly suck in bed than for her to 'fake it.' Why? Because at that point, I could ask her what does she want me to do to make it better for her.
If you can't tell your GF something as simple as, "Hey sweety...I would like it if you timmed a little" then you have more problems than just worrying about coughing up hairballs.
True, it may be that I'll just have to blurt it out (albeit hopefully in a more articulated fashion as I don't want her to be embarrassed). She enjoys herself while in the act, but otherwise she's fairly conservative.
I don't have a problem with being honest, simply that she can get embarrassed/offended fairly easily...and I don't want to change her shy nature either.
I mean hell, you should see when I try asking for ****.