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I think that's a little deliberately obtuse. There's a world of difference between making an observation on a patently obvious and irrefutable fact, and making an assumption about something as vague and potentially sensitive as ethnicity.
If you're allowed to make hyperbolic analogies to make your point, then so am I.
The person in question didn't know about your husband's ethnicity. All he said was that the glasses made him look more Japanesey, without knowing that he is, in fact, half Japanese. Okay.
If he'd said they made him look kinda Latino, or sort of Italian, would he have been offended? And don't say neither of you was offended in the slightest; if that were true then by your third post you would have said "Okay, just checking. I had a different take on it." Instead you're going on and on about how it really, truly wasn't appropriate, which is a PC way of saying mildly offensive.
And no, it is not AT ALL like touching someone without their permission. Had the person put his hands to your husband's face and pulled his eyes out into a slant, THAT would have been the equivalent of touching someone else without their permission.