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#27 May 15 2006 at 11:50 AM Rating: Good
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The One and Only Frakkor wrote:

Sorry to all of the mom's who got jewed out of this Mother's Day.

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What about Anti-Semitic complaints?


Sorry, DSD. Even a cup of coffee in bed to wake you up with would have been nice. Smiley: frown
#28 May 15 2006 at 11:51 AM Rating: Good
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What about Anti-Semitic complaints?


what about 'em?
#29 May 15 2006 at 11:52 AM Rating: Good
I think Mom's day went well at our house.

We started the morning with my boys and I waking my wife up at about 9:30am with an MP3 song and the required jumping on the bed by the little ones chanting "Mommy! Happy Mother's day!".

The older boys each gave their hand-crafted gifts made in school and the littlest one (not in school yet) got to give her a card that I bought.

After she had read all the cute gifts and poems from the kids, I then gave each of the boys a present to give to mommy! She then opened her first present - 2 packs of Hershey's mint sticks and a reese peanut butter cup pack. (Her favourites.) Then she opened the next gift, a Swiffer Vac. (She has been wanting one and we just put in new flooring last week.) She had to put together her new toy right away. Once I convinced her to put it down for a few minutes, she got her third gift. 4 new wood-style 10x13" picture frames with the pictures she had been wanting to mount for the past 2 months. I then presented her my card. Gotta love Hallmark, they always know the right thing to say to make the ladies tear up.

After the "moment" and lots of hugs and kisses, we packed up the family into the car and went over to the 50's style breakfast place and had a great breakfast. During our visit, at least 4 other families that we knew from our area, either neighbours or parents of kids at the school our children attend also came in for breakfast and well wishes were exchanged.

You'd think this would be enough to honour the mommy of our house? Oh no, next we went to pick up our daughter who was at her grandma's visiting and exchanged her for the 3 boys. (She was prepared, card and flowers in hand for mom!) I had to do a few things for work, so while I did my work, mom and daughter spent the afternoon playing cards (spending time). A few hours later, it was time to go out for supper! We hit a great Italian eatery (my wife's favourite food) and sat down for dinner.

The server brought the suggested wine to the table for tasting. I tasted it and sent it back; it did not have enough body for a red sauced pasta meal. She brings another bottle, of different flavour; still crap. On the third wine, (which I had to request since they did not know their wine from grape juice!), we had a good wine to sip with our dinner! This had no bearing on the evening other than this was the first time I had ever had to send back 2 bottles, so I thought I'd share!

After dinner we picked up the boys, headed hoem and called it a night. Kids in bed, mom (a bit tipsy) and dad relaxing.

Best Mother's day ever. Smiley: wink2


My only concern is that in 1 week is my 8th anniversary. I'm not sure how I'm going to make it better than her Mother's day.

Any ideas?




Edited, Mon May 15 13:00:21 2006 by Elderon
#30 May 15 2006 at 11:54 AM Rating: Good
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A sailor cap and sexy parties?
#31 May 15 2006 at 12:15 PM Rating: Decent
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Og yeah, Mother's Day. I was going to call my mom from the bus yesterday afternoon but fell asleep and forgot. Smiley: frown

Yes, I am that much of an *******. Even worse, I treated my girlfriend on her birthday last year the same way you were treated yeterday, Pikko. I have my own host of lame excuses which do nothing more than exacerbate the issue.
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#32 May 15 2006 at 12:17 PM Rating: Good
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note to men: dont make excuses. Just admit you fuc[Aliceblue][/Aliceblue]ked up, apologize, and make up for it.
#33 May 15 2006 at 12:21 PM Rating: Good
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note to men: dont make excuses. Just admit you fuc[/Aliceblue]ked up, apologize, and make up for it.
I'm sorry. I guess I fuc[Aqua]ked up. Smiley: cry
#34 May 15 2006 at 12:22 PM Rating: Excellent
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OR, state up front that you suck at remembering special days, and do nice things whenever you think of them instead of stressing about when they're due.

Alternatively, you can sign on to the "reminder plan", wherein the female in your life will agree to remind, nag, coerce, or just order the damn roses herself. Whatever works for the two of you.
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#35 May 15 2006 at 12:23 PM Rating: Decent
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Lady DSD wrote:
note to men: dont make excuses. Just admit you fuc[Aliceblue][/Aliceblue]ked up, apologize, and make up for it.

But that's all I ever do is say "I'm sorry." After a while it loses all meaning... Smiley: frown
#36 May 15 2006 at 12:25 PM Rating: Decent
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Samira wrote:
Alternatively, you can sign on to the "reminder plan", wherein the female in your life will agree to remind, nag, coerce, or just order the damn roses herself.

You just perfectly described our method of dealing with it Smiley: grin

#37 May 15 2006 at 12:26 PM Rating: Excellent
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Jawbox wrote:
Lady DSD wrote:
note to men: dont make excuses. Just admit you fuc[Aliceblue][/Aliceblue]ked up, apologize, and make up for it.

But that's all I ever do is say "I'm sorry." After a while it loses all meaning... Smiley: frown


If I thought for a second that you understood the implications of that statement, I'd call it incredibly insightful.

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#38 May 15 2006 at 12:27 PM Rating: Good
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I guess I always figured it was the kids' duty to make the day special for the mom, not the husband's.

However, now I have been learneded. Thank you. This will perhaps save me future grief.
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#39 May 15 2006 at 12:30 PM Rating: Good
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Jawbox wrote:
Lady DSD wrote:
note to men: dont make excuses. Just admit you fuc[Aliceblue][/Aliceblue]ked up, apologize, and make up for it.

But that's all I ever do is say "I'm sorry." After a while it loses all meaning... Smiley: frown


the part I think youre forgetting is the making up for it part.
#40 May 15 2006 at 12:30 PM Rating: Decent
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Samira wrote:
Jawbox wrote:
Lady DSD wrote:
note to men: dont make excuses. Just admit you fuc[Aliceblue][/Aliceblue]ked up, apologize, and make up for it.

But that's all I ever do is say "I'm sorry." After a while it loses all meaning... Smiley: frown


If I thought for a second that you understood the implications of that statement, I'd call it incredibly insightful.


I'm sorry. Smiley: cry
#41 May 15 2006 at 12:39 PM Rating: Good
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It's not the empty apology that irritates as much as the total lack of thought that goes toward the realization that you just did something that hurt someone you loved, and you're too busy bieng pissed they pointed it out to humbly ask to be forgiven.
#42 May 15 2006 at 12:43 PM Rating: Good
I second that Flea.

A couple years ago, my wife forgot my birthday. No card, no "Happy Birthday". We went to my mom's for dinner, and she was just pissed that she had to go....She never apologized for forgetting, just said "I don't understand why it's such a big deal.."

So the next year, I held of on mentioning her birthday until the afternoon. By that time she was SO pissed. I started laughing, and said "I don't understand why it's such a big deal.." She got mad, but got her presents anyway, and the next day everything was better again.

Sometimes, it really is the thought that counts...even if it is just thought about right before hand.

#43 May 15 2006 at 1:08 PM Rating: Good
The One and Only Frakkor wrote:
A couple years ago, my wife forgot my birthday. No card, no "Happy Birthday". We went to my mom's for dinner, and she was just pissed that she had to go....She never apologized for forgetting, just said "I don't understand why it's such a big deal.."

So the next year, I held of on mentioning her birthday until the afternoon. By that time she was SO pissed. I started laughing, and said "I don't understand why it's such a big deal.." She got mad, but got her presents anyway, and the next day everything was better again.
Did she "get" it? You had the perfect setup, but the worst is when the person you just "pwned" can't figure out why. Those are the people who 'get a sign'.
#44 May 15 2006 at 1:14 PM Rating: Decent
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It's not the empty apology that irritates as much as the total lack of thought that goes toward the realization that you just did something that hurt someone you loved, and you're too busy bieng pissed they pointed it out to humbly ask to be forgiven.

Ok, what did Joph do this time?




I kid. Your point is well taken: I'm a sorry excuse for a man.
#45 May 15 2006 at 1:22 PM Rating: Good
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Did she "get" it? You had the perfect setup, but the worst is when the person you just "pwned" can't figure out why. Those are the people who 'get a sign'.


Yeah, she got it. This year I had a surprise party in my pants waiting for me.
#46 May 15 2006 at 2:12 PM Rating: Excellent
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For me, you do not just give YOUR mother something for mother's day. Your wife is the mother of your children and thus this fully qualifies her for a little sentiment.

This is the day he has the chance to thank me for taking the kids to day care every morning so he can sleep in before he goes to his nice state job. For me putting a vacuum cleaner on my boobs 15 times a week so that our kids can have the best nutrition. For me working two jobs. I certainly would never expect a thank you every day or week, so this is the one time a year to give me a nice card that says he appreciates what I do for our family. I didn't expect a dozen roses. In fact, I specifically told him on two occasions (once last year when those dozen roses died the next day and once last month) that the peony is the official flower for Mother's Day and that getting only one stem would just make my day. I even sent him to pick up the peonies for his mom (which he had me order by the way) at the only florist on the island that had any left. *hint hint*

He did NOT forget it was Mother's Day, he just didn't think I needed anything and that's really what hurts the most. He did say he was sorry and he did say he messed up and he did go out at 1 am after I went to bed to go find me two roses and a card (at god knows where) in which he added a "^day after" in Happy Mother's Day. And lo and behold, they actually make cards just for wives for mother's day. /glower

DSD, I'm sorry there were two of us crying last night, it really shouldn't have happened to two of us. In a couple weeks lets plan a Father's Day revenge together.
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#47 May 15 2006 at 2:16 PM Rating: Decent
I normally get something for my mom and my grandma. If my wife and I had kids, I'd get her something too.

This year I gave my grandma (my dad's mom) a card that said "You're cool, I'm cool, apparently it skips a generation" Smiley: laugh

#48 May 15 2006 at 2:18 PM Rating: Good
My whole weekend was devoted to the Mother's Day event. It's bad enough that, being in Bermuda with a British mother, I celebrate Mothering Sunday (was March 26th this year), but no... we got to celebrate twice. So, wife's family all decided (her mom & three of her aunts) that this year, Mother's Day would be held at our house. They also suggested that I invite my mother and sister- who already got Mothering Sunday treats.

Saturday was spent cleaning the house, tidying the garden and moving miscellaneous garbage into "the corner"- a small section of yard we've reserved to put any junk when we're hosting functions. My wife (not being a mommy yet herself) cooked while I spring-cleaned. Sunday was spent getting anything we'd overlooked on Friday & Saturday, and then everyone came after four o'clock.

The food was consumed, messes were made, and everyone had a merry time until roughly 10:30, at which point they shuffled off home. My wife has informed me that her family were so impressed that they want to make it an annual tradition now. I'm both flattered and depressed at the thought.

Edit: Elderon, I can suggest a few things for your 8th anniversary if you like. I had my 8th in September, and while you will need more work (with kids, that is), it can still be done. Make advanced arrangements for a family member (or trustworthy close friend) to take care of the kids for at least one night (preferably a weekend). Depending on your budget, you can:

  • Get a dozen roses
  • Rent a limo or towncar
  • Get a couples massage session- they can be both romantic and therapeutic
  • Spend a night (or weekend) at a nearby bed & breakfast

  • Just a few ideas.

    My 10th anniversary? I'm saving up for Venice. Hopefully before it sinks too much. And hopefully I can afford it by then!

    Edited, Mon May 15 15:29:24 2006 by Wondroustremor
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    #49 May 15 2006 at 2:21 PM Rating: Good
    I got my mother a card and a gift. I got my mother-in-law a card and a gift. I got my wife a card and a gift. My son "got" my wife a card and a gift. My son "got" both his grandmothers a card. I got my sister, who is 36 weeks preggo, a card and a gift. If I don't get a hell of a father's day present, every single Bob damn one of them is cut off next year.
    #50 May 15 2006 at 2:24 PM Rating: Good
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    Your wife is the mother of your children and thus this fully qualifies her for a little sentiment.
    That's how I see it. I left out a little detail in my post. At the end of my day once everything was done and my wife felt like the Smiley: queen she deserved to feel like, I called my mom to wish her a Happy Mother's day. No card, nothing fancy. I think mother's day is all about the now, not the yesterday.
    #51 May 15 2006 at 2:29 PM Rating: Decent
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    Elderon wrote:
    I think mother's day is all about the now, not the yesterday.


    Did you kick her or just push her out of the way of importance?
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