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3. You booted Yanari for no reason.
While I've already said I handled it badly, I definitely had reasons - maybe you didn't agree with the reasons, but the reasons were valid. Her constant ragging on the guild tabard, her disdain for not wanting to wear it - ok, that was her choice. It was not my first choice either - but I felt she was hurting the guild's morale - making those who were proud to wear the guild tabard feel like sh*t. The only thing that mattered to Yanari was Yanari. She was unapologetic to the end and said whatever she felt like. I had 3 or 4 discussions with her trying to work things out. After the 3rd discussion, I thought the issue was behind us. She wouldn't let it lie, and when she wouldn't meet me halfway, I said ***** it, she's not worth keeping in the guild with that abysmal attitude. Again, I should have done it in a different manner, or had someone to mediate the situation.
I believe I did apologize for not realizing you were the guild leader.
Nice try at projecting your inability to let this drop onto me. Here's how I remember it. You finished all your written communication to me with a threat. When I sent you a note saying I'd forwarded some gifts you had given me to another guildie, very politely explaining I was uncomfortable receiving gifts from you, you responded to that letter with yet more threats.
You're right. I didn't let that drop. My original purpose in asking to chat with you was to allay some hostilities. Not long into the chat, I knew that you wouldn't accept that. As the conversation progressed you tried browbeating me into submission ever more insistantly. I don't like being bullied.
Your reasons for ejecting me from the guild have nothing to do with my jibes at the guild tabard, or my disrespectful tone with you in guild chat.
You kicked me out because I refused to say "Yes, Smoggy, I will obey you."
I'm a big girl and I was going to continue playing WoW with, or without the Asylumites as my guild tag. If I had to assume the position to the guild leader, it's not the right guild for me anyway. I believe I used very similar words in our conversation.
Gosh, I am self absorbed! The matter was concluded when you booted me from the guild, as far as I was concerned.
Nice to see you've moved on too.
Edited, Thu Apr 27 21:55:26 2006 by Yanari