As per MSN, "Duke case reopens wounds for black women&qFollow

It gets old when it's used to define women as a group and not a specific instance. It gets old when it's the knee-jerk reaction. I'm sure it rubs you the wrong way to have me think how I do.

It's pretty damn clear to you, at least. I unserstand, though. I know you heart yourself.

Make me. You know that's not why I argue, Moe. Hoping to turn me is like hoping to turn you.

And she had a ******!

Ah, a classic!! Now sing me the one about flying me to the moon.

I feel your pain.

I'd ask you to pay my fare, but then you would call me a ***** and think it's okay to rape me.

A girl protects herself in the best way she knows how.

It's shameless, the way you flirt.

I vote this as the most retarded statement ever uttered.

You haven't read the OoT forum today.

Molish, of all people you are not in a position to cry foul about personal attacks.

Ahhh, the ever so judgmental Sammy.
Do tell, why am I in no position to cry afoul for personal attacks? Have I given you too much of my special polish love lately?

I love your attention. Please, continue to validate my life with your responses.

reverse Psychology ftw!

I was following you up until the bolded section. Any time someone is forced into having unwanted sex, it's rape. It shouldn't matter if the woman is a stripper, *****, nun, mother of 3 or a 14 year old girl.

I understand what Flea and Sam are talking about also. Blaming rape on the woman tends to be a knee-jerk reaction. A woman has the right to wear or act the way she wants to without having to worry about rape. Placing any blame on the woman decriminalizes the act of rape and the rapist.

This woman is however, a *****. She's a golddigger crying wolf. I used to work for a strip club at the door. Those girls don’t go anywhere without a man by their side.


Edited, Tue Apr 18 14:23:39 2006 by fenderputy

The reason for that is, FleaJo, is that under normal civilized behavior unwanted and forced sexual intercourse with a woman is rape. However, those circumstances do not apply to this particular thread or situation. She is a prostitute. She has two kids. She is out earning money by soliciting sex from a large group of men. Sex allegedly occured. She wanted more $ than the 400 bones she was paid. The large group of men kick her to the curb, so to speak. Note that the other girl didn't have these problems. Why? Is it because she could kick 20-30 men's a$$es? I don't think so. I think it's because she was content with the deal that was offered.

Some mother, huh? Let's just hope she wasn't taking business classes at NCCU, because so far she's failing the practical application of her lessons.

Totem

Though I suspect that you're wrong, I'm not familiar enough with the case to go toe-to-toe on that one, so I'll let it be.

But I take issue with your 'prostitute =/= rape' logic. It's misguided and flawed in general.

Yes, it was her bad decision that lead up to the events, and it was also thos guys choice to rape her.(If it happened)

It seems like your saying, a guy has the right to rape if she "looks like she asking for it". Its not well you look like a good f'ck, so I have free reign over your body cause your showing cleavage and have on a mini skirt.

If a drug dealer is beaten to death by cops, it is still wrong. The cops aren't in the right because he was a drug dealer. Both sides are at fualt in this situation, if it is true.



Exactly, thats why I was like her story seems shaky, because it was only her and her friend, so it seems like they were there for something else besides dancing. She played the race card, which is stupid, which further more to me discredits her story. If it did happen, I dont think the rape was deserved, but she sure did make a bad decision.

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Are you saying that being a stipper in general is soliciting sex? If so, I can't recall ever going to a stip club and having a girl tell me "Ill f'ck you for X amount if dollars", they are there for me to look at there goodies and nothing more.

~If she had been known to solicit sex, then yes I would say she brought it on herself, still wouldnt make the rape exceptable if it happened. She put herself in a bad situation, and possible dealt with the consequences. Nothing justifies rape.

Edited, Tue Apr 18 14:53:39 2006 by kalaria

Edited, Tue Apr 18 14:52:34 2006 by kalaria