men, ALL of them work on a pryority system that only involves "3" things.....and yet you women still cant figure us out.
1. food
2. a toy
3. sex
sex takes pryority over the other 2...unless....we have just had sex, in that case, it shifts to whichever we have been without the longest.
some thinking men do manage to combine two sometimes, like eating pizza while whacking orcs on the pc, or, toys and sex, or food and sex, a few men are even able to combine all three, food, toys, and sex.
but ALL men have the same basic 3 overridding needs, of which, sex has the strongest motivation factor when gone without for a period of time, and the least wanted when we are finnished. funny that. hope you get yours before he gets his, heh.
here is the order it will happen, nicities to the kids, slam the door shut for really fast sex, order pizza while playing with his xbox. put the kids to bed, slam the door shut again for more relaxed sex, them up all night playing video games.
we are so simple, and yet, you have such problems with us. sex, a toy, and food. thats all we want. fine dinning? fancy plays? nope, just raw sex, a new toy, and food. that simple.
my advice?
put the kids with grandmaw for the day he arrives, do him hard the minute he walks in the door, order out while he plays with his toy, then do him right later that night. see the kids in the mourning.