kalaria wrote:
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What happened is she was prosecuted in two different counties. She plea bargained in the first county (they had sex at the school and at her house in this county) and got the ridiculous sentence of probation and no jail time.
What I find sad is that she got off, #1 she is a beautiful woman, #2 She had sex with a boy who was 14 yrs old. I know that is prolly every young guys dream. I think she got off because of how she looks. But, what the hell is wrong with adults wanting to have sex with a child? That is nasty as hell. If it had been a 25 yr old male having sex with a 14 yr old girl, he would be in jail no questions asked.
Here in Ga this 30 something teacher had started having sex with her son's friend when he was 15 yrs. old, when he turned 16 they got married, now she is pregnant and is facing jail time. The woman to me is no that pretty. I know that no Dad wants to hear about their little girl banging a 25 yr old. But, it is a double standard. Which shouldn't matter because grown people should not be having sex with children.
That woman is fine enough to get someone her own age to bang her, why she chose a 14 yr old, just means she as f'cking problems. (Unless she didnt know he was 14, and he didnt look 14, Im not sure if she knew, but if she did know shame on her.)
Edited, Wed Mar 22 00:05:58 2006 by kalaria It's actually a double standard for quite a few reasons.
1) A 14-year-old male who is attracted to women would not regret this having happen.
2) A 15 year old male
can overpower a 25 year old female in most circumstances, where as a 15 year old girl most likely cannot overpower a 25 year old man.
Also, why do you think god (Higher power, whatever you believe, I don't care) gave men and women the ability to reproduce at the age of 11~14? They are physically ready for it, so it's not "nasty", though a bad idea in most cases. Most people at the age they gain the ability to have children aren't
mentally ready to deal with it in our world, mainly because of social stigmas.
You say it's nasty now but what about 200 years ago? Perfectly acceptable for a 30 year old man to be with a 13 year old girl, and no one found it strange.
What makes you say it's "nasty" now? Social stigmas, nothing else, create your anxieties on this subject. If our society accepted it you probably wouldn’t care.
Also there is the fact that everyone is different. Who’s to say that
all 13-year olds aren’t physically and mentally ready to have sex?
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~Blix