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#1 Feb 24 2006 at 12:38 PM Rating: Default
This guy has the biggest balls in the world.

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Sicko "Marriage Contract" One For The Ages
Repulsive "Wifely Expectations" pact emerges in Iowa kidnap case
FEBRUARY 17--This country, as you know, is filled with the deranged. And then there's Travis Frey, a 33-year-old Iowa man who is facing charges that he tried to kidnap his own wife (not to mention a separate child pornography rap). Frey, prosecutors contend, apparently is a rather demanding guy. In fact, he actually drew up a bizarre four-page marriage document--a "Contract of Wifely Expectations"--that sought to establish guidelines for his spouse in terms of hygiene, clothing, and sexual activities. In return for fulfilling certain requirements, Frey (pictured right) offered "Good Behavior Days," or GBDs. Each GBD, Frey wrote, could be redeemed by his wife to "get out of doing the things" he requested daily. A copy of the proposed contract, which Frey's wife never signed and later provided to cops, can be found below. While we normally point out the highlights of most documents, there are so many in this demented, and very graphic, contract, we really can't do it justice. So set aside ten minutes--and prepare to be repulsed.



Contract

Do you think I could get my wife to sign one of these?
#2 Feb 24 2006 at 12:41 PM Rating: Good
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Frey's wife never signed


The only contract that she was dumb enough to sign was the marraige contract.
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#3 Feb 24 2006 at 1:00 PM Rating: Decent
The contract states clearly that unexpected **** is worth 14 good behaviour days. 14! So really, she could just surprise him with **** once every two weeks, or roughly twenty-eight times a year, and....

Damn, not even I can joke whole-heartedly about this, that's just sick. I think of him as someone no doubt addicted to ****,as that's what it seems like he wants: not so much a wife or even a concubine but a live reenactment of a thumbnail gallery.

I must say, though, the crazy font he used for headers is admirable.

Edited, Fri Feb 24 13:00:48 2006 by Barkingturtle
#4 Feb 24 2006 at 1:07 PM Rating: Good
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In fact, he actually drew up a bizarre four-page marriage document--a "Contract of Wifely Expectations"--that sought to establish guidelines for his spouse in terms of hygiene, clothing, and sexual activities.


They got it wrong. It's not a set of marriage guidelines - it's a slave contract.

There exists a subculture that takes B&D to the next level - instead of just tying someone up and "forcing" someone to do a given sex act, they extend the concepts into becoming actual masters and slaves.

Masters are demanding - it's sort of their role. Contracts of this form are sometimes used to help a slave remember what the expectations of their master are. It's not a universal; some masters simply state their expectations and slaves are required to comply.

Failure to meet with ones demands entails punishment, of course, of a form chosen by the master in question. Punishments are usually sexual or humiliating. The one listed in this contract is for the woman to be tied to the bed and used as an object for a certain number of days, until such time as her violation is paid for.



A guy demanding this level of behavior from his wife would be ridiculous. However, a master demanding such from their slave? Might be par for the course.

Generally slave contracts aren't that big of a deal because the folks entering into the pact are very into what they're doing. Sounds here like this guy decided he wanted to play the dom side of the relationship without having an acceptible sub to reciprocate. He probably should have sorted that out far in advance of marrying her.
#5 Feb 24 2006 at 1:16 PM Rating: Decent
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#6 Feb 24 2006 at 1:25 PM Rating: Good
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http://www.nydailynews.com/front/story/392495p-332825c.html

http://www.ketv.com/news/6783868/detail.html


Some details on the people;

Husband is Travis Frey; wife is Ruth Frey.

They have been married nine years. They have two children.

Judge said the charges are from March, 2005. Said the wife was tied to the bed and sexually abused. (It's listed as the punishment for failure to comply in the contract.)

One of the articles says that the husband was angry at her taking their daughters to church; interesting, as the document itself actually lists what she may wear to church, thus implying that going to church was not, itself, a problem.


bleh. Need more details. Can't tell if this was a master/slave relationship someone got bored with, or if Travis one day decided that was the kind of life he wanted -- and attempted to force it on his significant other.

Also, I wonder how the definition of kidnapping works. Without more details, it sounds like she was 'kidnapped' in her own home.


Charges
Kidnapping (stemming from the tying down with rope?)
Sexual assault (from the 'punishment')
Domestic assault (2nd article lists it for 'causing bodily harm')

Kiddie **** (separate issue)


The way the articles read, he was in court to turn himself in for downloading child **** when they hit him with the charges for kidnapping, sex abuse, and domestic abuse. Sounds like a pretty frickin' long day in court.
#7 Feb 24 2006 at 2:01 PM Rating: Decent
Hmm kidnapping generally requires a change of location. If he forced her home from the chuch against her will, that could do it. If she was already at home, that would be false imprisonment (at least here in Califonia). Maybe Iowa doesn't make a distiction between the two.

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The way the articles read, he was in court to turn himself in for downloading child **** when they hit him with the charges for kidnapping, sex abuse, and domestic abuse. Sounds like a pretty frickin' long day in court.


From your NY Daily News link:
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Troubles for Travis Frey have mounted in recent days. Council Bluffs police have added 12 counts of sexual exploitation of a minor after officers found illegal pictures on his computer while investigating the kidnapping complaint.


From KETV
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Frey is already charged with first-degree kidnapping, which is a crime punishable by life in prison without parole. Frey also faces a charge of domestic assault causing bodily injury on his wife.


This sounds like he was charged with the child **** AFTER he was charged with the kidnapping. If any of those picks are of his daughter(s) he wont stand a chance in court. He'll be better of with a plea bargin than going to a jury.

His next contract of "Wifely Expectations" is going to be given to him by his cellmate Bubba.

#8 Feb 24 2006 at 2:06 PM Rating: Good
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Hey Wing, print out the contract and show it to your cousin and tell her that this could be her in 14 months (hence we would win the pool!). Smiley: sly
#9 Feb 24 2006 at 2:07 PM Rating: Good
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I wonder what he did for a living.
#10 Feb 24 2006 at 2:20 PM Rating: Decent
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I wonder what he did for a living.


He probably gets yelled at all day as a telemarketer.
#11 Feb 24 2006 at 2:52 PM Rating: Good
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Hey Wing, print out the contract and show it to your cousin and tell her that this could be her in 14 months (hence we would win the pool!). Smiley: sly


That's not a bad plan. Smiley: laugh


As for what the guy did for a living - chances are it's something where he had no authority or control at all. Telemarketer isn't a bad guess.

Many folks with severe dom fantasies are not in control in their normal lives. Similarly many of the really awesome subs out there are anything but submissive 90% of the time. The thrill from acting out the fantasies comes in the role reversal; people don't often fantasies about what they've already got.
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Many folks with severe dom fantasies are not in control in their normal lives. Similarly many of the really awesome subs out there are anything but submissive 90% of the time. The thrill from acting out the fantasies comes in the role reversal; people don't often fantasies about what they've already got.


Smiley: inlove

Does that get me a Good Behavior Day?
#13 Feb 24 2006 at 3:10 PM Rating: Decent
Heres a few of the cases pending on him...

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Filings
Title: 4/STATE OF IOWA VS FREY TRAVIS T
Case: 04781 FECR041946 (POTTAWATTAMIE)
Event Filed By Filed Create Date Last Updated
MOTION MCGINN WILLIAM F 02/21/2006 02/21/2006 02/21/2006
Comments: MOTION ON ORDER FOR EXTENSION
OF TIME TO WAIVE JURY
OTHER ORDER STEENSLAND GREG W 02/21/2006 02/21/2006 02/22/2006
Comments: ORDERED THAT DEFT DEADLINE FOR HIS
RIGHT TO WAIVE JURY IS EXTENDED
UNTIL 03/08/2006
OTHER ORDER O'GRADY TIM 02/17/2006 02/20/2006 02/20/2006
Comments: PARTIES AGREE THAT DEFT WILL HAVE THROUGH THE
END OF THE BUSINESS DAY ON 3/8/06 TO FILE HIS
WRITTEN WAIVER OF RIGHT TO JURY TRIAL. CRT
ACCEPTS PARTIES' AGREEMENT.
MOTION 02/16/2006 02/16/2006 02/16/2006
Comments: SUPPLEMENTAL MOTION IN LIMINE
OTHER EVENT 02/13/2006 02/14/2006 02/14/2006
Comments: MEDIA COORINATORS NOTICE OF REQUEST FOR EXPANDED
MEDIA COVERAGE OF TRIAL OR PROCEEDING
OTHER ORDER O'GRADY TIM 02/13/2006 02/14/2006 02/14/2006
Comments: ORDER OF COURT THAT MEDIA COVERAGE IS GRANTED
ORDER SETTING HEARING JONES NANCY J 02/09/2006 02/10/2006 02/10/2006
Comments: SCHEDULING ORDER MAR 6 2006 1 30 PM
MOTION IN LIMINE MCGINN WILLIAM F 02/09/2006 02/10/2006 02/10/2006
OTHER EVENT 02/02/2006 02/02/2006 02/02/2006
Comments: MEDIA COORDINATORS NOTICE OF REQUEST FOR EXPANDED
MEDIA COVERAGE OF TRIAL OR PROCEEDING
OTHER EVENT 02/02/2006 02/02/2006 02/02/2006
OTHER EVENT 12/28/2005 12/28/2005 12/28/2005
Comments: BOND ASSIGNMENT IN AMOUNT OF $9,900 TO MCGINN MCGINN
JENNINGS & SPRINGER
NOTICE 12/22/2005 12/22/2005 12/22/2005
Comments: OF FILING TRIAL INFORMATION
WRITTEN ARRAIGNMENT & PLEA OF NOT GUILTY 12/21/2005 12/22/2005 12/22/2005
OTHER ORDER EVELOFF MARK J 12/20/2005 12/22/2005 12/22/2005
Comments: CASE TRANSFERRED TO DISTRICT
COURT
TRIAL INFORMATION ABEL GORDON C 12/20/2005 12/20/2005 12/20/2005
Comments: 1-18-06 1:30 PM ARRAIGNMENT
3-14-06 9:30 AM TRIAL
HEARING FOR INITIAL APPEARANCE EVELOFF MARK J 11/22/2005 11/23/2005 11/23/2005
Comments: APPEARANCE BOND REDUCED TO $99,000/DEFT ALLOWED TO PAY 10%
WITH CLERK OF COURT/DEFT PUT ON PRE-TRIAL RELEASE
SUPERVISION/DEFT TO HAVE NO CONTACT WITH VICTIM/DEFT TO
RESIDE WITH HIS PARENTS/PRELIM HEARING SET FOR 12/20/05

AT 9:30 AM
OTHER EVENT 11/21/2005 11/21/2005 11/21/2005
Comments: PRE-TRIAL RELEASE EVALUATION
HEARING FOR INITIAL APPEARANCE EVELOFF MARK J 11/18/2005 11/21/2005 11/21/2005
Comments: CONT 11/28/2005 9:30AM 3B
W MCGINN APPEARS
BOND $100000
WARRANT SERVED 11/18/2005 11/18/2005 11/18/2005
Comments: SERVING FEE $22.00
ARREST WARRANT FREY TRAVIS TAYLOR 11/16/2005 11/16/2005 11/18/2005
Comments: $100,000.00 BOND SET
OTHER AFFIDAVIT EVELOFF MARK J 11/16/2005 11/16/2005 11/16/2005
CRIMINAL COMPLAINT EVELOFF MARK J 11/16/2005 11/16/2005 11/16/2005
Comments: KIDNAPPING 1ST DEGREE
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Filings
Title: STATE OF IOWA VS FREY, TRAVIS T
Case: 04781 AGCR130805 (POTTAWATTAMIE)
Event Filed By Filed Create Date Last Updated
CASH BOND POSTED 02/07/2006 02/07/2006 02/07/2006
Comments: $6500.00 (10%) CASH BOND
OTHER EVENT 02/06/2006 02/07/2006 02/07/2006
Comments: PRETRIAL RELEASE EVALUATION
HEARING FOR INITIAL APPEARANCE KILNOSKI KATHLEEN A 02/06/2006 02/07/2006 02/07/2006
Comments: CONT 03/09/2006 9:30AM 3B
W MCGINN APPEARS DEFT TO HAVE
NO CONTACT W/ANYONE UNDER THE
AGE OF 18 UNLESS THE CHILD IS
SUPERVISED BY THE PARENT OR AN
ADULT OVER THE AGE OF 25 DEFT
MAY POST 10% BOND THROUGH CLERK
OF COURT W/PRETRIAL SUPERVISION

WARRANT SERVED 02/06/2006 02/06/2006 02/06/2006
ORDER FOR CONTINUANCE KILNOSKI KATHLEEN A 02/03/2006 02/06/2006 02/06/2006
Comments: ON MOTION OF STATE, COMPLAINT AMENDED TO ALLEGE 12 COUNTS
OF SEXUL EXPLOITATION, BOND $65,000, COURT ORDER PRETRIAL
INTERVIEW, BOND REVIEW 02/13/06
ARREST WARRANT FREY TRAVIS TAYLOR 01/30/2006 01/30/2006 02/06/2006
Comments: BOND $65,000
OTHER AFFIDAVIT 01/30/2006 01/30/2006 01/30/2006
CRIMINAL COMPLAINT EVELOFF MARK J 01/30/2006 01/30/2006 01/30/2006
Comments: 12 COUNTS SEXUAL EXPLOITATION OF A MINOR
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Filings
Title: RUTH FREY VS FREY TRAVIS
Case: 04781 DACV090878 (POTTAWATTAMIE)
Event Filed By Filed Create Date Last Updated
APPEARANCE 12/12/2005 12/13/2005 12/13/2005
Comments: APPEARANCE OF COUNSEL
NOTICE 11/30/2005 11/30/2005 11/30/2005
Comments: TO THE COURT W/ATTACHED EXHIBIT A
PROTECTIVE ORDER ABEL GORDON C 11/23/2005 11/23/2005 11/23/2005
COURT REPORTER NOTES RASH DIXIE 11/23/2005 11/23/2005 11/23/2005
APPEARANCE 11/10/2005 11/10/2005 11/10/2005
RETURN OF ORIGINAL NOTICE 11/08/2005 11/08/2005 11/08/2005
Comments: KEYS RETURNED TO AND GIVEN TO NANCY
TEMPORARY PROTECTIVE ORDER ABEL GORDON C 11/07/2005 11/07/2005 11/07/2005
Comments: HEARING SET FOR 11/21/05 @ 10 AM
CONFIDENTIAL INFORMATION FORMS 11/07/2005 11/07/2005 11/07/2005
PETITION FILED 11/07/2005 11/07/2005 11/07/2005
Comments: FOR RELIEF FROM DOMESTIC ABUSE


So in other words, this guy is a real sweetheart.

Edited, Fri Feb 24 15:13:30 2006 by Kaelesh
#14 Feb 24 2006 at 3:16 PM Rating: Default
I can only say one thing....

There are some really ****** up people out there.
#15 Feb 24 2006 at 4:11 PM Rating: Good
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Many folks with severe dom fantasies are not in control in their normal lives. Similarly many of the really awesome subs out there are anything but submissive 90% of the time. The thrill from acting out the fantasies comes in the role reversal; people don't often fantasies about what they've already got.


You trying to give your S.O. a hint or something? Smiley: sly
#16 Feb 24 2006 at 4:28 PM Rating: Excellent
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Well, look at his picture. Sorry, I know it's wrong to judge by appearances, but the guy looks like a raging jackass.

I'm surprised we haven't heard about missing prostitutes in his city, frankly. This kind of escalating obsession with controlling and objectifying his partner does not bode well for his interactions with sex workers, whom he could view as disposable.

I hope she manages to get away from him for good.

Edit: swear filter forces me to rephrase! bad swear filter, bad!


Edited, Fri Feb 24 16:29:55 2006 by Samira
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#17 Feb 25 2006 at 11:07 AM Rating: Good
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You trying to give your S.O. a hint or something? Smiley: sly

Nah.. All I'm running on here are some fond memories.

Besides, this is the kind of thing you have to look for from the start. If you walk up to the S.O. one day and boldly announce "Hi! u r slave now lolz", you wind up in court, much like this douchebag.


I really liked the tacky-as-hell font that he used in the contract, too. Letters in the shape of naked humans? That's classy.

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