Weightloss (and gain!) is not an instant thing. The body reacts to what you put into it by gradually adjusting to changes in diet. What this means is that your metabolism *today* is more greatly affected by what you were eating and doing last week then it is by what you're doing today.
If you normally eat modest portions of non-fatty foods, your body will metabolize based on that. If you suddenly one week eat nothing but high fat garbage, you likely will not gain much if any weight. But your body will adjust to the fact it's getting more fat and change the rate at which it stores or breaks down fat (it's a lot more complicated that that of course!). If you then resume normal eating patterns, you might gain weight right after doing so while not gaining weight when you were eating more. And that will depend on some specific issues with your own body as well.
That's one of the reasons so many diets fail. The key is to make an overall change to your eating and excersize habits. Going through cycles of diet and backslide over and over is often *worse* for you in the long run then if you'd just maintained a poor diet all the way through. The body tends to react to any change of diet by going into "emergency mode". Which means it starts storing energy in the form of fat. It senses inconsistency in diet and interprets that it might need to store that energy, resulting in weight gain over time.
So. Even though in this case you did backslide and saw results while doing it, that's *not* a good approach to dieting. You'll likely regain that weight in the next couple weeks as a result of the up/down cycle. The key (again) is not to look at short term. Don't think in terms of losing X pounds in Y weeks. Doing that will result in you rushing and pushing beyond what you are comfortable doing to reach that goal, and almost always results in backsliding once it's reached and losing everything you gained. You simply need to make small gradual changes to your diet and excersize. It's not a sprint. It's not even a marathon. It's a continuous process of moving in a direction.
Just eat slightly smaller portions then you normally would. Not so much that it's significant and you even notice. Just a small amount less per meal. If you're noticing, or you're hungry after eating, you're trying to do too much. At the same time, do just a little bit more excersize each day. Again. Nothing major. Walk around the block once per day to start (or whatever is appropriate for you). You don't need to hit an exercize machine for an hour each day to stay healthy. Just walk around a bit more then you'd normally do. And just do a little bit each day.
As you get comfortable with that level of eating and excersize, slowly continue reducing the food and increasing the excersize. At no point do you need to wear yourself out or starve yourself. Just do a tiny bit more excersize and less food until you are comfortable with that level, then do another tiny step. If at any point you're feeling like you're pushing too hard, you *are* pushing too hard. Back it up a tiny bit and get comfortable again.
The key to dieting is not to think of it as a diet. It's a lifestyle. A "diet" implies something you do for a set period of time. You don't change your diet. You change yourself. Just make this how *you* eat and excersize normally and not just something you're doing right now to lose weight. If you make that mental adjustment successfully, then when you get to that point at which you are happy with your weight and health, it wont feel like you've "finished". It'll just feel natural and normal. And that's exactly how you want it to be.
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