The Glorious Atomicflea wrote:
Words like "pu[/i]ssy", "cu[i]nt" and "tw[/i]at" all seem to crass to say around girlfriends, and even when trying to get romantic. I don't think I can think of a term I'd use, for example, if I wanted to tell someone to touch me in a certain place that would sound passionately romantic without being crass. I'd probably just resort to saying "down there."
I really don't think women have a term that equates to "di[i]ck". All of the above seem to be more in the "****" family, which seems to be a bit harsher. I hate the word ******. It's ugly.
Pu55y isn't so bad to use, so long as you hear the word in other context often enough. I call cats, "pussycat" all the time and it works out ok. I don't get any more weird looks than normal.
I just recalled that one ex used to call it her "puddy tat," of all things. I wonder how I ever dated that woman...