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#1 Jan 26 2006 at 10:14 AM Rating: Good
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How do you all handle a situation where as you figure out that your best buddy wasn't really your best buddy, but just someone who used you like a tool from the begining, almost, but you were just too naive to spot it?


/sigh
#2 Jan 26 2006 at 10:18 AM Rating: Good
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With booze, lots and lots of booze. It's nice to be rid of an albatross.
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#3 Jan 26 2006 at 10:18 AM Rating: Default
Beat his f[b][/b]ucking ***.... or just cut him out of your life and move on.
#4 Jan 26 2006 at 10:19 AM Rating: Good
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I'm not the "beat his ***" type, but the booze idea seems golden.
#5 Jan 26 2006 at 10:20 AM Rating: Decent
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Loosen the lugnuts on his tires, or at least pee on the driver's seat.
#6 Jan 26 2006 at 10:21 AM Rating: Good
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Cut him out of your life, learn a lesson, and move on to better things.
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#8 Jan 26 2006 at 10:24 AM Rating: Good
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What kind of tool? Like a hack saw?

Need more specifics.
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#9 Jan 26 2006 at 10:26 AM Rating: Decent
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Get over it and move on.

That was easy enough, what else ya got?
#10 Jan 26 2006 at 10:35 AM Rating: Decent
Kakar the Vile wrote:
What kind of tool? Like a hack saw?

Need more specifics.


Miter saw.
#11 Jan 26 2006 at 10:36 AM Rating: Excellent
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Fu[i][/i]ck his mom, take photos, post to internet.
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#12 Jan 26 2006 at 10:37 AM Rating: Good
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NephthysWanderer the Charming wrote:
Get over it and move on.

That was easy enough, what else ya got?



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#13 Jan 26 2006 at 10:39 AM Rating: Decent
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Fu[i][/i]ck his mom, take photos, post to internet.



But only if she's hot.
#14 Jan 26 2006 at 10:39 AM Rating: Default
So what happened Exo? He fu[b][/b]ck your sister?

Edited, Thu Jan 26 10:39:53 2006 by Katie
#15 Jan 26 2006 at 10:40 AM Rating: Decent
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so revenge and retrivution is out of the question here?


waht's the point!?
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#16 Jan 26 2006 at 10:55 AM Rating: Good
Invite this person over for some tea, but don't tell him that his tea is a special brand derived from mushrooms.

Shortly before the psilocybin becomes active in his system, pull a gun on him. If things go as planned, he'll get scared, and because the hallucinogen traps you in whatever emotion/state of mind you were in prior to the induction, it'll probably be the most traumatizing 6 to 12 hours of his life. Just make sure to drop him off somewhere slightly after four hours or else he may start to sober up enough to attack.
#17 Jan 26 2006 at 10:58 AM Rating: Good
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The only reason why just "fu[/b]ck it, move on, you damned emo kid" doesn't seem all that easy is probably because I get attached to people.

I have two friends and no real family. The fact that the only two people I'd call family is a douche-bag sort of sucks. Royally.


Though, the shroom idea doesn't seem all that bad.


I know this is just dumb drama. Maybe I shouldn't have posted this, but there wasn't that much else going this morning on the forums, anyway.

I dunno, I think I'm just an idiot.

Edited, Thu Jan 26 10:59:24 2006 by Exodus
#18 Jan 26 2006 at 11:03 AM Rating: Excellent
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I don't think it doesn't suck but, without knowing the story, it's hard to say much besides "that sucks" and "cut him off".

Not that it's apples 'n apples, but I was involved in a couple-year long relationship with someone before who was pretty much just using me towards the end. One of my most liberating moments was when she called me to make plans for her birthday and I finally told her "no thanks" and that I didn't see the point in being with her any longer. Sometimes you just need to cut bait, suck as it might.
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#19 Jan 26 2006 at 11:03 AM Rating: Decent
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The only reason why just ********** it, move on, you damned emo kid" doesn't seem all that easy is probably because I get attached to people.

I have two friends and no real family. The fact that the only two people I'd call family is a douche-bag sort of sucks. Royally.


Though, the shroom idea doesn't seem all that bad.


I know this is just dumb drama. Maybe I shouldn't have posted this, but there wasn't that much else going this morning on the forums, anyway.

I dunno, I think I'm just an idiot.


Shut up. God, you emo bastards and the "Woe is me" life perspective.

Look....life gives you sh[b][/b]it. It gives everyone ****, all the time.
You do two things with it.
1. Get over and make something for yourself
- OR -
2. **** and moan and waste away.
#20 Jan 26 2006 at 11:05 AM Rating: Decent
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Well, If we're talking about dealing with the "pain of losing somone" in general, whether it be by betrayal, breakup, death, ect.... I have found that that kind of pain never really subsides.... however you can drown it out by piling other things on top of it.... eventually you don't notice it much anymore.... though it will always be there..

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#21 Jan 26 2006 at 11:08 AM Rating: Excellent
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First off, don't feel like an idiot. Sometimes I feel like an idiot when I get screwed over by people, but in the end, I would rather have a little faith in people and get disappointed occasionally than live my life full of bitterness and suspicion. Friendship is a leap of faith and sometimes you fall flat, but it's the times that you don't that make it worth the risk.

Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, try to learn a lesson from your experience. Just don't let that lesson be "I can't trust anyone" because that will hurt you far more in the long run than your ****** "friend" did.

As for today, try to do something you've never done before. It can be something mundane, but just do something. Never seen a movie or eaten in a restaurant by yourself? Try that. Just give yourself something new and refreshing to think about.

Nexa
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#22 Jan 26 2006 at 11:10 AM Rating: Good
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NephthysWanderer the Charming wrote:
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The only reason why just ********** it, move on, you damned emo kid" doesn't seem all that easy is probably because I get attached to people.

I have two friends and no real family. The fact that the only two people I'd call family is a douche-bag sort of sucks. Royally.


Though, the shroom idea doesn't seem all that bad.


I know this is just dumb drama. Maybe I shouldn't have posted this, but there wasn't that much else going this morning on the forums, anyway.

I dunno, I think I'm just an idiot.


Shut up. God, you emo bastards and the "Woe is me" life perspective.

Look....life gives you sh[/b]it. It gives everyone ****, all the time.
You do two things with it.
1. Get over and make something for yourself
- OR -
2. **** and moan and waste away.



Neph...relax. Smiley: laugh I don't have that "woe is me" perspective, and I know life gives you sh
it. Of course I'll get over it, but I'm just bummed out at the moment.


Smiley: flowers
#23 Jan 26 2006 at 11:18 AM Rating: Decent
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Neph...relax. I don't have that "woe is me" perspective, and I know life gives you ****. Of course I'll get over it, but I'm just bummed out at the moment.


Much better. I knew you had it in you. Smiley: wink2
#24 Jan 26 2006 at 11:20 AM Rating: Good
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Kelvyquayo, Eater of Souls


I don't know about that one man, how bout Kelvyquayo, I Ate a Soul Once.

The title to me is like "RAWR! I'm A BADA[/b]SS MOTHERFU[b]CKER!" Where, in your "you'll always feel the painz" philosophy is like comparing Arnold Shwarzenegger to Regis Philbin; yeah, you can take Kathy Lee, but why lie and say you can prevent a war between humans and machines?

Kathy Lee Or Robot Armada? Does your current title really define who you are?
#25 Jan 26 2006 at 11:28 AM Rating: Decent
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juxtaposition is beautiful


but if you really must know, I think that souls are non-perishable..... so chow down and be neurished. It's all good.
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#26 Jan 26 2006 at 11:29 AM Rating: Decent
Nexa wrote:
First off, don't feel like an idiot. Sometimes I feel like an idiot when I get screwed over by people, but in the end, I would rather have a little faith in people and get disappointed occasionally than live my life full of bitterness and suspicion. Friendship is a leap of faith and sometimes you fall flat, but it's the times that you don't that make it worth the risk.

Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, try to learn a lesson from your experience. Just don't let that lesson be "I can't trust anyone" because that will hurt you far more in the long run than your sh*tty "friend" did.

As for today, try to do something you've never done before. It can be something mundane, but just do something. Never seen a movie or eaten in a restaurant by yourself? Try that. Just give yourself something new and refreshing to think about.

Nexa



Good advice. When life gives you sh[/b]it, make sh[b]italade.
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