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#1 Jan 24 2006 at 11:59 AM Rating: Good
I was at work yesterday and while I was sitting around the break room eating my lunch, a couple friends of mine started talking about MMO's. Now, I play them, and I'm sure all of you do or have played them, judging by your choice of forum, so let me ask you this.

Do you feel as retarded talking about them around other people as I do? I typically find that talking about video games in large groups of people to make me sound like a total fricken tard. It's almost to the point where I don't even like being around other people when they talk about them, especially when they get into specifics, such as details about a raid on grummus, or trouble with an epic quest, or some KSing they have experienced or whatever the case may be. Am I alone in this or is it a common thing to consider gaming a guilty pleasure that you are uncomfortable discussing in real life?
#2 Jan 24 2006 at 12:03 PM Rating: Good
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I find it amusing that people have no problem with:

"sorry Dave, can't make it to the club tonight, have a poker game"

but look at you funny wehn you say:

"sorry Dave, can't make it to the club tonight, got a static XP PT"



give it another decade, it will be the norm
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#3 Jan 24 2006 at 12:08 PM Rating: Excellent
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Do you feel as retarded talking about them around other people as I do?


Probably. I'll talk about it with folks I know game. But if they're people there who don't, they quickly become bored. I consider it a matter of courtesy to try to stick to topics that everyone is interested in. That is in regards to any conversation, not just gaming.

However, I have had people come in mid-conversation and gotten some pretty strange looks. For some people it seems gaming is as much of a faux pau as *************

Ironically, I don't mind discussing ************ either...
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#4 Jan 24 2006 at 12:10 PM Rating: Good
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I haven’t played Final Fantasy XI in a year now, but did play for a year. When I was playing I felt similar to the way you feel. Things like MOB’s, mining, refresh cycles, crafting, skill chains and quests are not what most people expect to hear in normal conversation. Currently I play Ogame and Halo. Neither is much better with Ogame conversations consisting of “fleet saving”, planet raids and other such terms. Fu[/b]ck em’ though, people shouldn’t be listening to your conversation.
#5 Jan 24 2006 at 12:11 PM Rating: Good
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Depends on how you talk about it.

I can sit down with someone and talk casually about WoW. Happened the other day at this guys house. He is a friend of a friend. Was over at his place and I saw he had WoW manual laying out. I started chatting about it with him small talk like and some of the other people there were like "what are you talking about?", and I just responded, "just some nerd game I play' and people were like "Otay" and no one paid it any mind.

Then there are times when you have a person that is just way to f[b][/b]ucking into it and it shows when they are talking. They are the type that get the "what a ******* nerd" look.

It is all about being unattached and nonchalant. Saying "oh yeah I play that game, its not to shabby. What class are you in it?" is a lot different that "OMG You play? What is your class?! How are you specced, dont you just hate the way Ironforge Lags it is almost enough to make me play a nightelf /sigh!!!:
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#6 Jan 24 2006 at 12:13 PM Rating: Good
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Kelvyquayo, Eater of Souls wrote:


give it another decade, it will be the norm


/nod

I don't even watch much TV anymore.
#7 Jan 24 2006 at 12:22 PM Rating: Good
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However, I have had people come in mid-conversation and gotten some pretty strange looks. For some people it seems gaming is as much of a faux pau as *************

Ironically, I don't mind discussing ************ either...



I take offense at the incorrect spelling of the act upon which I have based the majority of my research. Gaming is way more taboo than ************* though. I know because I'd be willing to do it in public with no remorse, and talking about games never gets you in with the ladies, but just the mention of stroking it drives them wild.

Well, I'm going to go rub one out, now.



















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#8 Jan 24 2006 at 12:31 PM Rating: Excellent
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I take offense at the incorrect spelling of the act upon which I have based the majority of my research.


It's not incorrect. When you get as good at it as I have, it becomes "*******************
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#9 Jan 24 2006 at 12:36 PM Rating: Good
[quote]It's not incorrect. When you get as good at it as I have, it becomes "***************************

I had a feeling that was what was going on here. I bow to your superior technique and strategy. Smiley: bowdown


Need a protege? I've had a feeling recently that I've taken ************ as far as I can solo.

And talking about your gaming hobby in public makes you a pariah.
#10 Jan 24 2006 at 12:37 PM Rating: Excellent
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I tried talking about IRL once with a guy I worked with and found out that I'm a nerd.

In the interest of keeping that to myself I've decided to not talk about it again.
#11 Jan 24 2006 at 12:39 PM Rating: Good
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Kakar the Vile wrote:
[quote]I take offense at the incorrect spelling of the act upon which I have based the majority of my research.


It's not incorrect. When you get as good at it as I have, it becomes "***************************

My SO was surprised to find out that even with consistent and great sex, I still ********** often.
#12 Jan 24 2006 at 12:48 PM Rating: Good
Other then my Girlfriend, no one I associate with especially at work even know what an MMORPG is. The only other person I knew that plays an MMORPG was a frat brother and I havent seen him in a longtime.
#13 Jan 24 2006 at 12:52 PM Rating: Excellent
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I try not to put a whole lot of effort into what other people think when eavesdropping in on my conversations.
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#14 Jan 24 2006 at 12:57 PM Rating: Good
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There's only one person I work with (that I know) that does online gaming, but not MMO's. He's a SoCom kinda guy. Still, we get funny looks on the rare occasion we discuss games. So I tend to really ramp up the MMO talk for giggles.
#15 Jan 24 2006 at 1:20 PM Rating: Good
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I was atually introduced to EQ by my boss at work (Hi Topsy!!) it's pretty common to find a small group of people he corrupted to be sat around at lunchtime talking raids and stuff since it got pretty widespread in that office.

If people ask what we are talking about we usually reply "Some game" pretty vaguely and close the circle on them.

However the one and only time i talked about it on the ship was when one of said bunch came onboard for some reason and we chated casually for 30 mins or so over lunch as i did some paperwork he needed doing.

The girl i work with spoke to me about it the next day and said she couldn't understand anything and that it was almost a different language.

I suppose most hobbies are like that.

#16 Jan 24 2006 at 1:37 PM Rating: Excellent
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I'd feel dumber discussing sports than MMORPGs in front of other people.. at least with MMOs I know what I'm talking about.
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#18 Jan 24 2006 at 2:28 PM Rating: Good
I guess what I'm more concerned with and feel stupid about is the situation where I'm sitting there chatting up a game with a friend or two at a table at lunch, and then hyper active super gamer man comes in and talks way too loud, getting us looked at funnily by many many people in the room. Then again, I live in BFE so it shouldn't really matter to me what most of the people think, at least I have all my teeth :)
#19 Jan 24 2006 at 2:37 PM Rating: Good
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Do you feel as retarded talking about them around other people as I do?


When talking to non-gamers, yes! Even though I work in the High Tech arena where there are gamers aplenty, I find myself second-guessing a conversation if our gaming comes up when talking to folks at work that clearly aren't gamers.

When talking to other gamers, it's not an issue.

Since my wife and I are really the only gamers in our extended families, we usually are made to feel like any discussion of gaming is inappropriate, as it only leads to us feeling like we have to explain or defend our hobby. So we try not to bring it up if at all. To our family, we might as well be crack-smoking, goat-humping alcoholics. It boggles the mind.

It doesn't help that we're in our early 40s, either. So we get all kinds of stigma attached to that.

But overall, we don't really care - it's our hobby and we're having a blast.



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#20 Jan 25 2006 at 2:45 AM Rating: Good
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Lord xythex wrote:
I try not to put a whole lot of effort into what other people think when eavesdropping in on my conversations.


I like to make sh[b][/b]it up when I find people eavesdropping on a conversation.

...... yeah, I was surprised she even had a knife. Something must have snapped. By the time we got back to the party, things were just crazy... I've never seen so much blood.

You can catch a few people off guard if ya do it right. And its a ******** of fun watching the older peoples' reaction. Smiley: lol

#21 Jan 25 2006 at 3:43 AM Rating: Decent
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Just talk about it confidently and there'll be no problem. Rationalising it away usually works.
#22 Jan 25 2006 at 8:50 AM Rating: Decent
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I like to make **** up when I find people eavesdropping on a conversation.

...... yeah, I was surprised she even had a knife. Something must have snapped. By the time we got back to the party, things were just crazy... I've never seen so much blood.



Smiley: lol
#23 Jan 25 2006 at 10:41 AM Rating: Excellent
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Baron von AngstyCoder wrote:
Danalog the Vengeful Programmer wrote:
I'd feel dumber discussing sports than MMORPGs in front of other people.. at least with MMOs I know what I'm talking about.


What about sports within MMOs?


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