My wife got "the call" last night. Her ailing grandfather, one that has played the only real male role in her life, was in ICU with pnemonia and not doing well. Her poor grandmother has been sitting in the hospital, refusing to leave for 2 days now. The evil aunt that couldn't care less has suddenly had a change of heart and is now trying to play nice.
She is not allowed to see him for fear of getting him sicker.
How does one console in a period like this? Besides listening, holding, and wiping away tears, there is nothing I can say or do to put a positive spin on this.