Heres how my Christmas wentFollow

Well in the last six months I started dating an old flame that i have been talking to for years. We finally decided to get together for the last hurrah and to just tie the not and do the whole deal. Here is the whole plot:

1. She has two kids
2. We lived together once before when she only had the one kid
3. We broke up the first time because she went back to her first husband.
4. She gets pregnant and ex husband leaves her again.
5. We remain friends over the years
6. We recently get back together and express our lost love towards each other yada yada yada...


Anyway we go over to her parents house on Christmas eve and her parents are ecstatic that there daughter is dating me again.

Seeing as how I am the only guy she has never dated that didnt have hundreds of tattoos, piercings and the fact that i was drug free and had a job seemed to sway them.

So since I care very much for her kids i ended up spending tons on presents for them and for her to make sure they had an awesome christmas.

We get back home from her parents house and i put the youngest to bed and curl up on the couch with the older boy to watch muppet christmas carol.

She ends up going outside to hang out with her neighbors for a while.

She ends up staying outside half the night smoking pot and getting absolutely skunked.

Im sitting in the livingroom after putting cookies out with her son and putting him to bed. She comes in and sits next to me and starts to blabber on about how she is bad with relationships and just cant do this with me.

She basically tells me that I need to leave and to take all the presents with me because she has decided that she doesnt want me to be a part of her christmas.

I tell her that I dont want to talk about this right now because its Christmas eve. Inside Im about to grab her neck and hold the oxygen from coming in or out.

So i basically went and laid down for a while since it was late and after a couple hours gathered my things and left for home.

P.S. She ended up passing out on her kids beds drunk and there were two other people that passed out on the living room floor drunk as well.

I left the presents and left a note.



Edited, Thu Dec 29 00:13:10 2005 by Zadiel

I guess im more on the fence these days.

After this event I do not believe I want to be with either sexes to tell the truth.

Holy fu[/i]cking sh[i]it Batman. That sucks syphillitic monkey ***. Glad to hear you're still alive and kickin' Zads. Here's hoping the new year brings ya new luck!

That sucks.

I suspect you went into this little foray knowing what you were getting into eh?

It is too bad for the kids. Are they safe? Can you do anything to help them?

I hope in your note, that you told her what a worthless c*nt she is. Sadly, her kids will be the ones to suffer.

Just be glad its done now, and you can move on.

Sorry about your Christmass, and sorry for her kids also. : /

I can see staying friends, assuming it was convenient and all; but I can't see ever getting back together with someone for a second round. Especially if they left me for another woman.

But, whatever. Your Christmas sucked, the kids' Christmas sucked, their mother sucks.

Time to move on.

Did the fact that she usually dates wannabe bikers not alarm you at all?

Yes she was mentally unstable at times but I felt that she had really grown a lot in the last couple of years. My most common mistake in life is seeing only the good in a person and trying to ignore the bad.

Unfortunatally it means that I continually get crapped on by anyone I try to care about.

I pretty much just see this as it wasnt meant to be, I just wish she hadnt ruined my christmas, as it was in the motion of being the best one ever.

When someone says "I'm bad at relationships", believe them.