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#27 Nov 09 2005 at 6:08 PM Rating: Decent
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A child is not going to feel a stigma or scared about their parents knowing they have it, moreover any child would want their parents to know, so it is a moot point. Sorry for not responding to your moot point earlier. Finally, the disease primarily affects women in their 60s after the menopause.


So an unwanted pregnacy creates a stigma while cancer won't right? Now that may be true, but then what you are saying is if a child feels a stigma or scared about something it is better to keep it bottled up inside them and not tell their parents?

This way they have almost no chance of getting any type of counseling or help with coping with the issues that they face. Sounds like a great idea.
#28 Nov 09 2005 at 6:12 PM Rating: Good
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This way they have almost no chance of getting any type of counseling or help with coping with the issues that they face. Sounds like a great idea.


On the contrary, I think that young teens should be able to get counselling and help (which should include the advice that they involve their parents) with the confidence that their confidentiality is respected.
#29 Nov 09 2005 at 6:59 PM Rating: Decent
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Danalog the Vengeful Programmer wrote:
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Mexicans are expanding rapidly but, I don't think Asians are that far behind.


All americans are expanding rapidly, statistically, haven't you noticed?

baby got back


Yes, but specifically in California those two cultures are expanding really, really fast.
#30 Nov 09 2005 at 8:57 PM Rating: Decent
Call me troll, but I just have to say...
...Pat, you are and idiot. Keep that sink hole under your nose shut.
#31 Nov 09 2005 at 9:07 PM Rating: Decent
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Patrician wrote:
Totem is a bad father who needs a law to ensure gets infoz about his children cause they don't trust him enough to tell him. That's what I heard.


Because we all know how teenagers are rational thinkers who know that their parents are more concerned about their daughter's health than they are angry about their daughter getting banged.

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#32 Nov 09 2005 at 9:19 PM Rating: Excellent
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#33 Nov 09 2005 at 9:21 PM Rating: Decent
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I take pride in my WoW toon. Smiley: tongue

Aegis has one, too, go bother him.

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#34 Nov 09 2005 at 9:22 PM Rating: Good
Just another way to declare ones gheyness, I presume.

Loads just fine on my connection, as long as the hamster isn't tired.
#35 Nov 09 2005 at 9:24 PM Rating: Decent
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Go here if you care to learn more. (which you probably don't)

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Loads just fine on my connection, as long as the hamster isn't tired.
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#37 Nov 09 2005 at 9:28 PM Rating: Decent
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Tell it to Illia. Smiley: glare
#38 Nov 09 2005 at 10:52 PM Rating: Good
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Joph's article, which I actually read, wrote:
The officials say they plan to repeatedly make the point -- as they did during the 2004 campaign -- that pre-war intelligence was faulty, it was not manipulated

Sure. Why not? People don't always agree that the White House under Bush is mean-spirited or hell-bent on war but I think we all agree they are likely to ***** up.
#39 Nov 10 2005 at 2:59 AM Rating: Decent
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Because we all know how teenagers are rational thinkers who know that their parents are more concerned about their daughter's health than they are angry about their daughter getting banged.


It isn't that black and white.

Or brown in that case.
#40 Nov 10 2005 at 2:40 PM Rating: Decent
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Wow! found this thread and couldn't pass it up. Some interesting view points on boths of the abortion-notification ballot. I'm not what you'd call a political savvy person so I'm not even gonna get in the middle of that debate.

I WILL SAY THIS THOUGH! This was a sad day for Arnold and the people of Kali-fornia (umm get it?). Most of these initiatives made total sense to me and I really don't understand why they didn't pass. Just goes to prove my thoughts about voting...... they shouldn't let ignorant people vote!

Okay flame away. I'll just sit back now and let the democrats raise my taxes, tenure some more bad teachers, allow my child to make life changing decisions without my guidance, and allow ignorant people to further fund the most corrupt labor organizations in the land.

Used to be proud of the "sunshine state".......... but now imma thinking about where to call home next.

So adios for now :-P
#41 Nov 10 2005 at 2:59 PM Rating: Good
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Just goes to prove my thoughts about voting...... they shouldn't let ignorant people vote!


I believe only people of the right skin colour and gender should be able to vote. Care to compare ideal facist democracies?

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#42 Nov 10 2005 at 3:19 PM Rating: Decent
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Patrician wrote:

It isn't that black and white.

Or brown in that case.


If I remember correctly, the girl seeking the abortion could apply to make sure her parents aren't alerted. I can't remember the exact process, but I know that under special circumstances the parents would not need to be told.
#43 Nov 10 2005 at 5:26 PM Rating: Good
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Gladriels wrote:
Just goes to prove my thoughts about voting...... they shouldn't let ignorant people vote!


I believe only people of the right skin colour and gender should be able to vote. Care to compare ideal facist democracies?



You need to add in accent, too. Then we're there.
#44 Nov 10 2005 at 6:33 PM Rating: Good
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DodoBird, Eater of Souls wrote:
Patrician wrote:

It isn't that black and white.

Or brown in that case.


If I remember correctly, the girl seeking the abortion could apply to make sure her parents aren't alerted. I can't remember the exact process, but I know that under special circumstances the parents would not need to be told.


More to the point. The woman in the case Pat linked was 19. She was an adult and would not have been affected one way or another in the case of the California law.

I'm actually not even sure how that case is relevant at all to the issue here. In this case, the woman was an adult and legally had the right not only to choose for herself, but didn't have to inform anyone about it. She was forced into having an abortion by her family after they killed her boyfriend. Not really seeing the connection here. Is Pat implying that we shouldn't allow parents to have any say or even be informed of medical proceedures their children might undergo because we can find some examples of bad parents who'll kill people they don't like? Seems like a bit of a stretch...
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#45 Nov 10 2005 at 6:54 PM Rating: Decent
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It was an example of parents not necessarily having the best interests of their offspring as their prime motivator. The age is of the woman is irrelevant.

Look, I am not even arguing that that young teens should definitely have the right to privacy. I am arguing that the issue is a complex one. Which it is.
#46 Nov 10 2005 at 7:02 PM Rating: Good
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It was an example of parents not necessarily having the best interests of their offspring as their prime motivator. The age is of the woman is irrelevant.

Look, I am not even arguing that that young teens should definitely have the right to privacy. I am arguing that the issue is a complex one. Which it is.


No. It's really not though. You shouldn't take away the rights of *all* parents because some parents will make bad choices. That's the point here.

We can go back and forth all day long with examples where the parents were denied the choice or even knowledge of a medical proceedure (like abortion) and complications arose and their child died as a result, and other situations where the parents choose poorly for their child and the child died as a result. My point is that, given that we can't apply any single rule to all cases that is guaranteed to always generate the "best" outcome, we should *not* interferre in the first place.

The government should not take that power away from parents. If a parent makes a bad choice and his/her child suffers as a result, that's sad, but not *my* fault. If the government takes away that parents choice and a bad result occurs then it is my fault becuase I'm part of that system that took that power away. I now am guilty of what happened to that child. Leave the choices to the parents. Some will make good choices. Some will make bad ones. But at least it'll be *their* choice. Not something arbitrarily foisted on them by the voting masses...
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#47 Nov 10 2005 at 7:12 PM Rating: Excellent
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Not something arbitrarily foisted on them by the voting masses...
Looks like you should have convinced the voting masses otherwise then, huh?

Democracy is a ***** Smiley: grin
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#48 Nov 10 2005 at 7:19 PM Rating: Decent
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Eh? The discussion is not around Parent vs. Government choice, it is Parent vs Child choice. It is a matter of who's rights are more important and to what extent.

The majority of teens tell their parents that they are pregnant even when not required to by law, and many of those that don't have compelling reasons not to.

There is a clear requirement for discretion on this issue. In a perfect world, Mommy and Daddy would know best and give appropriate and loving advice. It isn't a perfect world. Patient confidentiality is viewed as an important right for adults, which you are advocating should be taken away from young teens. I can see compelling arguments on both sides of the issue, and it IS complex.

Edited, Thu Nov 10 19:36:56 2005 by Patrician
#49 Nov 10 2005 at 7:42 PM Rating: Good
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Eh? The discussion is not around Parent vs. Government choice, it is Parent vs Child choice. It is a matter of who's rights are more important and to what extent.


Um... But it's the government choosing whether to allow a child's choice to outweigh the parents though, so it's all about the government taking away that power from the parent, right?

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The majority of teens tell their parents that they are pregnant even when not required to by law, and many of those that don't have compelling reasons not to.


I think a hell of a lot of teens will avoid telling their parents about a pregnancy if they're legally allowed to simply to avoid the embarassment and confrontation that they believe will occur. Being grounded isn't a "compelling reason" not to inform the parents of a medical decision like abortion IMO. What exactly are you protecting these teens from anyway? Do you have any statistics on the rates of parents who'd do harm to their teenage daughters upon discovering they got pregnant? Or is it that there's a concern that parents would talk their children out of having abortions?

Even your example doesn't follow that logic. She wasn't a minor, and was not required to inform anyone of anything by any law, but was still discovered and was forced to have an abortion by her parents (after tbey killed her boyfriend). Um... So how exactly does not requiring a teen to tell her parents about a decision to have an abortion change that? It doesn't. Those extreme cases will occur anyway. The law at question doesn't affect it one way or another.


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There is a clear requirement for discretion on this issue. In a perfect world, Mommy and Daddy would know best and give appropriate and loving advice. It isn't a perfect world. Patient confidentiality is viewed as an important right for adults, which you are advocating should be taken away from young teens. I can see compelling arguments on both sides of the issue, and it IS complex.


Yes. But the problem is that until emancipation (typically at age 18), the teen is legally the responsiblity of the parent or guardian. They are civilly and criminally responsible for acts their child performs. This includes things like doctor/patient confidentiality.

Your argument is totally bogus because in every other single aspect of medical action, the parents are required not only to be informed but to assent to any medical action taken by a medical professional. Doctors are not allowed to so much as proscribe simple medications for a minor without the parents permission. They certainly cannot perform any sort of surgical proceedure.

Why is this case different? It's different because it's a politically charged issue with "sides", and each side wants to "win", and winning sometimes entails making arguments that don't make any damn sense at all. The pro-choice movement is predicated on the assumption that a womans right to her own body with regards to procreation is an absolute right that can't be abridged by any other law or right. So, a logical extension of that assumption is that a teens right to her own body in the case of a pregnancy superceeds even the parents rights and responsibilities when it comes to that teens medical care and health. If the pro-choice folks were to conceed that a parent can and should have *any* say in the medical care of a child with regards to procreation, then that would be seen as "losing ground" in the war over the issue.

So they fight a ridiculous position. And it really is ridiculous. I've seen no statisics to show that requiring parents to be informed of teens seeking abortions affects the rates of violence towards those teens, or the rates of the abortions as a result, or any other aspect of this issue. Should we remove a parental right that's prevalent in every other single medical case just because we feel like it? It just seems like an abuse of power to do so.

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#50 Nov 10 2005 at 7:59 PM Rating: Decent
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Um... But it's the government choosing whether to allow a child's choice to outweigh the parents though, so it's all about the government taking away that power from the parent, right?


Umm err umm... NO MORON! It isn't about taking away that power from parents, it is the opposite, it is about takin that power away from teens in California.

The following states require parental permission to perform a teen abortion.

* Alabana
* Alaska (for those under the age of 17)
* Arizona
* Arkansas
* Colorado
* Idaho
* Indiana
* Kentucky
* Louisiana
* Maine (can be parent or adult family member)
* Massachusetts
* Michigan
* Mississippi
* Missouri
* North Carolina
* Pennsylvania
* Rhode Island
* South Carolina (for those under the age of 17)
* Tennessee
* Wisconsin (can be parent, grandparent, aunt, uncle or sibling over the age of 25)
* Wyoming

States That Do Not Require Parent Permission: The following states do not require parental permission to perform a teen abortion.

* Alaska (for those over the age of 17)
* California
* Connecticut
* District of Columbia
* Hawaii
* Illinois
* Maryland
* Montana
* Nevada
* New Hampshire
* New Jersey
* New Mexico
* New York
* Oklahoma
* Oregon
* South Carolina (for those over the age of 17)
* Vermont
* Washington

All the rest of the states require notification, but the decision remains with the person who's body (their property) is affected.

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Your argument is totally bogus because in every other single aspect of medical action, the parents are required not only to be informed but to assent to any medical action taken by a medical professional.


Wrong. The opposite is true, so you are now arguing against yourself. In all aspects of sexual health and drug problems, teens retain confidentiality. Here, for example are the rules in California

Why is this case different?
#51 Nov 10 2005 at 8:06 PM Rating: Decent
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Even your example doesn't follow that logic. She wasn't a minor, and was not required to inform anyone of anything by any law, but was still discovered and was forced to have an abortion by her parents (after tbey killed her boyfriend). Um... So how exactly does not requiring a teen to tell her parents about a decision to have an abortion change that? It doesn't. Those extreme cases will occur anyway. The law at question doesn't affect it one way or another.


You completely missed the point. The point wasn't that that case in particular would've benefeted from the abscence of the law. The point was that parents don't always know what is best for their child, as Pat himself said.

And my point is that it doesn't matter if the parents don't know what is best for their kid, because the law states that special cases, when brought up in court, can bypass the required notification of the parents.
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