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#1 Nov 06 2005 at 3:39 AM Rating: Decent
Am I the only one who thinks the excuse "It's part of their genes" is some sort of copout for facing personal responsiblity?

If a person is a drunk, it is in their "Genes"
If a person is a *****, it is in their "Genes"
If a person is a rapist, they have a pre-dispostion to rape in thier "Genes"

I find this to be a huge copout when facing issues like alcohol abuse, drug abuse, or just generally being an *******. I find it to be a **** poor excuse for just being a sh[b][/b]i8thead in general. I find this excuse to being overly used. If a person is a ****** and refuses to work out or lose any weight in general they blame it on "genes". Am I the only one who feels this is being used as a pathetic excuse for being lazy or refusing to better oneself?

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Edited, Sun Nov 6 03:56:13 2005 by Rimesume
#2 Nov 06 2005 at 4:06 AM Rating: Decent
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yeah i think it's a major copout.


however there are some people who are really ****** up in the brain: very few.

others are messed up because of society and family problems: a larger number.

the first two groups need help, from either the government (which i'd prefer) or private help groups.


the rest of people are just lazy jerks; this includes people who have jobs and live a "normal" life but are bitter or ignorant and/or irresponsible about their lives: the vast majority.

the last group is the one who uses excuses. the last group is the most medicated. the last group takes very little time to reflect on why their life is so bad, or good for that matter, so they either make excuses or blame someone/something else; like genes.


so i guess i agree to a point. people need to take responsibility for their lives and that every situation that they are in, they know, they had a hand in it.


i write too many posts on too many message boards when it's late.




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#4 Nov 06 2005 at 7:06 AM Rating: Good
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Rimesume the Shady wrote:
If a person is a rapist, they have a pre-dispostion to rape in thier "Genes"

I always figured someone was a rapist because of what's in their jeans.


#5 Nov 06 2005 at 7:46 AM Rating: Good
Rimesume the Shady wrote:
Am I the only one who thinks the excuse "It's part of their genes" is some sort of copout for facing personal responsiblity?

If a person is a drunk, it is in their "Genes"
If a person is a *****, it is in their "Genes"
If a person is a rapist, they have a pre-dispostion to rape in thier "Genes"

I find this to be a huge copout when facing issues like alcohol abuse, drug abuse, or just generally being an *******. I find it to be a **** poor excuse for just being a sh[b][/b]i8thead in general. I find this excuse to being overly used. If a person is a ****** and refuses to work out or lose any weight in general they blame it on "genes". Am I the only one who feels this is being used as a pathetic excuse for being lazy or refusing to better oneself?

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Edited, Sun Nov 6 03:56:13 2005 by Rimesume



Without passing judgment on those persons who may or may not be compelled to behave in certain manners by their genetic heritage...


Why is it more acceptable to be homosexual when it is genetic yet these other behaviors are not allowed the same blank check?



Getting past my non-judgmental moment of the day...

I don't consider genetic heritage to be much of an excuse for anything. We're human beings and the one thing we should be able to overcome is our basic urges when we know they are not socially acceptable. All of this is nothing but egotistic centricism. People are so sure that what they WANT right now is more important than what the world thinks that they go ahead and behave how they WANT instead of how they know they should. Then, when they want the acceptance they've denied by their actions, they look for an easy scapegoat. It used to be "My parents hit me when I was a child." Today it's "I don't have a choice, it's in my genes."

BS, nothing but BS. Some poor kid with sickle cell is dealing with genetic heritiage. My buddy who weighs 580lbs is dealing with nothing more than overeating. Does he have a propensity for putting on weight? Sure. Has he had 35 years to deal with it and not done so? Yup. I expect him to keel over in the next couple of years from some sort of body failure and I won't weep. Not because he's not a friend, but because it's his choice to be that way, regardless of whether he wants to blame it on genetics or Ryan's. I refuse to be saddened by his life choices, whether it be what he named his children, the clothes he wears, or tackling the fat problem.

I guess I'm just a heartless *******, but they'll get no sympathy from me; must be something in my genes.
#6 Nov 06 2005 at 8:02 AM Rating: Decent
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Why is it more acceptable to be homosexual when it is genetic yet these other behaviors are not allowed the same blank check?


Becuase homosexual activity is consensual between two adults, and doesn't harm anyone else, perhaps?
#7 Nov 06 2005 at 8:27 AM Rating: Good
Only one of the three examples used involved non-consensual relations between two persons. And if you don't think the homosexual lifestyle hurts anyone, just flip to any evangelist preacher. He'll tell you all about how homosexuals are the work o de debil. And certain posters around here could go on about destroyng the foundations of our society. Mind you, I don't agree, I'm just pointing out that some people would argue the "doesn't harm anyone else" portion.
#8 Nov 06 2005 at 10:53 AM Rating: Decent
I have had the nature vs. nurture discussion with others many times before. It seems to me that both arguments have some validity, but you can't really separate the two.

I'm of the opinion that genetics may set your starting point, but how you are raised, and certain events in your life, will push you in one direction or another. Predisposed to weight-gain? Then you just have to work that much harder then someone who isn't predisposed, in order to avoid getting fat.

Two children of alcoholic parents could take separate paths: one becoming an alcoholic and the other opposed to drinking any alcohol what-so-ever.
#9 Nov 06 2005 at 2:48 PM Rating: Good
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I was at a trial a few years ago (armed robbery) where a forensic psychologist was asked to give evidence about one of the shotgun-wielding villains.

He came out with the usual psycho-babble (unhappy product of a broken home, bullied as a child, failed marriage etc. etc.)

The Judge asked this expert witness "So please, in lay-man's terms, could you summarise the defendant's nature?"

The Psychologist replied "Well your honour. Basically, he's a vicious *******"

12 years, no parole. Smiley: grin
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