What is flirting?Follow

Yeah, it's a necro post. Eat me. I'd rather dig up this one than make a new topic.

So I stop at the same coffee shop I stop at several times a week and get my coffee and bagel. One of the regular girls is working there and she gets my stuff as usual. I get to work and start to open up my coffee and I notice on the lid, the girl(according to the name tag on her chest is named "Becky") had written her initials and a little smiley face.

Now, being ignorant of sneakiness of teh womenz and completely oblivious to any such subtleties, I'd naturally just assume that she was being, well, a chic. That's the sort of things chics do right? Seems innocent enough. Had it been a phone number or some provocative message of course I'd think differently, but it's a smiley face for Bob's sake. Then a girl at work sees it and seems to think otherwise. I didn't get a chance to have her explain herself, something about some seminar and she's off for the day. So I come to you, ladies, opinions?

Definitely flirting.

Despite the amusing possibilities of that, I don't think I can honestly recall ever meeting a female who drinks regular coffee, black.

Edited, Wed Nov 16 09:52:00 2005 by Jacobsdeception

Definantly flirting with you.

(ahem) Some places make the girls initial the to go orders in case they get messed up. That way, they have someone to blame.

I'm going to assume she has gotten your stufffor you before sans smiley face and initials? If shes served you before and this is a new addition, then yeah, shes flirting with you. She's horrible at it, going at it like a middle schooler, but she is in her own young way, flirting

Just show her the goods.

I hate long negotiations.

Here's a question that prolly deserves its own thread...

Do women really make the ultimate desicion of whehter they would bang a guy or not within the first few minutes of meeting them?

I think it's fair to say we, or some of us, okay I, can filter guys out of the running in a few seconds. Doesn't take long for that "No way in hell" decision.

After that, 99.6% of the remainder are relegated to "maybe" status, and the weeding process is much longer for those, based on personality, availability, and of course whim.

The remaining .4% of the possibles are in the "hummina-hummina" category, and walk among you as gods.

Yep. It's always much easier to decide who you won't sleep with. And that list is usually populated by guys who use cheesy pick-up lines.

someone sounds like they haven't been with the right woman