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#1 Oct 25 2005 at 12:04 PM Rating: Good
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Big Binky Brouhaha
A new study that says pacifiers help prevent crib death reignites an old debate. Parents and doctors take sides.


By Claudia Kalb

Oct. 31, 2005 issue - It's hard to hate baby pictures, especially your own, but Janna Bosshardt could never stand the ones that showed her as a toddler with a pacifier in her mouth. There she is, 3½ years old, a piece of plastic where the adorable smile should be. So when Bosshardt, now 33, started having her own children, she vowed to avoid the Binkys. "I didn't want to get any of my kids hooked," she says. Her first two, Zach and Brad, did fine without them. Then came Cale, an Olympic-level screamer. "A pacifier was the only thing that would calm him down," says Boss-hardt. "It was for his sanity and mine."

It's a pointed debate, one as old as, well, the thumb: are pacifiers good or bad for babies? They certainly aren't new—generations of children have sucked on devices made out of everything from cloth to silver—but they're more popular than ever. They've earned a vocabulary of their own (soothers, dummies, Binkys), spawned a minor fashion industry (glow-in-the-dark and "mood" pacifiers that change colors) and even made their way into pop culture—TV's Maggie Simpson, the eternal 1-year-old, has been sucking on hers for more than a decade. Now the American Academy of Pediatrics is weighing in, saying pacifiers may help protect babies against sudden infant death syndrome. In new recommendations issued this month, the AAP advises parents to consider using a pacifier at naptime and bedtime. Predictably, the recommendation—which will likely boost the $50 million-plus pacifier industry—has lit up online parenting bulletin boards, where "pacis" are always a controversial topic. And it has also provoked consternation from breast-feeding advocates and even some AAP pediatricians. But the link between pacifier use and SIDS is compelling, says Dr. John Kattwinkel, head of the AAP's task force on SIDS, and "to not call this to the public's attention would be irresponsible."

Nobody knows precisely what causes SIDS or why pacifiers might help. Researchers believe the syndrome, which strikes in the first six months of life, is connected to a baby's ability to arouse himself during times of stress—when his nose is blocked by a pillow, for example. Doctors say pacifiers could work by preventing babies from falling into dangerous deep sleep. Or, because the devices push the tongue forward, they may keep airways more open. Whatever the reason, pacifiers lower the risk of SIDS by almost two thirds, says Dr. Fern Hauck, of the University of Virginia Health System, who conducted a review of the literature.

Not everyone is convinced. Dr. Law-rence Gartner, head of the AAP's com-mittee on breast-feeding, questions the strength of the studies, which are retrospective and rely on parents' recall about their past use of pacifiers. And, he says, there are downsides to pacifiers. The devices pick up bacteria from germy surfaces and kids who use them are more prone to ear and respiratory infections. And pacifiers can be habit-forming—message boards are full of advice on how to use "cold turkey" tactics on "paci junkies." Above all, Gartner and others worry that pacifiers may interfere with breast-feeding, which has important health benefits for babies. The AAP advises parents to wait a month before introducing pacifiers to breast-fed babies to be sure babies are used to nursing. But breast-fed babies, who already wake frequently during the night to nurse, don't need pacifiers, says R.N. Marsha Walker, of the National Alliance for Breastfeed-ing Advocacy, who worries that the AAP recommendation is unnecessarily broad.

While the experts argue over the data, parents like Margo Toledano, who says her son's pacifier keeps him calm, quickly learn what it means to choose sides in the great Binky debate. One day, a stranger in the grocery store said, "Cute baby," then pulled the pacifier out of her son's mouth. "You can take the pacifier out, but I'm going to put it right back in," says Toledano. In the world of modern parenting, it seems, those are fighting words.

With Ben Whitford
© 2005 Newsweek, Inc.


Parents, did your children use pacifiers? Was the peace worth the trouble of breaking them from it later? Do you plan to use one with your future kids, hearing the AAP statistic that they may reduce the chance of SIDS by 66%?

Edited, Tue Oct 25 13:19:53 2005 by xythex
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#2 Oct 25 2005 at 12:27 PM Rating: Excellent
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Jophiel Jr used a pacifier. Breaking him off wasn't really an issue, either. I just weaned him off by waiting until he'd take it out of his mouth and then putting it away. When he eventually noticed it was gone and cried for it, I'd give it back. The periods before he noticed it was missing got longer and longer and he was off it within a couple weeks. I'll admit my experience may not be the norm and some children are holy terrors when they find the binky missing.
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#3 Oct 25 2005 at 12:35 PM Rating: Decent
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I'll admit my experience may not be the norm and some children are holy terrors when they find the binky missing.


I could be a mean son of a bit[/b]ch but, couldn't you just put some Tabasco on that little terrors binky?

I probably shouldn't have kids. Or at last litte terrors.
#4 Oct 25 2005 at 12:40 PM Rating: Good
Our 5 month old doesn't take them. She never would actually. Doesn't really suck her fingers either so we must be lucky.

I don't know that I would object to her having a pacifier however.

It seems that things that cause SIDS changes every few years, for a while there your baby was supposed to sleep on their stomach, now they tell you to put them on their back.
#5 Oct 25 2005 at 12:42 PM Rating: Good
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One day, a stranger in the grocery store said, "Cute baby," then pulled the pacifier out of her son's mouth. "You can take the pacifier out, but I'm going to put it right back in," says Toledano. In the world of modern parenting, it seems, those are fighting words.

Am I the only one disturbed by this? Admittedly, I'm a bit overprotective, but if some random stranger even gets close to one of my children they get quite the stern little shove. But taking a pacifier out of a baby's mouth? You're bloody liable to get punched in the mouth for that.

Right now my daughter is two. We've been slowly weaning her off of it, but she's a sneaky little bi[b][/b]tch. Our youngest is only a couple of months old so we still have them in the house and she steals his all the time. She waits until we aren't watching her and takes them out of the Diaper Bags or from the dish drain thingie.

I take them away from her during the day and she doesn't fuss too much outside of the 3 second temper tantrum immediately following. At night though, we still let her have them. It seems to help her fall asleep. Otherwise she just sits in her bedroom playing with her toys in the dark for hours.
#6 Oct 25 2005 at 12:45 PM Rating: Good
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Parents, did your children use pacifiers? Was the peace worth the trouble of breaking them from it later?


My daughter used her "Nuk-Nuk" for the first 9 months. It helped her fall asleep pretty fast and most of the time when she cried, as soon as we popped the pacifier in her mouth, she stopped crying. As soon as she started taking drinks from a cup, she generally didn't want a pacifier anymore. We were one of the lucky ones.

Now, one of my friends is not one of the lucky ones. 5 years later, if her kid finds an old pacifier, she'll start sucking on it and Heaven help the one who tries to take it out of that kid's mouth.
#7 Oct 25 2005 at 12:59 PM Rating: Excellent
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Yes, yes, and yes.

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#8 Oct 25 2005 at 1:23 PM Rating: Decent
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I sucked my thumb until I was about 6. Then my parents said they would buy me a gameboy if I didn't suck my thumb for a whole month. That fixed it. Fixed it really well.
#9 Oct 25 2005 at 1:30 PM Rating: Good
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Am I the only one disturbed by this? Admittedly, I'm a bit overprotective, but if some random stranger even gets close to one of my children they get quite the stern little shove. But taking a pacifier out of a baby's mouth? You're bloody liable to get punched in the mouth for that.


/nod. It's hard enough not smacking someone upside the head when they come to "pat your tummy" when youre pregnant. It's a whole other ballfield if you come near enough my child to take something away from him without my permission.

My son used the pacifier until he was 2 1/2. Weaning was hard for him, but we worked it so he could have it less and less until one day we had a pacifier throw away party. It worked beautifully and he never looked back.

Yes, they are worth it, if your kid takes one. I know some kids who refuse to have them and others who worship them. Like anything weaning a child off of something he used as a comfort factor can be difficult, but for the overall happiness of parents and child, until then it more than makes up for it.

As for it helping with SIDs that catches my interest. My husband had an older brother who died of SIDs and I was more cautious and nervous with my son because it has happened in the family. If it actually does help, you can be assured I will not hesitate to use pacifiers again when I have another child
#10 Oct 25 2005 at 1:37 PM Rating: Decent
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I suck.
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#12 Oct 25 2005 at 1:40 PM Rating: Decent
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Do you suck?















Wanna start? Smiley: sly
#13 Oct 25 2005 at 1:42 PM Rating: Good
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I think you can suck well enough for 2 people.
#14 Oct 25 2005 at 1:44 PM Rating: Decent
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I think you can suck well enough for 2 people.


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Wanna threesome? Smiley: sly
#16 Oct 25 2005 at 1:53 PM Rating: Excellent
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Shoo! Scat! get out of my thread you damn scallywags. You're making another one of my happy, gumdrop land, social hour, tea time threads into a deranged, dirty, filthpool. Get! Scram!
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#17 Oct 25 2005 at 1:57 PM Rating: Good
Here's my take.

If the kid wants to use it (and isn't too old i'd say 3 or 4) go ahead. If he doesn't, there is a nice sword and sheild set in my car for him. Little knights don't need fricken binkies.

As far as the SIDS thing goes, the possible reducion measures keep changing, so I'd take that with a grain of salt. I recently just heard from my step mother that we wouldn't be able to touch out baby to blanket because of SIDS....Smiley: rolleyes
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Shoo! Scat! get out of my thread you damn scallywags. You're making another one of my happy, gumdrop land, social hour, tea time threads into a deranged, dirty, filthpool. Get! Scram!
But that's my pacifier! Smiley: cry
#19 Oct 25 2005 at 2:09 PM Rating: Default
I never used a pacifer or sucked on my thumb I did carry a blanket that I sucked on till I was 3....And I'm still afraid of the dark.
#20 Oct 25 2005 at 4:25 PM Rating: Decent
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One of my kids used a pacifer one didn't. Neither died of SIDS and both seem to be relatively normal as young adults.
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