Roller the Charming wrote:
That's my problem though, I have NO "game" whatsoever. It's not easy for me, even drunk, to approach girls and then, having done that, convince them they want to go home with me.
Yeah...I know...I suck...
Step one: Smile
Step two: Look confident, introduce yourself and offer a to buy drinks for a girl AND her friends.
Step three: Ask questions about her and look interested. Get to know all her friends' names. MEMORY IS IMPORTANT (It gives the illusion that you are a good listener.)
Step four: Comment on things such as how great she and her friends are, and that you are really enjoying yourself
Step five: Mention that you have plans to go to a diner or something after the party, and see if she wants to accompany you.
At this point, if she says yes, you are in. The 2 most important things when using this approach are:
1) When approaching that group of girls to begin with, you talk to the one who made eye contact with you, or seems to non-chalantly be flipping her hair. That is the body language you are looking for. Even if she is not 'the hawtest one', she is the one you have a chance with. As you get better, you will learn how to use your 'in' then read the body language of the friends to see which ones you might have a chance with.
2) Never talk about yourself. Always redirect any questions about you to questions about her or comments about something unrelated. Example: Q: So what do you think about religion? A: I think religion is important to some people and not so much to others, what do you think about it? (Note the redirection).
Tomorrow on 'How to be a harlot'; How to get those swedish twins to go home with you.