...it would seem :)
Go ahead and tell me I'm an idiot if you like, but I'm pretty damn happy about it.
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“It has always been the prerogative of children and half-wits to point out that the emperor has no clothes. But a half-wit remains a half-wit, and the emperor remains an emperor.â€
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
Ok idiot. (o yea congradulations 
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,etc...)Well, maybe it is a little stupid (perhaps just too forgiving) but if you feel like you will be able to keep on living and remain happy then congratulations.
At the very least I hope you slap him really hard a couple times.
At the very least I hope you slap him really hard a couple times.
And they call me a flip flopper for suggesting life was terminal.
Congratulations, I suppose. I know this is what you would prefer. I am sure you will hear enough about how hard it will be going forward from people you are close to and trust, so I will simply say good luck to you, and leave it at that.
Congratulations, I suppose. I know this is what you would prefer. I am sure you will hear enough about how hard it will be going forward from people you are close to and trust, so I will simply say good luck to you, and leave it at that.
So... what'd you do with the body?
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Wow. Regular ol' Joph fan club in here.
If you are happy then that is what matters. Just be careful, but I am sure you know that already.
Congrats? Is that what you are supposed to say here? I have no clue.
So what excuse are you going to use to save your marriage the next time he sticks his ***** into another woman?
Edited, Sun Oct 16 21:42:53 2005 by bodhisattva
Edited, Sun Oct 16 21:42:53 2005 by bodhisattva
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GRATS!
The fist one is always the most special...savor every moment you can't get this time in your life back.
The fist one is always the most special...savor every moment you can't get this time in your life back.
I know a rather hungry snail if you need a place to dump it! he needs his protein and calcium! grow a nice big shell!
er, Congratulations?
er, Congratulations?
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Good luck with that, hope it works out.
Some people are like slinkies, they aren't really good for anything, but they still bring a smile to your face when you push them down the stairs.
He was pretty adamant, very recently, that he was not prepared to stop having sex with his other woman. What changed?
In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act.
Nexa, if you're happy and you can forgive him, this is great! I think if I were in your situation I also would want to give the marriage another try. Especially since you have that little one. Good luck!
S[i][/i]hit!
I mis read the thread title! I thought you were now for sure getting divorced.
Ignore my previous post.
Get divorced, it's the most fun you can have on your feet.
I mis read the thread title! I thought you were now for sure getting divorced.
Ignore my previous post.
Get divorced, it's the most fun you can have on your feet.
So you're taking the alternative route, I assume?
I hope it works out for you. Your baby, I imagine, will like the decision.
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Hmm I'm stumped. Do I say congrads? I'm not for sure how to express that I'm glad you are happy, sucks you almost got divorced. I am soo glad you two are working things out though. I know you were torn up awfully about it and having had my own divorce experiences, I dont wish that on anyone. Just let him know that if he ever needs to remember why he should take excellent care of you, we will all be more than willing to plant our boots up his *** as a reminder.
I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you, Nexa, being firmly in the "fix the marriage whenever possible" camp.
I really hope it works out for you.
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Probably a good decision, but make it his very last chance.
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He was pretty adamant, very recently, that he was not prepared to stop having sex with his other woman. What changed?
It wasn't so much that he was insistant on continuing to have sex with her - that just happened the one time, it was that he didn't want to stop talking to her altogether, which was what I wanted. He wanted to still be friends with her, which I couldn't handle. He has since cut ties with her.
Nexa
“It has always been the prerogative of children and half-wits to point out that the emperor has no clothes. But a half-wit remains a half-wit, and the emperor remains an emperor.â€
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
Thanks guys, and yes Pat, fool me once...shame on you...fool me twice...
Anyway, we're taking things somewhat slow so that we can be careful not to overwhelm ourselves or each other. He'll be moving in around the 1st of December and we're going to continue going to counseling. Thanks for the support during this, I can't really express how much I have appreciated it.
Nexa
Anyway, we're taking things somewhat slow so that we can be careful not to overwhelm ourselves or each other. He'll be moving in around the 1st of December and we're going to continue going to counseling. Thanks for the support during this, I can't really express how much I have appreciated it.
Nexa
“It has always been the prerogative of children and half-wits to point out that the emperor has no clothes. But a half-wit remains a half-wit, and the emperor remains an emperor.â€
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
Good deal. Divorce sucks.
Take him back with the understanding that "Bobbit" is a distant cousin to you.
Grats to you.
Take him back with the understanding that "Bobbit" is a distant cousin to you.
Grats to you.
hopfully it's not just a re-bound thing.. (is that possible with the same person? hmm)
It IS possible to reconcile Nexa. I went through a similar thing early on in my marriage.
Trust takes time to rebuild (trust me). Continue to work at and and don't skip the counseling, it DOES help.
Good luck to all three of you!
Trust takes time to rebuild (trust me). Continue to work at and and don't skip the counseling, it DOES help.
Good luck to all three of you!
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Trust takes time to rebuild (trust me).
Why the hell should she trust you buster? You are going to have to work harder than that!
See! It hasn't been enough time yet.
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