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#52 Oct 09 2005 at 9:41 AM Rating: Decent
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#53 Oct 09 2005 at 11:06 AM Rating: Decent
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Well we did talk last night after she got of work, it was mainly my over-reacting. Yes she still loves me just as much as before but she just needs less things to worry about right now. Her life is pretty damn ****** up lately and she's got alot of this stressing her out. The way thingsw are now, we'll be back together when those other problems go away.

Kinda works the opposite of what you'de think, i'm supposed to be here for her when she'sstressed out to help her out, but im still going to do that for her. We're just not "Dating".

What she really ment was, we're still together, but she dosn't want to have to worry asbout us being a couple. Which is fine i guess, i'll still treat us like a couple, but in a crafty sneaky way so she won't have to worry about our relationship.

I Still feel kinda empty inside, maybe just because i'm a big moron. I think i'll have some flowers sent to her work in the next week or so. That might make her mad though considering that's something i would do for her as a boyfriend. Maybe if i just make them yellow and not red.

Hmmmm, i need some ideas.
#54 Oct 10 2005 at 8:36 AM Rating: Good
I have an idea. Act like you're the male in the relationship.

Not to be down on you when your girl just walked, but having a relationship with her without letting her now about it? WTF are you thinking? Exactly how do you have a relationship on the sly like that?

Dude, that's called stalking.

If she needs space and has expressed that by leaving, I suggest you either give her that space or convince her she doesn't need space from YOU.

Personally, I'd wash my hands of her, but I've got committment issues, namely that I should be committed so my advice comes laizze faire.
#55 Oct 10 2005 at 2:20 PM Rating: Default
layoffs SUCK


sorry bout the girl issue...
at leased she didn't do what mine did and marry your brother

ooh how i wish it was legal to kill family
#56 Oct 10 2005 at 5:49 PM Rating: Decent
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Well i'm not trying to be a stalker,i need ideas on how to give her that space she needs, but also show that i'll be there for her as a friend. I'm sorry if my staement was not clear enough to get that point across.

I'm not the best when it comes to using words or long speeches, so i'm always trying to make myself more clear on what i say. About being the man in the relationship: Ywah i probably should grow some bigger balls, but im not to concerned about it.

It's a delicate situation now. Yes she still loves me, and yeah i still love her, she just needs her space. I'm just trying to be there for her but not interfear with her space, which is a pretty hard to do sometimes.
#57 Oct 11 2005 at 9:32 AM Rating: Default
sounds to me like one of those smothering cries.

perhaps she really does just want a little space, or some "me" time

best advice I can not so expertly give is to let her have her space...if she really loves you she will come back very soon. Just don't smother her or it will drive her further away, then again don't drop her off at the curb either.
#58 Oct 11 2005 at 9:34 AM Rating: Decent
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She married your brother?

Smiley: lol That's frickin hilarious.
#59 Oct 11 2005 at 10:31 AM Rating: Decent
At the time I really didn't think so


but now I get to laugh about it
#60 Oct 12 2005 at 6:44 PM Rating: Default
my friday sucked as did my monday, tuesday....
**** my week sucked.


**** aegis that blows sorry you lost your job
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