Heh, I got a story about the $250,000 wedding my cousin had.
Yup, they paid for it and they could afford it. She's a senior chemical engineer with Standard Oil and he's a lawyer in one of those big law firms. And with our big Filipino family and the fiance's huge Polish family, the guest list approached the size of a small town. Most of the money went towards the food, photography, traveling and lodging (they paid for everyone to fly to Chicago and stay at the Hilton O'Hare). They even booked cars and drivers and limos to transport all the guests and they apparently had to pay for traffic control at the reception area. Reception was so large they had to to book all the ball rooms. It was, to say the least, overwhelming. But the wedding wasn't just for one day. There were family parties and the dinner rehearsal held over a course of several days. So it was more like a family reunion, family greeting, family mingling, family celebration.
Was it fun? Yeah. Was it worth it? To them it was, considering the fact that they already bought two houses, a boat and a lot of other things, the money wasn't much of an issue. Would I do that? Heck no, I liked my smaller, simpler wedding. But our vow renewal ceremony (to do the Catholic blessing) will be on a larger scale, just not the enormous scale my cousin did it with.