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#28 Sep 26 2005 at 6:46 PM Rating: Good
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I hope we're not expected to pity you for cheating because I find it horrible. It's good that you realize that it was a bad decision but that doesn't take back the pain that you've caused your wife. Is she leaving you? I know I would and I'd take you for everything you have.


I actually assumed Achileez is a girl (or at least plays one in the asylum). I don't know too many guys who have journals with locks on them, much less would actually write anything in one if they did. That and the whole "We weren't married" bit kinda makes talking about a "wife" questionable.

And not to bring any level of seriousness into the topic or anything, but I was also curious as to whether the OP was more bothered by the fact that she cheated, or the fact that she got caught? Just an interesting point to ponder...
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#29 Sep 26 2005 at 6:50 PM Rating: Default
Pruef shut up, only thing you've cheated on is your right hand with your left.

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#31 Sep 26 2005 at 6:54 PM Rating: Decent
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You put your right hand in his mouth?

Left?
#32 Sep 26 2005 at 7:28 PM Rating: Excellent
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You're a ****
Ha ha.. I bet you never have a girlfriend again.

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#33 Sep 26 2005 at 7:33 PM Rating: Excellent
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Jophiel wrote:
NephthysWanderer the Charming wrote:
You're a ****
Ha ha.. I bet you never have a girlfriend again.

Loser!


Now that's funny
#34 Sep 26 2005 at 8:20 PM Rating: Default
Not really, I was the Marine bangin the wives while the husbands were out on float. You must be married or have a girlfriend who spends a lot of time away from you. /laugh

Just because you can't see outside your bubble of a false reality makes me a 12 year old, and if you don't think it happens.... watch that tv show called Cheaters.

But wait I just remembered that saying "Ignorance is bliss" and in that case you are better off not tuning in.

Take care.
#35 Sep 26 2005 at 8:23 PM Rating: Decent
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Only once, but I really didn't have the answer to number 12.
#36 Sep 26 2005 at 8:40 PM Rating: Decent
Depends if a threesome is considered cheating. Was before I was married. Though once I met my SO, all thoughts of cheating left my head.

I agree with katie though. Cheaters should have to preform a self salt-water episiotomy, followed by a sulphuic acid *****.
#37 Sep 26 2005 at 8:47 PM Rating: Excellent
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Nope.
#38 Sep 26 2005 at 8:48 PM Rating: Decent
Ok I really just lurk on these boards but this thread sruck a cord in me. I have to agree if you have to resort to cheating the you should just die. If you cant stand to be mature enough to stand up and face the problems in your relationship and either solve them or accually relize that you weren't ment for each other then you haven't the emotional responsibility to live as an adult in this world. So either run back home to your parents or do the world a favor and die.

(I vote for the second.)
#39 Sep 26 2005 at 9:22 PM Rating: Good
Ya know, I've never cheated on a SO. I just wouldn't. It'd be like giving up part of myself to do that.

On the other hand, I've been with a couple of women who were cheating to be with me. One ended because it just wound itself down. Once the thrill wore off, it was just run of the mill sex and that's not worth getting shot at for.

The other scared me off. I asked her why she was cheating on her hubby with me and she told me she wanted to divorce him and marry me. As if I'd marry a known cheater. Snakes in the head, I tell ya. Snakes in the head.
#40 Sep 26 2005 at 11:08 PM Rating: Excellent
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no and I never will. If I were ever in the situation where I felt that cheating started to sound like a viable option, I'd divorce first. There is no reason ever to cheat on someone. If you do all it means is you lack the balls to go through the hardest part; breaking off a relationship you are not happy in to begin with.
#42 Sep 27 2005 at 2:25 AM Rating: Decent
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Lady deadsidedemon wrote:
no and I never will. If I were ever in the situation where I felt that cheating started to sound like a viable option, I'd divorce first. There is no reason ever to cheat on someone. If you do all it means is you lack the balls to go through the hardest part; breaking off a relationship you are not happy in to begin with.


/agree

Cheating is the cowards way out. If you leave me for someone, you just lose me. If you take the cowards way out and cheat then you lose me, my respect, and possibly a kitchen appliance.
#43REDACTED, Posted: Sep 27 2005 at 3:05 AM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) You sound like a bunch of people who lack sex appeal. Maybe some of you have never been faced with the situation at hand. Women don't like fat or ugly guys. C'mon lets face it, unless you are rich.
#44 Sep 27 2005 at 3:12 AM Rating: Default
Never, though like TStevens I have been with women who were cheating on their boyfriends. And once with a women I didn't know was married.

Cheaters are generally stupid IMO. I spent 2 years working as a Private Investigator. I have seen many many cheaters. Word of advice if you're gunna buy your new mistress jewelry, don't use the card you share with your wife, especially if she pays the bills. Don't know why, but this is a common practice among cheaters. Guess they want to be caught.

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There's nothing wrong with it because those women that cheat are depraved by their husbands usually. You shouldn't be with a woman if you can't satisfy her.


[Merriam-Webster Online dictionary]Main Entry: de·prave
Pronunciation: di-'prAv
Function: transitive verb
Inflected Form(s): de·praved; de·prav·ing
Etymology: Middle English, from Middle French depraver, from Latin depravare to pervert, from de- + pravus crooked, bad
1 archaic : to speak ill of : MALIGN
2 : to make bad : CORRUPT; especially : to corrupt morally[/quote]

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[Merriam-Webster Online dictionary]Main Entry: de·prive
Pronunciation: di-'prIv
Function: transitive verb
Inflected Form(s): de·prived; de·priv·ing
Etymology: Middle English depriven, from Medieval Latin deprivare, from Latin de- + privare to deprive -- more at PRIVATE
1 obsolete : REMOVE
2 : to take something away from <deprived him of his professorship -- J. M. Phalen>
3 : to remove from office
4 : to withhold something from <deprived a citizen of her rights> [/quote]

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Not really, I was the Marine bangin the wives while the husbands were out on float. You must be married or have a girlfriend who spends a lot of time away from you. /laugh


So you are aware you are admitting to violating the Uniform Code of Military Conduct and can be Court Martial for this right? Not to mention a possible training accident when your fellow Marine's find out you been banging their wives.
#45 Sep 27 2005 at 8:03 AM Rating: Good
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Are you talking about my comment? Are you a cheater? If you are please die. Cheaters are worthless pieces of sh*t who should gouge their own eyes out, stab themselves with hot pokers and lastly throw themselves off tall buildings only to land on a thousand sharp pointy objects.


Blunt object would hurt more from that hieght and make more of a mess. Please make it blunt objects. Perhaps you could add a bunjee cord so they hit the ground over and over again.
#46 Sep 27 2005 at 9:18 AM Rating: Excellent
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Ha ha.. I bet you never have a girlfriend again.

Loser!


Depends on how much you are willing to bet. Smiley: smile





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#47 Sep 27 2005 at 9:38 AM Rating: Decent
Lady deadsidedemon wrote:
no and I never will. If I were ever in the situation where I felt that cheating started to sound like a viable option, I'd divorce first. There is no reason ever to cheat on someone. If you do all it means is you lack the balls to go through the hardest part; breaking off a relationship you are not happy in to begin with.


After reading all of the replies, I have to second this motion. It's not so much that I think cheaters should die. We should just ship them off to an island where they can fester all of the wonderful diseases of the world and actually learn a lesson from their wicked ways. I wouldn't wish death on anyone who hasn't actually violently harmed another, but I do believe that cowards should be punished for their ways.

I sense a little hostility from Katie. Remember, we are all ultimately responsible for our choices. One of the biggest choices we make is who we invest our emotional harmony in. If you ended up with a cheater who hurt you, then perhaps you lakced the emotional discipline to get to know the person you "loved" and only wanted to transpose an image onto a person and make them yours. Cheating is a two way street. I know I sound like a devil's advocate, but when you try to make someone "the one" make sure you know who they are first.
#48 Sep 27 2005 at 11:47 AM Rating: Good
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women that cheat are depraved by their husbands


Married nearly 15 years, neither of us is the cheating type, and after all this time, yes, I have contributed to her becoming very depraved. All the more reason neither of us is inclined to stray.
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    #49 Sep 27 2005 at 12:12 PM Rating: Excellent
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    Married nearly 15 years, neither of us is the cheating type, and after all this time, yes, I have contributed to her becoming very depraved. All the more reason neither of us is inclined to stray.


    Umm what?
    #50 Sep 27 2005 at 12:19 PM Rating: Excellent
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    I cheated on Monopoly once. I feel so ashamed. Smiley: frown
    #51REDACTED, Posted: Sep 27 2005 at 12:45 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) I think this goes without saying. It's difficult to imagine someone who's posted more than 10,000 times on this forum as someone who's not hard on the eyes.
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