Nexa wrote:
It's miserable, but we're keeping communication open and doing what we need to to be friends. I'm doing my best to keep the snide comments to a minimum and he's making sure to be available if I need anything. It's going to suck for a really long time, but that's life...
I can tell you that is probably the smartest and bravest decision you'll make for this situation, especially when you go to Court for child support/child custody. The biggest thing that I see Courts get ticked off about is when the parents completely fight with each other and the child gets caught in the middle.
Don't worry about trying to be friends with your ex for the moment. Just be cordial, polite and treat him as the father of your child. If things get better, the friendship part will just develop.
But still sending happy thoughts your way. ^^