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Wait--- he was cheating on u and u decided to marry him??? bad move, sorry that it puts u inna sticky spot (which you will make it through) but that was poor decision making, no matter how charming he was and good he made you feel. And no matter how much you wanted him to, and what steps you took to make it happen, he (and all of us) wont change. so say goodbye, OR be willing to deal with the way he is, which will include sex with other women and apparently not having a job.
No, we have been married for three years, this encounter happened last Wednesday. Also, he does have a job, he's a full time dad, a full time student, and a part time retail clerk. I don't know where he finds the time for multiple relationships, frankly.
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we only change by our on volition.
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to everyone (women specifically) else: human beings are like any other animal in most ways, there is nothing set in nature that requires us to be a part of a life-long exclusive relationship, marriage is a farce really, and as women become more "equal" to mean in the areas of business politics religion and all of these social pillars, on a social level makes marriage all the more usless to everyone. he is not a ******* for humping someother chick, UNLESS he entered the relationship on the express intention that he would be exclusive. the lying is not so nice, esp if he said he loves u, but when someone tells u that, you cant just take it for face value.
Of course he entered into the relationship promising it would be exlusive, have you READ marriage vows? Also, I think that whole line about us being animals and crap is a bunch of ******** used by one lying cheater after another as an excuse. Marriage is a promise, and if you can't keep part of the promise, at least have the decency to be honest. I would have rather he left me first.
Nexa
@ Sammy