Ever have someone in your life at some point who you not only hated (and I mean this in the strongest sense) but they hated you? Ever coe in contact with them years later? It's an odd feeling, to be sure.
Not getting into my whole life story, but I had a step mother who hated me more than anything. You know Cinderellas step mom? This woman could give her lessons. Over my life, until I was 13 or so, I had to deal with this cnut and she me. At 13 I left and never saw or heard from her again. It's now been 13 yars.
So a few minutes ago, I go to check my email and there's an email with my fathers email address. He and I rarely talk as well, but here and there we communicate to make sure the other is actually alive. So I open it up, thinking it's going to be a note asking if I am indeed alive and how my son is, when it's my step mother who wrote.
It was a terse, but polite letter asking about some up and coming family birthday party and she wanted to know if I was going so she could decide whether or not to go herself. She didn't want to stress the family with the two of us in the same room, knowing we'd kill each other. After asking, she mentioned how she saw pics of my son and how beautiful he was, how proud I must be.
While it was nothing to look at, I was completely floored that she actually took the time to sit there and figure out what to write. I'm laughing, just imgining her pulling her hair out, tying to sound somewhat nice. But while it was a small email, it was amzing how just a few simple words could bring back the hatred in just one moment, knowing who wrote it.
Has anyone ever been in a situation where they somehow were forced to communicate with someone they completely loathed? What was it like and how did you react?