Men, Ladies: thoughts?Follow

Last night I went out with a girlfriend of mine, and over the course of our discussions we brought up the topic of things men find sexy. Of course we went over the basics of lingerie, panties, etc, but one thing she mentioned made me go "huh". it seems awhile ago, a male friend of hers was going out with some chick, and as a surprised she had her nether regions waxed into the shape of his initials. I guess he thought that was the sexiest thing ever, proceeded to call all his male friends ( Including her BF) and they all agreed unanimously that was super sexy.

Of course then we got to discussing how complicated our own SO's initials would be, even if it was just one letter, and wondered if it were worth it. I'm still debating.


Anyways, so what is the one thing a female could do that is not already beaten to death ( no pun intended of course) that would be a surprising turn on?


Ladies, lets turn the tables a bit and I'll ask you the same thing. Whats one thing a man could do that is not already a well known factor, that would make you shiver and glassy eyed?

One of my girlfriend's biggest turn-ons is hip bones. I have no clue how she finds it sexy, but whatever works for her.

                                     ↓His opinion is ****.↓

Ya know, that's always been a part of a girl's body that I really like, for some reason. I wouldn't say the hip bone specifically, but when i was with my ex-gf I can recall being unusually fixated with her curvaceous hips. And they were good to drape an arm over when I slept.

Edited, Mon Aug 8 01:05:26 2005 by Eske

So true.

A surprising turn on for me would be if my SO got all aggressive on me. She is very submissive (which I very much enjoy) but sometimes I fantasize about her taking the reigns.

My husband has a thing for the shape of a woman's back. Not the but, but the curve where the torso dips into the waist, and then flairs out into the hips. Little wonder he has a big time corset fetish.




Glasses. I love a brainy-looking guy. This was a large part of my X-Files era David Duchovny fixation, as Mulder wearing his glasses was a thing of beauty (of which I can't find an image to link right now...most X-Files fansites have gone belly-up, and those few remaining don't seem to have many screencaps. FOX probably threatened to eat the website owner's puppy if they didn't take them off--that's how they worked back in the day.)

My hubby wears specs, as do I, and we are considering getting laser surgery (we figure it will pay for itself in 8-10 years with glasses costing an easy $400 a pop every two years.) But I have to say, I will be pretty sad to see his glasses go. He has beautiful brown eyes with just a tiny bit of Asian slant courtesy of his Japanese mother, and sometimes I forget just how pretty his eyes are because I don't see them that often, but oh, the glasses...! I will definitely miss them.

On the weird side, I had a friend who loved men with large, defined veins on their arms and hands. I never got that one.

*edit: finally found one

Edited, Mon Aug 8 05:15:59 2005 by Ambrya

I have to admit, that made me a little horny Katie.

What you doin' this weekend? My buddy James just came home from the army, I could borrow his BDU's, whaddaya say?

Do a sexy belly dance to Blood Milk and Sky by White Zombie.

I'd think "do" would rule out things like having nice physical features or being funny or whatever and you're looking for actual actions on her part. And I don't have a solid answer except to say that pretty much anything that shows she was thinking ahead and wanted to take the effort to turn me on is a plus. Knowing that sex together is something she's looking forward to and planning on is a good thing. I guess that falls into Neph's answer as well; basically you don't want to be left thinking she's just tolerating it for your sake.

That said, the initials thing is just creepy

Like Joph mentioned, Im not looking for something about looks that you either have or dont. Im looking for that little thing that anyone can do to make your eyes light up. Is it a special toss of the hair? Is it a scent you know the other may not be fond of but knows it drives you wild?

Wow. I miss Mr. Tare.

Agressive girls like Neph said.

100% agreed. When they can do that "come hither" or "come fu[b][/b]ck me" look...that's just the coolest thing in the world. You KNOW that they want you inside them at that point, and they're not just enduring it for your sake.

In my 19 years though I haven't yet had sex with a girl that was "just enduring" it. Makes me wonder if some of y'all are doin it wrong?

I would totally adore my gf of she got rid of her tongue ring. I don't know what the big deal is supposed to be, but when she's giving me a header it just feels like an extra set of teeth