Capek wrote:
I agree with you to a certain extent.
While it is true that even though his opinion is derived from a religious belief, it is still a valid opinion. I am not denying anyone's ability to form their judgments based on any outside resource. What I am doing is trying to expose the hypocrisy of the conservative Christian.
And this, ultimately, is why you're going to run into problems. You're essentially saying it's ok to form your own opinions, but I'm going to argue that your opinions aren't valid because I don't agree with the source. This is going to be (and is!) interpreted by said religious person as an attack on his beliefs.
And that's where the issue gets funny. I'm not religious by any means. I'm also not a secular liberal. But what I'm seeing is the secular liberals claiming that the mere existance of the religious people's beliefs is a violation of their own beliefs on how society should make choices, and the religious folks arguing back that the secular liberals beliefs are an attack on their religions and constitute relgious persecution. And in a way, both sides are right. And both sides are wrong.
Can you see that when you attack a person's ideas because of their source, you are doing *exactly* the same thing he is. He's saying that his beliefs are right because they are religious based, and you are saying that they are wrong because they are religious based. You're both being equally irrational about it from my perspective. And certainly, you're never going to get any kind of solution if you attack the guy's faith. While that may be fun to do on occasion, it's just not going to be very productive IMO.
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Conservative Christians today operate the same way. Instead of fighting issues like the oppression of Christianity and the spread of atheism, they decide to block all the ****** from engaging in a legal union of two people.
But that's because they see that as an extension of the "oppression of Christianity". For exactly the reasons I listed above. Given your stated "goal" (showing them that their opnions have no value because they're based on a flawed faith/ideology) is expressed very clearly as an attack on tbeir beliefs, how on earth can you be surprised when they think it's a form of religious persecution? And when all they see is that people who are constantly trying to argue that their faith is stupid, or wrong, or flawed, are the same people who are pushing for gay marriage bills, why are you surprised that they choose to fight against them?
I could argue that secular liberals operate the same way as well. Instead of find common ground between themselves and other members of the society they live in, they attack the beliefs many other's use to form their social values, forcing them to attack back. Why can't we find a way to allow gays to have their rights while still respecting the beliefs of the religous folks? Wouldn't that be a more sensible solution then going right for legistlation designed to **** off all the religious people in the country? Yeah. I think it is...
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Unfortunately, the issues of gay marriage is not based on:
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the views of the majority of the citizens of the country
as you put it. It is based on a very loud and efficient minority who happens to be the number one asset to the major political party in this country during the present day. Many states have denied gays the right to marry in the supreme court, (i.e. MA), only to have a review turned down in the Federal Supreme court by 6/9 judges that were nominated by republicans.
I could argue the same. Gay marriage is being argued *for* only by a very lound and efficient minority (in the other party in this case). In both cases, the majority is kind of on the fence, with two minority groups pushing the agenda back and forth from the sides. And as far as the legal battle is concerned, I'm not aware of any US supreme court decision on the issue deciding one way or the other, so that votes still out.
You also have to remember that it's not the conservatives pushing to make gay marriage illegal. It's the liberals pushing to make it legal. And it's not really correct to say legal and illegal either. For the entire history of the US (up until very recently) all state laws required a set of condition on two people before issuing a marriage license. One of those conditions has always been that they be a union of one man and one woman.
Without arguing the "rightness" of that position on marriage, the fact is that that has always been "the law". So the change is coming from the left, not the right. Of course, the religious folks are going to feel threatened by it. Why assume anything else? But the issue is a lot more complex then just blanketly saying that it's a gay rights issue. It's also an issue of states rights. It's an issue of what the purpose of marriage is as it applies to the state (not the same as the social contact of marriage, or the religious sacrament of marriage). It's an issue of determining if marriage is a "right". Is there a fundamental right for any couple to be recognized by the state as a married couple? Is there a fundamental right to whatever benefits that status may incur? What exactly is the reason the state grants benefits to married couples? Heck. What exactly *are* the benefits from the state itself? Do those benefits makes sense when applied to a gay couple? Does the reason those benefits were granted originally from the state to married couples make sense if we change the definition of marriage to "any two people who apply for the license". If we allow this change, what other changes can be allowed? Can we still legally justify outlawing Polygamy/Polyany? What reasons do we have to make those illegal, but not gay marriage?
As you can see from just this list (off the top of my head), there are a hell of a lot of ramifications to the issue, that go well beyond the very simplistic "I'm for gay rights" position. My concern is that in our haste to push agendas from the far right and the far left, most of these (IMO far more important!) issues are being ignored. The real discussion that should be going on prior to a social change of such magnitude are simply not happening. Instead, we're getting arguments that consist of bashing the other side because they're for or against something that I personally disagree with (for my own biased reasons).
To me, that's a **** poor reason to make a legal change of any kind. But then, I'm a "real" conservative. Not a religious right. Believe it or not, there's a lot of us in the Republican party.
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Republican leader Bill Frist has been quoted as saying
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marriage between a man and a woman “is a sacrament†reflecting our traditional “Western values.â€
http://www.sodomylaws.org/lawrence/lweditorials034.htm My problem is not with their argument; it is their lack of cohesion.
There's nothing wrong with lack of cohesion. It means that not everyone agrees on everything. That's a *good* thing IMO. Remember, if you're talking about Republicans, they are the defacto conservative party. Conservatives are about maintaining status-quo and/or slow and well thought out changes at the very least. So disagreement does not mean hyporicy at all. Disagreement means that there will be argument, and discussion (hopefully), and in either case slows down the rate of change. To a conservative, the time to be concerned is when you have a large number of people all in agreement on something. That's when fast and poorly thought out sweeping changes get enacted that we often regret but are stuck with for decades to come.
Again. If you think lack of cohesion/agreement on social issues is a problem for the Republican party, think again. We welcome disparate ideas.