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#27 Feb 08 2005 at 2:15 PM Rating: Good
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#28 Feb 08 2005 at 2:16 PM Rating: Good
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#29 Feb 08 2005 at 2:22 PM Rating: Decent
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actually had work


Huh? What is this work thing that people keep talking about?

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Since this isn't something one can really compromise on... I'd have to say that cheating is whatever your SO thinks it is.


I agree. To add my Smiley: twocents, cheating is a definition that is unique between any two people. Its a general understanding that you must be aware of. Unless its specifically been ok'ed, follow Joph's rule.

I am from the old school of cheating though

He touches you, I break his arms
You touch him, I break his arms, then kick your *** to the curb.

Quite simple Smiley: grin
#30 Feb 08 2005 at 2:29 PM Rating: Good
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developed a serious dislike for Moe and then got a promotion and actually had work.


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#31 Feb 08 2005 at 2:35 PM Rating: Decent
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The Honorable KakarSmakar wrote:
Moe grows on ya. He's like a fungus.

But only facing north...
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#32 Feb 08 2005 at 2:46 PM Rating: Excellent
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#33 Feb 08 2005 at 2:52 PM Rating: Good
Jophiel's explanation seems the most sensible to me. Of course, it really is something that changes on a case by case basis. I have dated men who have cheated on me, and that didn't go well at all - for them. But I've also found myself tempted to cheat before, so I can understand the thought process.

My current boyfriend and I have been together for a few years. Our relationship is very close and personal. The idea that he might share some of that intimacy with someone else (of either gender) bothers me deep down. I can't help it.
#35 Feb 08 2005 at 6:36 PM Rating: Good
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I'm ok with flirting, even heavy flirting. (Like the Shooter Girl at the dance club who has straddled my husband, giving him his shooter. I laughed.)

I also know that it's possible to have abslutely meaningless sex. yes, from experience. That being said, if meaingless sex outside the marriage became the norm and not just a one time thing, I'd say I was being cheated on.
#36 Feb 08 2005 at 8:00 PM Rating: Decent
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I have to say both Joph and MissL hit it perfect. My way of thinking its a combination of both; anything you feel uncomfortable talking about to your SO is off limits; anything you know your SO has an uncomfortablility with is offlimits, even if you are comfy with it.
#37 Feb 08 2005 at 8:10 PM Rating: Good
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Not much to add, Joph hit the hammer on the nail. I would agree that being a victim of temptation in another country shouldn't be so frowned apon. I bet my SO would disagree.
#38 Feb 08 2005 at 9:50 PM Rating: Decent
Ok, to the people who basically dumbed down men and said that you're husband would like it if he could watch or whatever, you guys are douchebags and it's people like you that subconsciously force men to act that way. Anyway, cheating isn't something you argue. If it bothers him, you shouldn't do it. That's why the term cheating was applied to relationships. If it bothers him that you have a relationship with a girl, well you shouldn't have one because he's the one that would get hurt, not you.
#39 Feb 08 2005 at 10:36 PM Rating: Good
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Jophiel wrote:
If you can't mention it casually over dinner, it's probably cheating. This goes for casual flings, kisses at the office party, 'open' relationships, bi-curiousity, h4wt cyb0rz, whatever. If you don't feel comfortable telling your SO about it, you probably shouldn't be doing it.



Simple as that... Jophiel wins! everyone move along please :)
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