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gbaji wrote:
"If you're still making that much money into your 20s, and maybe after popping out a kid or two, then that's you creating your own problems. "
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Damnthebitch Quick Hands wrote:
maybe she should have thought about that before having 5 count 5 kids...
What if this woman had a great job and lost it due to some corporate layoffs from something like a burst in an industry-wide stock market bubble? What if teh skills she learned are tailored to one industry in particular that she simply cannot find any work in? What if she does not qualify for welfare? What if her welfare check isn't enough to cover the basic necessities for her children? What if this woman had a husband who supported her and has now decided to leave her and is now not paying his fair share of child support? What if she has no university education or skills that will allow her to land a job that can pay the bills? What if she has to work 15+ hours a day to try and make ends meat, only able to see her children breifly everyday. The United States is something like 25th in the world among industrial countries when it comes to child mortality rates. That figure is absoltely horrible for "the greatest country on earth". Have you ever stopped to consider that perhaps the social system is not adequate enough to help out those who really need it? What makes you think that someone who is in a desperate situation is able to get out of it? These people don't come from the same privledged backgrounds that many of you do. Even if the mother has made some bad decisions, is that the fault of her children? Should they suffer because of her bad decisions? Are you now going to say that her children should be taken away from her if she cannot provide for them, even though she is a loving, caring mother who deos everything possible to for her children but she just cannot cut it without HELP? Some of the ignorant attitudes on these message boards scare me to death.
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gbaji wrote:
How about we discourage people with no means of support from having 5 kids?
Do you have any solid evidence for believing in this "discouragement theory"? You seriously think that a single mother with 5 kids, that cannot makes ends meet, or is just barely able to, is going to put anymore strain on herself than she already has? Do you just assume that women plan and attempt to put themselves in these situations? Do you think she thinks that each consecutive kid that she has she thinks "I'll be OK because my welfare check will increase"? Do you have any compassion whatsoever? The fact is there are children living in poverty now. These hard times have been a fact of American life for a long time and they are only getting worse, not better.
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gbaji wrote:
"You simply can't compare that to todays expectation that every adult should be able to afford a multi-room appartment with hot and cold running water, it's own bathroom, kitchen, electricity, and all the other modern conveniences. Minimum wage was *never* intended to support people in such relative luxury."
Having running water, plumbing, and electricity is a luxury to you? These are basic necessities that nobody should be without.
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gbaji wrote:
People just expect to get more for less today.
Simply not true. People work more, longer hours now for less. Haven;t you heard about global neo-liberalism? Probably not. It's a global race to the bottom. An all out attack on all the social reforms that the progressives and labour movements fought long and hard for.
Expenses are constantly on the rise while real wages stagnate and or decline. Families used to be able to get by with one income earner. Not anymore. Where have you been? Both the mother and the father now have to bring home the dough for most families to get by. Family debt is also now astronomically higher than it once was.
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orionrocker wrote:
People can be stupid and lazy, they shouldn't be, it sucks. Not my fault.
Again, what factual information is this opinion based on? It is a common misconception taht everyone who lives below the poverty line does so because they are "stupid and lazy". For the large majority of those below the poverty line this is simply not true. Even it it was, you still have to ask yourself what you believe to be more important: stopping abusers from abusing the system, or helping out those in need, because you are always going to have both.
So many of you have such huge problems with paying taxes. Have you ever stopped and wondered why there is so much crime and poverty in the United States? There are certain places in teh country that are equivalent to third world slums. Cops won't even go into some places. You would think that the "greatest country in the world" would be able to doa little better for it's own people, don't you? Thes problems will not be solved through incarceration and punishment alone - the roots of these problems have to be systematically addressed. It will take generations to change.
Try taking a look at some of the Scandanavian countries. They are taxed at much higher rates than US states. These taxes are used to pay for social programs that help keep a vast larger propoertion of their populations above the poverty line. They have better labour standards, working conditions, holidays, environmental protections, and sustainable development practices. Oh, and guess what else they also did? They surpassed the United States in productivity in every single year from the mid 1960s to the mid 1990s.
Some of you have such a narrow outlook on how a society can and should function that it is absolutely perplexing. Start with a clear mind and do some objective research instead of starting from a naïve and norrow outlook and trying to find any sort of information you can to prove your point. I don';t know about any of your own personal experiences, but if they are any indication of how some of you have formed your opinions, than I can only say that you obvisouly have not seen all you need to to be able to form such forceful and strong opinions on some of the topics at hand.
Edited, Tue Dec 21 15:16:29 2004 by Deloused