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Ok, I'm not a parent, but I'll bite.

1. Dad/Mom Suzy and I where thinking of going to a party on Saturday and we where thinking of trying drugs.

Well, been there done that. I would tell him my own personal experience on the matter, how unhappy I was...and a whole heap of other personal stuff...then, of course, the health hazard reason not to...hopefully, it should be enough to keep him away. I'd also emphasize how proud I am of him for going up to me and asking me about it versus doing drugs behind my back.


2. Mom/Dad Suzy and I are getting to a point in our relationship where we are trying to decide are condoms the right choice or should she use the pill?

Obviously, after a certain age, you can't control what a kid does. I'd rather it be at home than hiding in the back seat of his car. Instead of me telling him anything, I would go with him to do actual research on the matter and turn it into a whole learning experience. This will demonstrate to him that though I'm his dad, I'm also still human.


3. Dad/Mom I was thinking of going to a meeting with a bunch of my friends on wednesday night. I know we have never discussed this issue before, but is it all right if I go to church?

Why ask? Of course this is allowed. I'm not going to force my kid into anything at all. If he's willing to practice what I practice, then cool. If he wants to do his own thing, then cool. On the other hand, he isn't allowed to NOT like cheese.


4. Dad/Mom I'm getting these funny feelings everytime I'm around george, I mean there like more intense than when I thought suzy was the girl for me? What if I was gay?

Easy anwser...then your gay! Your sexual prefrences doesn't change whom you are as a person. If you go and tell me that your an *******, then I'd be upset...but liking ******** is totally up to you! (Somewhat of a pun. XD) Just be ready to go through some serious discrimination...but know that you got my 100% support!



5. Dad/Mom the condom broke when Suzy and I where at the park awhile ago and now Suzy thinks she's pregnant, what should I do or should she get an abortion?

Why the F[b][/b]UCK were you doing that at the park?! Didn't I give you the ok to do that here? At any rate, I'd then calm down and ask him what he wants to do. I'd tell him what are the pros and cons to both keeping it and getting an abortion/day after pill...then work it out from there.



I think that pretty much covers what I'd do...but, since I'm of cuban decendand...just incorporate alot of cuss words and yelling into everything you just read.

I see your point, Chtulhu, but smoking is bad, no matter what. Either you become a crack head or a controlled crack head, but none the less, you will die from cancer if unlucky.

If you don't think it's bad to smoke, crack or regular, I would suggest you let your kid try it out at home, where you can control it. I think everyone remember their first time as something unpleasant.

RolloX, I know what you mean. I was brought up to believe that Catholicism was the one and only belief. Unfortunately, my grandparents are very Catholic, and by very I mean it. They don't want to visit us because they would rather go to church and we wouldn't get any Christmas presents, but they would donate large amounts to the local church. It made me rebel against the Church and I started reading LaVey's books.

1.)Take them to the crackhead park off of MLK street for the day. Let them get a nice feel for the place.

2.)Tell them to use both.

3.)Become Jack's sense of total disbielf.

4.)Buy him a Elton John Cd.

5.)Umm.. Boot-to-the-head, followed by another boot-to-the- head. Wait a couple of weeks and have her take a test. If the test is negative, boot-to-the-head followed by a-boot-the-***** If the test is positive Then take them both over to "meet her Parents" (no boot-to-the-head required here).

1. No you can't go to the party, drugs will F up your life, and if I ever catch you doing drugs I will F up your life.

2. (If 17) Use both. (If like 14-15) Wait till your older, but if you decide to ignore me anyways, use both.

3. <I already go to church so when I am married and have kids they will to>

4. <If his christian upbringing does not help him stop thinking that he is gay then I dont know what I would do>

5. Haha you ******** now you gotta take care of it if she is pregnant, go get her tested and if she is then I guess your life is screwed son, me and mom will help you along the way but U will do most of the work. Start looking for a job son.

1. Which drugs?

2. Use both.

3. Its okay if you go to church if you have vandalism in mind.

4. Buy him a hooker

5. Leave town and dont give Suzy your contact info. Oh and grats on scoring up Suzy, shes got a nice body on her , Boooya!!

1. Dad/Mom Suzy and I where thinking of going to a party on Saturday and we where thinking of trying drugs.

I would tell them to use moderation in all drug use including alcohol, and also iterate the fact that they can have negative effects if abused.

2. Mom/Dad Suzy and I are getting to a point in our relationship where we are trying to decide are condoms the right choice or should she use the pill?

Use both.

3. Dad/Mom I was thinking of going to a meeting with a bunch of my friends on wednesday night. I know we have never discussed this issue before, but is it all right if I go to church?

It's fine. After this week, we'll go to a different church every week.

4. Dad/Mom I'm getting these funny feelings everytime I'm around george, I mean there like more intense than when I thought suzy was the girl for me? What if I was gay?

We will support you no matter where your life leads you.

5. Dad/Mom the condom broke when Suzy and I where at the park awhile ago and now Suzy thinks she's pregnant, what should I do or should she get an abortion?

That's something that you and Suzy should work out.

With 3 girls and the youngest having just turn 18 I've already had a chance to have these confersations. No matter how much you think about what you may say, you can only try to be prepared to to love them no matter what they have done.

1. Dad/Mom Suzy and I where thinking of going to a party on Saturday and we where thinking of trying drugs.

Look, I know your Dad grows his own, but I never was happy that he would risk everything we work for, just to get high. As for other drugs, just look at your uncle and how messed up his life is. Do you really want to risk your future? As for myself I've found that there far more ways to enjoy life without drugs. I don't even like getting tipsy. Yes I do have a beer or drink every once in awhile, but I'm careful and I gave up pot when I realized how important it meant that I take care of you.

2. Mom/Dad Suzy and I are getting to a point in our relationship where we are trying to decide are condoms the right choice or should she use the pill?

As I always tell you, I rather you wait until your 18 and more mature, but if you must start now, please practice safe sex and always use a codom. They aren't 100% protection for prevention from getting pregnant or getting STD's so it's important that she use the pill or get the Deprov shot every 3 months.

3. Dad/Mom I was thinking of going to a meeting with a bunch of my friends on wednesday night. I know we have never discussed this issue before, but is it all right if I go to church?

I would want to know what they know about this church and then remind them to not let anyone try to push them into joining. They learn about different religions, in Sunday School and we always told them they are free to believe in anything or not. My only concern is that they aren't push into acceptiong a religion by friends or a church group for thier salvation.

4. Dad/Mom I'm getting these funny feelings everytime I'm around george, I mean there like more intense than when I thought suzy was the girl for me? What if I was gay?

This wasn't a problem as they grew up knowing their father (my ex) is transgendered and I supported him in living as a woman. They march along side her at the Gay Pride Parade and one came along to lobby Congress for transgender rights. So when they did question their own sexuality not only did they have our support, but they where encourage to go to a teen support group.

5. Dad/Mom the condom broke when Suzy and I where at the park awhile ago and now Suzy thinks she's pregnant, what should I do or should she get an abortion?

I would talked about their choices get them tested and then let them make their own decision. Living in the city they know teen moms and how having children changes one's future.

I could have been a grandmother 7 years ago. At the time I gave my daughter my full support in the choice she made. Later when her birth control did fail, she had just gotten engage to a wonderful young man. Her son was 4 months old and well behaved at the wedding. Her sisters both have let me known that I won't be getting any other grandchildren anytime soon.

edited as Jonwin took the time to help me with my spelling and grammar. It's one area my girls know not to ask my help with

Edited, Thu Dec 16 20:23:40 2004 by ElneClare

Well I left out some details, as I don't want my girls to kill me. They would if I had posted everything they put me though.

ElneClare, I shudder to think of the life that one would live when parented by a transgendered dope using father. The only thing missing is the sequined glove and a slow pigmentation change.

And to think the thing you are concerned with is your children attending a church which might <gasp!> offer spiritual salvation!

Nice priorities.

Totem

transgendered people are way out there. The idea that someone would be so uncomfortable with their natural existence frightens me. All of them tend to be extremely histrionic in my experience... I never accept the fantasies of others. Tolerance has it's downside IMO.

You did a better job at grammar and spelling without Jonwin helping you out.

1. Dad/Mom Suzy and I where thinking of going to a party on Saturday and we where thinking of trying drugs.


My response: "What are you an idiot? You don't tell your parents that you're going to go try drugs!!! You just go out and try them on your own. If you're fit to live you'll either give them up or learn to handle them. Now pass the beer and get the hell out of here."

2. Mom/Dad Suzy and I are getting to a point in our relationship where we are trying to decide are condoms the right choice or should she use the pill?

My response: "Both. And let's never speak of this again. Pass the beer."

3. Dad/Mom I was thinking of going to a meeting with a bunch of my friends on wednesday night. I know we have never discussed this issue before, but is it all right if I go to church?

My response:"Churches are bad for you. Have you learned nothing that I've tried to teach you? Mind control is bad. False hopes are bad. Delusional nitwits are bad. Take responsibility for your own life, and don't try to pin your successes or failures on some ******** invisible man in the sky. I utterly forbid you from ever joining any church, and will disown you and never speak to you again for as long as I live if you do. Pass the beer."

4. Dad/Mom I'm getting these funny feelings everytime I'm around george, I mean there like more intense than when I thought suzy was the girl for me? What if I was gay?


My response: Well, George is pretty damned hot. If I was gay, I'd probably do him too. Look... I don't care if you're gay or not so long as you exercise sound judgement and have good taste. Pass the beer."

5. Dad/Mom the condom broke when Suzy and I where at the park awhile ago and now Suzy thinks she's pregnant, what should I do or should she get an abortion?

My response: "What the **** were you doing it in the park for? Didn't I buy you a nice car with a big bench seat? For Christ's sake kid, display an iota of responsibility!!! You could have taken her to a motel, you get plenty of allowance money! Of course if she is pregnant... well, it's your problem to deal with . Lemme know if you need a hand. Pass the beer."

Umm I hope I am not reading this out of context but I had to ask.

I am going to hopefully assume when you mean whores you mean the women who walk on the street corner selling their body right? Because I really hope that was not a comment against women who choose or have children under the age of 25.


Please please please say that my assumption of them being street corner girls is right Laviont.