Yo tengo problemas con mi novia, err girl troublesFollow

3-9 hours is unhealthy even in the "glory" days. We are still talking about the phone calls right?

3-9 hours is unhealthy even in the "glory" days. We are still talking about the phone calls right?

Holy sh[b][/b]it, for a second there, I thought that Q0az actually made a funny post...that avatar confused the hell out of me!

Edited, Wed Dec 8 09:59:31 2004 by XvExodusvX

That's your problem right there... I got nothing against marijuana use, but if you're gonna let it get in the way of a relationship (any relationship, not just dating ones), then do her a favor and break up with her.

Drugs aside, you could keep seeing her until you get out of high school, and try to get into an out of state college (which will give an excuse to cool things off, but might aggravate the telephone problem) but really, people change. I'm a completely different person than I was in high school and so is my fiance. We started dating my freshman year in college and for a while we weren't really happy in the relationship. It was when I moved out of my mom's house and finally became more comfortable (not with him, but with myself) that we really hit it off. And we don't even get on each other's nerves after living together for 3 years! So, it's a bad time in your life to keep a high school girlfriend. Wait until you're sure of your own personality before you try to find someone to be with.

Yes yes yes. Absolutely 100% true. As a female, all I can tell you is tell her the truth. Plain and simple, tell her that you don't want a relationship now with anyone, including her. Yeah, she's going to probably do a drama scene (high school girls specialize in that), but just let her do her scene, do her crying and then walk away.

And if you are not clear in that it is THE END, she is going to foster hope and keep on coming around. Even saying that you want to stay friends afterwards isn't going to cut it. Girls hang onto that hoping that the friendship will phase back into a relationship.

Da[b][/b]mn, girls love to talk don't they?

I'm into month 5 of my relationship, and I hardly talk to my girl ont he phone. She pays for my cellphone, and I use it all of 2 minutes a day, if that. I talk to her every day just before leaving work, usually for no more than five minutes. We do spend probably 4-5 days a week together after work.

The only "problem" I'm having right now is that I happened to make her Everquest character on my main account, and my newbie char is on my secondary acct. I hope that doesn't cause any grief down the road!