Patrician wrote:
Can we get a violin smiley?
Sounds to me like you have ripped his life apart, and now you are persuing him in court. What a lovely tale for your kids when they are older.
The justice system is fu[b][/b]cked up and practically encourages women to divorce. My boss got home from work one day, and his wife had just up and left with his kids. He had done nothing wrong beyond not listening to her enough and not appreciated how much she wanted to go back to the States (he wanted to stay in the UK to persue his career). Anyway, she filed for divorce on the grounds of unreasonable behaviour, and won custody of the children who now live with her in the US. She is also going after half his future earnings, and half the house they lived in. The legal process has involved an accustion of abuse of the children, as his son came back from a weekend visit with a bruise on his leg. The bruise came from bumping a coffee table while running around the house.
This guy's life has been shredded. He adores his kids and they have been taken to another country. He is an utterly broken and dejected person from the man I use to know.
All you did now is remind me what vindictive ******* some women are. I am so glad that when my parents divorced they divorced amicably. That is a huge factor in there being no bitter feelings between me, my siblings and my parents. Think about that.
Excuse me he filed for divorce and didn't even tell me, he left the petition on my keyboard a week later.I don't want his money, just his child support, he hasn't even seen her since her birthday in Sept -- you think about that. He is free to come and see her any time and has not ONCE been here since that time.
And you know what, your opinion means squat. He left me, let the court decide how much his support will be, not him. I am done, I have enough stress without you in my life. And let's leave it that way from now on, shall we?