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Warlord, GFY... better yet....

/gives you Nephthy, have at it big boy....

Back to the origional post..

Just because you feel something, doesn't mean its real.

While men and women are different, we are both human. We have feelings, emotions, instincts, and we also have brains. I had a lot of bad things happen to me in my life, and I won't go into the details.. but I found myself being a single dad at the age of 22.

My depression and my moods paralyzed me compleatly. One moment I wanted to blow my brains out, the other I wanted to hurt people so they can feel how I felt. I had the pressure of trying to maintain a job, a working home, and being a good dad all at the same time. I almost considered giving up custody of my 4 year old daughter to my parents and checking myself into a hospital.

Long story short. I stoped and asked myself if how I felt mattered? And the answer was that it didn't.

Doctors can apply small electrical currents to specific parts of the brain to make a person feel upset, happy, depressed, love, anxiety, fear, or any emotion really. Everything you feel is just chemical reactions inside the brain. It isn't real and letting them run your life is like letting a cart pull a horse.

The only thing that is real are my actions.

I'm not suggestion to just stuff emotions deep down inside and explode years later. I'm suggesting to act your way into right thinking and feeling. Rather than let your feelings dictate your actions, your actions can dictate your feelings.

When I started going to work, taking care of myself, being a good dad, is when I started to feel ok. It was hard at first because I litertly had to force it. But now it is just second nature, when I feel depressed I go do dishes, exercise, something positive. When I go to work, I smile and fake motivation sometimes and I start to feel good and motivated shortly after.

Maybe when you feel yourself being unreasonable toward your man you could stop and think about it. You can be a *****, or you can do something nice for him. Something as stupid as getting him a glass of water will let him know you still care about him and maybe make you feel good too. It will defiently motivate him to be more patient with you. Make a habbit of this and maybe you will no longer have this problem?

I could be waaaay off base, I will admit I haven't so much as been on a date with a girl in three years. Its the very thing you talk about that makes me shy away from relationships. I am very self-sufficient these days and the average female has nothing to offer me. I'm not interested in sex. I am emotional balanced and need no support. I never feel lonely because of my guy friends. I also live in Oklahoma, where women are not encouraged to be intellectual... so. yeah. Some day I think it would be good for my daughter to see me with a woman, and grow up with a positive idea about females should be treated.

I will say you are better off than most. Its not the irrational behavior that pushes me away so much as the self-centered nature of it. Being aware how your actions impact others around you is a healthy first step toward being relationship material on the male and female side of the coin.

Kum bay ya

Haha!

I thought Keibah was a man.

Whadda ya know... She ain't!

Girls aren't dumb, they're just thought impaired.

For instance, when I asked my sister what 2 cookies minus 1 cookie equals, she just looked at me with a blank stare in her eyes. So I showed her with my fingers.. 2 - 1 = ?

She tried to do it herself, but she messed up and started giggling.

I just walked away and left her there.

Now, she's blonde which explains a lot, but god damn, she's in high school!!

Hey you know what Bleach that sounds like a really good idea.

Doing something when I'm upset always seems to help, why can't that apply to relationships, too? I clean dishes when I'm upset about how my apartment looks, I go get my car washed when it's dirty, I work harder at work if my numbers don't look good, so I just need to find things to do when those insecurities start to rise up.

Sometimes I think too low of myself...that I'm not worth the trouble I can bring. But I guess that's part of being human, I shouldn't allow that to let me think I'm worthless, but rather make it a point to think "Hey, I'm a pretty nice girl with a lot to offer, I shouldn't assume that others don't see any part of that!".

So yeah...doing is better than stressing, that's for sure >.<

Yep, the three major steps of becoming a true FFXI player. Your transmogrification is complete.

Damn freaky Canadians.

I wonder if red-haired men have any relation to the Lamenites, I believe they are all cursed to be hideously ugly.

Perhaps they should try bleeding their scrotums.

What you're describing is not normal monthly crabbiness. Don't use your hormones as an excuse to lash out at people. If you can't control yourself, see a fecking doctor. Lack of self control and being stable are rather mutually exclusive states of mind.

Unless you really enjoy hurting people and destroying relationships. If that's the case, go to town.

Sorry to sound harsh here, but it sounds like there may be some chemical, hormonal or emotional imbalance (outside the normal range) going on. You (and everyone in earshot of you) would probably feel a lot better if you addressed this.

Oh yea, cause being anorexic thin is so hot.

Nothing wrong with meat on the bones.

As long as you don't belong to the 900 club:)

Naughty lil' *******... Wash your mouth out with soap.