Girls are dumbFollow

What do you mean read it right? Who's to say I didn't get the sarcasm and was replying in sarcasm to a RL friend?

Anyway it doesn't matter. It's not like you are the most respected poster on this board.

Good Day.

Lets just face facts Men and Woman are a complete mystery to them selves and to each other. I was married for the better part of 6 years, until about a week and a half ago. Then she comes at me with all this stuff about how she is about to graduate college, and she has never lived under her own roof and how I have such a strong personality that I smoother hers. This after almost 6 years of pretty good times on the general scale of things. Am I bitter not really just pretty confused and sad and lost. I pretty much just lost my best friend in the universe, granted we still are raising are son together and we are on pretty friendly terms but things will never be what they were. The funny thing is she wants to date (me) again. So we have been starting from the begining. Going out on little dinners and kissing at the door and all. Seems a little weird but its pretty fun too. I'm still pretty confused but I'm no longer waiting for her. My happiness depends on me and me alone. An so should hers. Wow that felt great, thanks for letting me rant!

Jademage,

Wow. That hits close to home. My wife and I almost split up for very similar reasons. This happened earlier this year. She never got a chance to go to college and was upset that I did. She started staying out late at night to have what she called "a college experience". Turns out this college experience was spending all night partying and avoiding any responsibility. She said that I was smothering her by being bothered that she would stay out to 3 and 4 in morning without even a call to let me know where she was. I was supposed to let her do whatever she what wanted without any questions. Needless to say, this didn't make for a very healthy, or happy relationship.

The advice I can give is this. Step back and seriously look at all the good and bad things about your relationship. If there is anything worth working for, do it!

My wife and I decided that we were worth working for. We went out and got some outside help, via a marriage counselor, to help us communicate better and become a stronger couple. Now, almost a year later, we are happier than ever! We both feel like we have more freedom and are "smothering" each other less.

I sincerely hope that everything works out well for you, your wife, and your son.

I am a woman and:

-I only get moody once a month. And it isnt even a bad moody, it is a OMFG I am so horny moody I wanna do it nonstop for 5 days.
-I am not expecting a soul mate or someone to share my feelings with everything about but I need a man to be there. A sweet, gentle, here if ya need to talk, kinda man. One that won't cheat on me or make me feel like I interefe with his life and just let me be me. I just want a silly, romantic, out of this world kinda love. Does it exist? I hope so.

I don't think that there is a big mystery gap between men and women. I think that there is a lot of miscommunication though.

Hmm, never heard of that term and I've lived in CA my entire life. You must be one of those "So-Cal Holier Than Thou" people.

And don't for a second, begin to think you know what women want either!

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The plot thickens. Who are we? And are we, who we say we are?

This I can actually say honestly.

Nephthys is Gorgeous. Friggin hottie he is!

Point well taken. This last database I'm finishing before the break is a real doosey.

Thanks babe

Edited, Wed Nov 24 16:19:33 2004 by NephthysWanderer

Haha....you girls are great.

Its not really red anymore. A friend of mine darkened it and put in some highlights.



Umm....yes please.

Metro huh? I like to think of it as being trendy or atleast somewhat cogniscente of style.