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i have this problem every day. I'm a night person (work the night shift 5 days a week) so on the weekends, when i actually get to play, i play in the early mornings (japanese peak times) Now i try my best to understand japaense language, and i've learned enought o get me by - or so i like to think. But when i try to organize a party - anywhere - all these japanese punks tell me "NO" because im english. What the hell kinda **** is that? I know how to use the auto-trans very well, why can't that be a form of communication...the missing link in the language barrier? But they're bullheaded and won't do it. This happens everywhere - crawlers nest - altepa - dunes, everywhere, i can't party, unless there are other english speaking night owls such as myself online. Anyone have suggestions? Cuse this is pissing me off.