myself am kinda lonely, I have no idea where to go to meet people (I think that comes with working in a non-consumer environment and not being in HS anymore) and I'm rather shy, but I've decided it's time to solve the problem. I'd like to be able to find a guy that plays games too, as it is really nice to have a major hobby to share with someone.
I know it can't be THAT hard to meet someone. Any ideas on where I should go?
PS: I don't like dancing or loud music (unless it happens to be for a specific event, I definitely like going to shows) but other than that I'm open for any suggestions you might all have.
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plays FF and kinda lonely.
hmmm, what could be the problem? HIDING IN A DARK ROOM STARING AT A COMPUTER DURING SOCIAL FREETIME MABE?
doesnt like to dance or loud music.
good news. most guys dont know how to dance. and the ones that do learn to because they are lacking in the diserability department in other areas. geeks, punks, dawgs, those types if you get my meaning.
where and how to meet them.
church groups. most of them have singles clubs of some type or another.
the gym. shape up your body and meet other people who share that interest. forget aerobics. have to work out in the weight room.
my personel favorite, dating clubs. the more expensive the beter. it means they have a job or they cant afford to join. a job is a good thing when looking for a guy. it also means they are available, though not always single. if your not fat or ugly, you will have more dates than you have time for.
sporting events. get some girlfriends together and start going to ball games. its loaded with men. and nothing turns a guy who is interested in sports on more than a women who can atleast stand to be in the same room as a loud big screen tv when one is on.
there are always men on the job somewhere. they might not be mr perfect, or mr right, but there are always men on the job. a women being lonely is their own fault. period. your average joe is not pickey, he just wants to play. mr perfect and mr right are pickey and want to be served. forget them, and go play.