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#1 Aug 10 2004 at 11:59 AM Rating: Decent
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http://www.cnn.com/2004/EDUCATION/08/05/texas.textbooks.reut/index.html

This is the reason for my anger. I don't think it is a very good idea to not educate our youth about the importance of birth control and contraceptives. Maybe you will say ultimately, it is the responsibility of the parent to educate their child on such things. But honestly, my mummy and daddy never had that talk with me. So I'm just one of the few that wouldn't have been educated on the subject if not in health class in public school.

We are already having and AIDS epidemic. More and more cases are showing up in young adults nationwide. I don't think that taking away education to protect yourself will help anything. I'm worried we will see in increase in these numbers.

You can't tell kids that abstinece is the only way. Yes it is the best way, but people know there are risks ivolved, and they do things anyway. You really can't stop a teenager from doing something if they want too. How many of you had sex in high school?

You can't tell kids that "rest" is the way to avoid STD's and pregnancy. "...that a good way a teen-ager can prevent a sexually transmitted disease is to get plenty of rest so he or she can have a clear head about sex and choose abstinence."

I could go on and on about this, but I would like to hear what the rest of you think. Please post your comments here.

Thanks.


EDIT: link didn't work.

Edited, Tue Aug 10 13:00:27 2004 by Mirly
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#3 Aug 10 2004 at 12:05 PM Rating: Decent
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You can't tell kids that abstinece is the only way.


But it is. Why can't we tell kids the truth? Just because a group of people, even if they are the majority, choose to do something that is wrong, it doesn't make the wrong thing right.


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You can't tell kids that "rest" is the way to avoid STD's and pregnancy. "...that a good way a teen-ager can prevent a sexually transmitted disease is to get plenty of rest so he or she can have a clear head about sex and choose abstinence."



Sure you can. It's a lot better than telling them to use condoms instead. One solution keeps kids from having pre-marital sex, the other pretty much encourages it. Which one is better?


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Maybe you will say ultimately, it is the responsibility of the parent to educate their child on such things. But honestly, my mummy and daddy never had that talk with me.


Well, they should have. So, you are telling me that because some kids' parents don't have the balls or common sense to talk to their kids about sex, I have to let my kids be taught all about it by an outsider? And what's worse is the fact that they teach how to go have pre-marital sex, and not suffer the consequences of it.

It IS the parents' job to educate children about sex, and to teach them pre-marital sex is wrong.

Edited, Tue Aug 10 13:06:45 2004 by Deathfromtheskies
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Sure you can. It's a lot better than telling them to use condoms instead. One solution keeps kids from having pre-marital sex, the other pretty much encourages it. Which one is better?


That'd be nice if one solution actually did keep kids from having premarital sex instead of leading to skyrocketing teen pregnancy.

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#5 Aug 10 2004 at 12:14 PM Rating: Good
Teaching kids about sex is a dual responsibility.

The school system should be teaching the children about the ways to protect themselves and the possible outcomes of unprotected sex.

The parents should be re-enforcing what the school system teaches and also teach the kids about the parents belief in pre-marital sex. I do not want the school system "endorsing" teen age sex, which they aren't.

Do you really believe that teaching abstinence is going to keep the boys and girls from not exploring what their hormones are telling them? How many preacher kids have had pre-marital sex, and their parents are the ones for minding the flock.

Another question is if the church teaches abstinence why can't the school system teach prevention?


[edited] a spelling error. Duh!

Edited, Tue Aug 10 13:17:17 2004 by Stok
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Teaching kids about sex is a duel responsibility.


Dual. Unless you have to kill them at 40 paces if they don't learn.

Sorry, just wanted to see how it felt to attack someone's spelling.
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Teaching kids about sex is a duel responsibility.


Dual. Unless you have to kill them at 40 paces if they don't learn.

Sorry, just wanted to see how it felt to attack someone's spelling.


Lol, Smash correcting spelling.....that's ridiculous.
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Yeah, Stok? Smash? I'm going to need one of you to take the opposing viewpoint so this thread can drag out to four pages and degenerate into a ping-pong game of "You suck!" "No, YOU suck!


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#10 Aug 10 2004 at 12:20 PM Rating: Decent
Unless you have to kill them at 40 paces if they don't learn.

Just think of how quickly standardized test scores would raise though. Hmm...
#11 Aug 10 2004 at 12:25 PM Rating: Excellent
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Stok and I agree!
Succinctly put btw

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BTW - can you get abstinence in ribbed and flavoured versions?

Just asking
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Wrong topic, NT.


Edited, Tue Aug 10 13:27:43 2004 by Smasharoo
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#13 Aug 10 2004 at 12:28 PM Rating: Good
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BTW - can you get abstinence in ribbed and flavoured versions?

Just asking


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15-18 year old's could really care less what they're taught one way or the other. Most of the kids I went to school with laughed off sex ed and screwed like rabbits, whether they had condoms or not.

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Ask Katie.


I think that's the LAST person you should ask regarding abstinence.
#16 Aug 10 2004 at 4:31 PM Rating: Decent
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one textbook under review advises that a good way a teen-ager can prevent a sexually transmitted disease is to get plenty of rest so he or she can have a clear head about sex and choose abstinence.Smiley: disappointed
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Hmmm... While I generally think that the use and effectiveness of contraceptives *should* be included in any kind of sex education curriculum, I can understand why the textbook writers chose the path they did.

Read the whole article folks. The books do promote abstinence as the "best" method of preventing STDs and unwanted pregnancies. And from an absolute point of view (assuming that someone follows those directions), they're absolutely correct.

The books include suppliments for teaching the use and effectiveness of condoms and other contraceptives. There is nothing that prevents a school district from teaching both. The textbooks are written that way to allow for maximum flexibility. If a particular school wants to teach abstinence only, they can. Remember, public schools aren't the only schools that buy textbooks. The companies that write them want to sell as many as possible. If they write a textbook that includes both abtinence and condom use within the book itself, then they have to write different editions to meet different demand orders. By doing it this way, they only have to write one.

I'd be highly surprised if the books themselves were written that way because of any sort of religious or political agenda. It's purely about marketability and the bottom line. The fact is that we do have different camps on this issue. One wants nothing but abstinence taught, another wants condoms and contraceptives taught. By writing their books this way, they get to sell to both.

I was also surprised by this statement:

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National surveys indicate that a wide majority of parents support a strong abstinence message to teens in sexual education



Hmmm... Is it wrong to write your textbooks on a subject like this to match what people want their kids to learn? Again. Parents presumably have a choice about what their kids are taught in terms of sex education, right? At what point do we decide that a minority's opinion *must* superceed the majorities (assuming this statistic is correct).

Additionally, given this information, does it not make a hell of a lot of sense to write the textbooks with the abstinence in the book and the contraceptive info in the suppliments? They're not pushing policy here, they're just writing their textbooks so that they can meet whatever policy might be in effect in any market across the nation. That's just smart business. I think you are all reading way too much into this.

Edited, Tue Aug 10 17:48:46 2004 by gbaji
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Hmmm... Is it wrong to write your textbooks on a subject like this to match what people want their kids to learn? Again. Parents presumably have a choice about what their kids are taught in terms of sex education, right? At what point do we decide that a minority's opinion *must* superceed the majorities (assuming this statistic is correct).
I must have missed the other half of the quote where it said "...to the exclusion of teaching safe sex practices such as correct condom use and failure rates."

Because, without it, that quote means nothing other than parents support teaching something that's already commonly taught anyway. Did anyone here actually have a sex ed class where they didn't point out that the best way to not get the clap was to keep your pants buttoned?
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Did anyone here actually have a sex ed class where they didn't point out that the best way to not get the clap was to keep your pants buttoned?


I must have slept through that one both in high school and the 10 times I heard it in the Army.

What are the odds of that happening? Gbaji?
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Folks. Hmm. Eh..Sure. Folks. But that doesn't mean religion is involved. Eh..folks..

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It IS the parents' job to educate children about sex, and to teach them pre-marital sex is wrong


Why is pre-marital sex wrong? I don't think it should be demonised by sex-ed teachers. I think they should focus on teaching about effective contraception rather than promoting abstinence. Abstinence should be left to the parents as it is not for teachers to impose views upon their students, I believe schools should be free from such parochial pressures and should be allowed to give a unbiased education that gives all the information to students.

I also think teenagers are likely to have pre-marital sex regardless of the efforts of teachers to convince them otherwise, teenagers are prone to follow their hormones and not their brains. So if they are taught about effective contraception then they will be able to protect themselves when the time comes.

If parents wish for their children to remain virgins till their wedding nights then they should be the ones to teach their kids those views not a teacher.
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I must have slept through that one both in high school


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Hmmm... Is it wrong to write your textbooks on a subject like this to match what people want their kids to learn? Again. Parents presumably have a choice about what their kids are taught in terms of sex education, right? At what point do we decide that a minority's opinion *must* superceed the majorities (assuming this statistic is correct).


I must have missed the other half of the quote where it said "...to the exclusion of teaching safe sex practices such as correct condom use and failure rates."



Ok. But to parallel that. I must have missed the part where the textbooks and suppliments provided by these companies taught abstinence only sex eduction "to the exclusion of teaching safe sex practices such as correct condom use and failure rates".


That's the problem I have here. The suppliments are provided *with* the textbooks. You buy them together as one package. The choice as to whether to teach abstinence only, or abstinence *and* condom use is up to the institution that buys the book. Both are provided, they just aren't both automatically bundled in the book. It's purely about marketing.


Oh. And Smash. I agree with you on the issue of teaching safe sex. I just disagree that we should *force* every institution to teach it the same exact way. If some school district in podunk wants to teach their kids abstinence only, then it's their right to do so. Isn't it?


I just find it amusing that the very "side" of this social issue who argue for "pro-choice", are against a decision that essentially gives teachers and parents a choice about what they teach their kids. Funny that.


I'm also pro-choice. However, I accept that people have the right to choose not just whether to have a freaking abortion or not. They have a right to choose what they teach their children. They have a right to have high rates of teen-age pregnancies if they want. I happen to also be a Republican, and I believe that they should then shoulder the responsiblity of that choice, which makes me a bit different from most pro-choicers. But then, I wonder how "honest" the pro-choice position is, when you have the self interest of pushing an agenda that would have to pay for all those extra mouths if people didn't have abortions instead?

Just a thought...
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