Trunksie needs help with a younger girl again...Follow

No people despite what you hear all teenagers are not looking for sex, this is not about sex at all, the most she's ever done is make out with someone and thats alright with me.

joph is right, you know. unless im with a girl so loose i can fit my whole arm in her i wont even consider dating her.

Edited, Mon Jul 26 12:31:05 2004 by Angry Hippo

And don't you forget, Trunks, that most of us have already been teenagers, so we know exactly what teenagers are looking for.

Yes I know but in your case Tare that was a long time ago!



Edited, Mon Jul 26 13:07:26 2004 by Trunksbrando

society has a label for teenage males who dont want sex from a relationship. we call those people latent homosexuals.

How will you ACCEPT them? you can't stop people posting bad ones.



He isn't listening to you, he dosen't like your opinion.



Nice move yanari! Usually you post your own ill thought out opinions and stupid trains of thought, but now you just stand behind people and nod, good thinking.

So?

Who the hell rated my post down? How did that offend someone?

Hmm... I'm of the "do what you want" opinion. But then, I'm a hedonist at heart. Another way to look at this is that this is probably your only opportunity to legally bang a girl that age. Not that I'm assuming that's your goal. Just saying...

The flip side is that 13 is pretty freaking young. I can't imagine you'd have a whole lot in common. I guess if you enjoy hanging out with her, then hang out with her. You don't have to be like officiallly dating or anything, especially at that age. I know this is coming out like I'm advising a "just friends" relationship, but unless you are planning on banging her, then what's the difference? You've got enough social pressures going on at age 16 to add another one if you don't need to.

"Dating" is really supposed to be more of an adult concept that either revolves around sex, or building towards a lasting relationship (ie: Marriage). At your age (and especially at her age), the likelyhood of any relationship you develop leading anywhere meaningful is hovering somewhere close to zero. So if you're not planning on banging her, then why add the moniker of "girlfriend" if it's really going to be just a meaningless title that'll cause you and her lots of problems?

Hey, Trunks. Howdy, folks.

Yeah, she's young, but the thing is, you're NOT looking for sex and you're NOT looking for a wife. You're both into attending church, which says a lot... (Note: It means different things to different people - to some people it means you're more likely to have a set of good morals; to others, it'll mean [to them] that you're a mindless moron. But you've probably already run into this type of stuff at school...)

Anyway - if she's nice and you like being with her (including talking with her, not just looking at her), get to know her at church events, discuss things with her in IMs or e-mails, and just enjoy getting to know her. Making out is cool (very) BUT I'd stay away from sex (it'll come up even if you're NOT looking for it). It'll likely cause cause more problems than it's worth.

BUT - who knows - you may be laying the foundation for a wonderful lifelong friendship/relationship ... or more! It's happened before... Just don't be in a rush.

Amen. Too bad I've already sold my soul.

He's obviously just looking for someone to encourage him, so when he gets jailed for ******** her he can use the same excuse all those kids who blow the hell out of half their school to and blame it on us awful internet people who corrupt America's youth.

2 years and 7 months is not a big deal later in life - that's nothing. However - she's 13. She's barely out of diapers. 2 years and 7 months is a big deal when you're 18 and she's still only 15 and you get stuck with a charge of statuatory rape.

Bottom line is this though:

Can her Dad kick the crap out of you? Because he's going to want to.