pickleprince wrote:
http://www.latimes.com/la-fg-killing18jul18,1,1755382.story
Do you think that soldiers can live normal lives after going to war?
Edited, Tue Jul 20 19:26:42 2004 by pickleprince
Yes they can, some back ground.
My father was an infantry solider in Korea then in the Special Forces for several tours in Vietnam. He carried a rifle in Korea and Vietnam, spent most of his time in the feild in combat. The fact is he killed a LOT of people during those conflicts.
Did he have trouble adjusting to non-combat life? Sure, but he made the adjustment and lived happily ever after. He's still with the same wife and loves her dearly, has six kids (3rd son is the best IMHO :) ) and retired from two 20+ year careers. One in the army and the other from a missile defense firm, he’s now one of the driving forces behind reviving my parents neighborhood church. All in all the man’s still sharp at 73 and is in better shape than I.
The problem is that we as the public don’t get bombarded with images of men and women returning from combat and picking up their lives. We get hit with the image of people flaming out across the board, must make better TV or something. I’ve met some of my father’s war buddies, a bunch of normal old men who led exciting lives. Some have orderly lives, some don’t.
I’m not saying that no one fails at adjusting, only that blanket statements about the subject don’t hold up.
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