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I flat out don't believe this.



O, but it is. Are you supposed to take preemptive strikes at every guy? Are you the GWB of dating?



Precisely the point that I'm getting at. There is a double-standard at work here that is skewing women's (and society's for that matter) view of sexuality.



I think Tricky said what the happy medium was here. But you just won't listen. There was NOTHING in that story IMO that said that he was trying to rape his GIRLFRIEND.



Indeed. :)

To be perfectly honest, nobody I dated ever showed up on my doorstep naked. I really don't know how I'd react (darn my past vanilla dating life). But the story wasn't about me.

This particular gal's reaction was panic and a kick to the jimmy. I'm just saying it's not a totally surprising reaction.

I can definately see what you are talking about, Yanari, but I think that pickle has it down a little better here. Even given the fact that they had not been sexually intimate before, when I hear the word "girlfriend", I assume a very healthy relationship. Hell, I've definately been in relationships in the past with crazy women that I called my "girlfriend", but I still had a very good friendship-base with them. The fact that this guy got kicked in the nuts says one of a few things to me:

a. He did more than just walk in naked.
b. The girl panicked and is most likely a virgin anyways.
c. The teller of this story is friends with the poor guy, so his view of the events is all from his side, therefore maybe important things were left out (see a.).

Regardless of what really happened, I don't think that any guy deserves to get kicked in the family jewels. That has to be the worst feeling ever. Try to imagine the urge to vomit, pass out, curl up into the fetal position, and die all at the same time, coupled with a pain like you've never felt. Yeah, nobody deserves that.

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The first thing they teach women in self defense courses is to do exactly that. Kick, squeeze with all your might while twisting and pulling, bite, whatever it takes to incapacitate him long enough to get away. They'll tell you flat out, "don't just hurt him a little, cause if he can get up he'll be really ticked off and that's far more dangerous."

Look, I understand what you guys are saying. What I'd like you to understand is how common it is for women to have to deal with men trying to force them where they don't want to go. They have every right to defend themselves and they can't do it with brute force.

But take heart, the incident gave them both quite a story to tell!

Didn't think I had it in me, didja?

Iv'e had a baseball hit me in the nuts, and I've broken my right shin in two places, and walked off the football field. I would rather break BOTH my legs and walk a mile home then have anything hit me in the nuts like that again. That is unbearable pain that no man should feel. IMO, this was not his "girlfriend" because no "girlfreind" would ever do this, unless she was breaking up with him to some degree or was the violent type. Even then, this is acceptable.

It could be that he came into the room naked, then moved towards her, got on top of her, tried to get her to respond, etc......the original poster does not make it clear whether he came into the room naked and just stood there, or if he came into the room and advanced towards her.

If he just stood there, I'm almost sure that any girl would yell or scream at him, but not get up and walk across the room to pop him in the meat and two veg. It seems as if he did more than just walk into the room.

In no way am I saying that it is no big deal to get rocked in the crotch. It is the worst feeling in the world, and it lingers to haunt you for at least 5 minutes. However, a person should do what they have to do to protect themselves. Whether or not she was in real danger is irrelevant; this guy made her feel that way, so I think he deserved a nut-buster.

And concerning the whole "can never have kids again" thing, that is a tremendous exaggeration. I know it's possible and all, but come on, I don't know one guy who hasn't caught one in the sack at least once in his life, and none of them are sterile because of it.

Edited, Mon Jul 12 14:28:53 2004 by Deathfromtheskies

Edited, Mon Jul 12 14:29:21 2004 by Deathfromtheskies

I love how all guys think that way...

So cute.

Well, I do know people who have been hit in the nuts (not all by people) who are now presently sterile.

That was and is my point. It BETTER have been warranted.

EOFS.

Don't play poker with Smash. Lady Luck ain't smiling on you.

Ok, let me translate this into monkey and have him transcribe it into Moran....then mail it to Fu[i][/i]cktardLand for you.

Yes, I'm able to make babies.

Idiot. I wish he did get an impromptu vasectomy. One less moron in the gene pool. That stuff is unacceptable. And I thought a GAMING forum wouldn't have this kind of trash posted. Talking about sex is for a night out with the guys, after having a few brewskies. Not an online message board. Grow up, guys.