Alright, I skipped a lot trying to get more info on what happened Kristal, and I saw that you two are taking a break. Then I read the last post by Vanaan which I agree with in this area here:
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when I mention love, respect, commitment, and those other big words.
These three words are so looked down upon in todays society. But let me get to what I see with the little information. It stems to three possiblities. Start with the worst.
a.) He's cheating on you. He found someone whom he feels that he can be with without an actual commitment. Us guys are truly afraid of that word. No matter how mature we are, it it a very large responsibilty. And by cheating on you, he's getting rid of a commitment to you as well as not having to "bear" with a commitment to a fling with another woman.
b.) He's scared. Depending on how long you have been married, if it's a short while, then maybe he still hasn't accepted the fast that he will be with you for the rest of his life, and needs some time to clear his head, regroup, and come back to you renewed or with a decision in his mind.
c.) He wants to simply clear his head, have some time to figure some problems out that he doesn't want to share with you. This is common among men. I for one, like my alone time, and if I don't get it, I get very hostile :P But really, it is needed, so this may be because of that.
** Caution**Slightly off topic opinion ahead:
I for one believe that if two people are meant to be together then they will be...for eternity. This does not come without kinks or twists in it, but because they are determined to stay together, they will find a way to. This has to do with the association with love in it's truest sense, hence true love.
I also believe that too many people jump into marriage while lust is the motive and not love. This differention is very necessarry.
Oop time to go, I want to write more, but I'm at work and must leave. I'll clarify and expand on many thoughts I have if you want Kristal. If you would like to share any info, it would be greatly appreciated.