sschan wrote:
I tend to think if you are fit in my PT, I will invite you. There is no need to active like ask to be invited. If I think you have reasonable skill and fit the current formation, as leader I will actively seek you out for PT.
granted the final decision lies with the pt leader. however, i preserve that it's in the person's favor to be proactive (in the right manner) on a few counts:
1) a pt leader may not always have completed the pt build. asking at the appropriate moment may just put a proactive person ahead of seekers with similar jobs.
2) a pt leader is unlikely to know how skillful one person is over another. not that being proactive means that you're more skillful, but at least it places one on the radar screen a lot faster than someone who doesn't bother.
3) a proactive person has already demonstrated that he is responsive, and takes an active interest in getting a pt. it takes quite some bit of guts to ask, and more nerve to accept possible rejections.
4) if nothing else, a proactive person places himself in a position as the next replacement option in the rare occurrence that another member be needed.
i reiterate only that it never hurts to ask. just make sure you ask it at the right time, and in the right way.
breser wrote:
I've noticed there's this attitude on the part of the Japanese in this game that they don't bother to use the translator. Often times you'll see search comments for people seeking that are Japanese not use the translator at all. While English players will make extensive use of it. The English playing community tries to meet the Japanese community half way in the middle by using the translator and the Japanese don't seem interested in playing ball. They just prefer to put up comments like "{Japanese} ONLY."
sigh. true. it's partly cos of the japanese culture. they learn english, but use japanese in their daily lives. it's rare that anyone on the street will be comfortable using the english language.
but a large part of it has to do with some black sheep that spoiled the reputation for every other "NA" player. the japanese are very wholistic people, and value the opportunity to be part of a team. when you get little brats and rude "NA" players who log out immediately after gaining a lvl among other things, it's a little hard for rumors not to spread around till eventually, the entire japanese gaming community fears to play with "NA" players. takes a long time to build trust, and only a few seconds to break it. =p
breser wrote:
Using the things like the examples you give above is absolutely pointless because if you use it then they respond to you in Japanese. So what's the point? Then I have to ask them to use the auto-translator. If you can't read and write Japanese then don't bother trying to use it. If you can then by all means use it to communicate with those that would rather use Japanese.
lol, true too. if you don't know japanese, it gets a little hard. =) but read above for the reason why japanese prefer to play among themselves.
breser wrote:
Also I find your sentences to be overly formal. I'm not interested in being formal, I just want to communicate, get a yes or a no and move on. If they'd rather not party with me because I used the translator to ask them then that's their loss. It's not about trying to be l33t in talking, it's about trying to communicate effectively when you don't both speak the same language.
hmm... it's a cultural thing. there are certain formalities to observe when you talk in japanese. considering that i learnt it, i can tell you that what ama says isn't far from the necessary. if anything, it's already considered BARELY polite.
if you think it's too much of a hassle to speak like that, then ... erm... *cough* maybe don't play with the japanese? =)