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I love how you use the word "most" and generalize.
Our LS could very well turn into an HNM LS, if we wanted it to...Unfortunately, as cel explained, we choose not to. Why? Because those LS's are all **** about the game. "Come to dynamis on said date or you're out of the LS" or "Play at least 23:59 hours a day or you're out of the LS".
This is sad and pathetic, I struggle with pick up parties to do my AF, or get help from my current LS. Instead of having it the easy way out and joining an HNM ls and get all my AFs and avatars done in 10 minutes, which sounds like something you would choose to do.
Listen though, if you've a shred of intellect, shut your mouth now.
I won't bother checking back, I'll just let this thread slide to the bottom of the forums, you point things out that are irrelevant to the original post.

Oooooh. NOW I get it. Thank you SO much for clearing that up. Seriously, I had no idea this thing called "experience" could happen by witnessing things that you eventually learn from.
This is a real eye-opener, I don't see how no one else ever thought of that.

Thanks Cel for trying to make me and Cyrex into some evil snooty higher ranking players. I can understand why you were upset that you were turfed because two friends wanted to exp, but was it really that bad that you had to go post something so trivial? In retrospect we should have approached you instead of trying to talk to the Japanese party leader, but live and learn.

But what's particularly amusing is that you left your less than diplomatic tell to me with the conveniently omitted obscenity along with the apology I sent you regarding the miscommunication we had with JP party leader AND the comment "Japanese Party = death".



Do you really expect us to placate you after our incident? And no, we would not have wiped, but it was nice of you to take the link even though we had it taken care of.

(Meowthy) I have a link!
(Cyrex) No problem I'll sleep it!

TTYL

--Meowthy

Hmm probably should let this thread die but I want a piece of the action of this debate :X

After reading all the posts, or so I think :P here's what I got to say:

After hearing what happened I don't blame Cyrex in anyway. If I am forming a party and I invite some job (lets say MNK for the hell of it ;] ) and at around the same time I see a friend or past player I partied with LFG, most likely I am going to boot the first person and grab him. Why? 'Cause in my opinion it would be stupid not to, you are still in the "forming" phase of a party and if you have an assurance(sp?) of a good player rather than someone you just met than why wouldn't you take the good player. Of course, there is a chance that someone could outplay your friend, but in the end of partying..I have met more newbies than I have good, solid, and smart players. I know that might suck for the person getting booted, but it is a part of the game. Because unlike you won't think it, time is of the essence and I myself would rather get 5k a hour than 2k a hour just to make someone happy.

If what meowthy said is true than he/she (sorry I don't know o.o) sent you a tell apoligizing which would be rather mature and not 'snooty' in any way.

Idea of a blacklist for me is just to add the really really really bad people. Since on my way to where I am now I have a total of 3 people on it. I am really tentative with using it since you never know if what they did was wrong was based on a "bad day or something weird" I don't know.

I could see why somepeople would base invites on ranks of the people. Of course you are insured with a more expieranced player, but of course you might be missing out on the coolest person in the game. I know I have never done that and probably never will. Character's playing ability>rank.

Also with being in JP party they will be communication issues. I was in a 5 person one on my whm in quifim and I never had a clue what was going on and I was hella confused. I just followed them around and healed them along the way. Sorta made me realize what it was like to be in an all NA party as a *** player and how you could end up thinking all english players are newbies since I saw people doing certain things like a blm that dia'd and bio'd right in a row. Its just that the auto-translator is so limited that you can bearly ever get acrossed what you wanted to say or even hold a mini-converstation.

Anyways, that's it.